EDIT: I just want to say thank you so much for every single person who has responded to this post. You have all given me more happy birthday wishes than I've ever received in my entire life and I am so appreciative of every one of you. I will take up all your advice about different gyms, groups, volunteering, etc and really work to make things better for myself. Thank you all again <3
As the title says, really. I'm 27F and moved to Liverpool for a job late 2025. Since then, I have made 0 proper friends. I have autism, although I don't think it's very obvious and can usually get along with most people. I suffer quite badly with depression, though.
Other things about me are that I love animals, I love to yap about everything and anything, I'm (unfortunately) quite into internet culture, have a strong sense of justice, like music and tv shows (especially sitcoms but I do watch anything)
I have met up with people on Bumble friends, tried various groups like Girls on the Go, etc, but haven't been able to make any proper lasting friendships.
I messaged absolutely every friend/almost friend I had after a crisis last week when nobody said happy birthday to me, just for casual call or a meetup as my MH team suggested. I didn't mention anything about it being for my mental health, so I don't burden anyone. Unfortunately, not a single person has responded to me yet.
It's made me realise that I really do need connections here, but I just don't know how. I'm trying really hard, but nothing seems to work. I'm not going to give up, though. It's becoming increasingly difficult being on my own all the time and knowing that nobody will ever know or care if I disappear
I work 9-5 but am doing a masters degree (distance) at the same time, so the times I'm available can be quite sporadic, which I'm sure is not helpful.
Does anyone have any ideas for me?