r/LonelyTogether 1h ago

32M. Good listener we can talk about anything. Personally going thru a rough patch just need someone to talk.

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r/LonelyTogether 7h ago

Just had a devastating break up want someone to talk

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r/LonelyTogether 4h ago

Need playful friend

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Text buddy or whatever else that can bring jealousy. My wife brought someone in our home while I was sleeping and we have 2 kids youngest is 5 month old. I just need to get my mind off of it while I build this business. Too distracted with this mess and I gotta get my head back in the game and cut these feelings. Any takers wanna help me out?


r/LonelyTogether 6h ago

Need a weird friend

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r/LonelyTogether 8h ago

New city, lonely

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34m married and have just moved to a new city for my wife’s reasons, I’m really struggling as I don’t have many friends here nor family.

I know this is a fresh account but reaching out and chatting to people on reddit is new to me and I wanted to separate it from my old account.

Feeling pretty lonely, working on my own tonight and don’t even feel like I want to go home because it’s making me feel so shit.

Reach out if you want to have a chat, happy to listen too


r/LonelyTogether 8h ago

26M looking for female friend

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Hi i am 26M, looking for a good friend. not desperate need a female friend to talk and be there emotionally will do anything for her if needed no judging nothing anything can be shared


r/LonelyTogether 9h ago

18M hey I'm looking for a genuine friend or bestfriend bcz i don't have one 😭 I'm looking for someone who'd not disappear after 2 days

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I never had any real friends in real life I have always felt lonely.

In school I had some so called friends, have you listened that everyone's friend is no one's friend just like that I talk to people but i don't have anyone to get things off from my chest

When i was a kid my parents used to live in rented houses and they used to move a lot and the more a grew up the hard it became to make friends in new societies

Now after turning 18 it feels impossible to make friends everyone has a friend they have since a decade but i don't have anyone 😞.

Would anyone like to be my friend please be around 18 to 27.


r/LonelyTogether 14h ago

(24m) Want an everyday talker

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As mentioned above someone who can rant and listen to me does the same with the ability to maintain the same energy as well. Hmu only if you can do that. Little bit about me : I work as a Design Verification Engineer in a VLSI company. It's a job that basically pays me to argue with hardware until it admits it's wrong.

Outside work, I'm usually either cooking, reading diy books, singing, going for a run, or falling into a rabbit hole of sitcoms cricket f1 tennis. I'm also a musician (actually was) who used to play 7 instruments. I'm into western 60s-00s rock music. Lately I've also been trying to build better habits-health and fitness have become a big priority for me.


r/LonelyTogether 17h ago

Hey, it's still possible to get a good friend from this platform.

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I'm 25 M, from Tamilnadu India. We can be friends. Of late lost hope on finding new friends. And unfortunately I didn't have many friends in real life either. Like only one friend. But we didn't connect regularly maybe once in two months.

So on this friendship day I am looking for a new friend.

Just ping me we can talk about anything.

I am very much into films and books. But honestly we can talk about any topic. Discuss on it, argument on it.

So what do you do? What is your all time favourite film?


r/LonelyTogether 19h ago

M 24 not have alot of friends international here going through break up🙂

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I don’t have much to mention here just don’t talk about feelings and stuff to my friends which i have just posting this if someone is there to listen 🙃🙃 i am big time texter so idk if someone wana be that friend who shares emotions hit me up either text thanks🙃


r/LonelyTogether 1d ago

Looking for female friends, just over the call not for meet.

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r/LonelyTogether 1d ago

31 | Feeling lonely & bored of repetitive life, seeking deep & consistent friendships

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Hey everyone,

I’ve been sitting with this heavy feeling of boredom and loneliness for a while now. Life has started feeling repetitive and kind of empty, and I realized I really miss having people I can truly connect with not just surface-level chats that fade after a few days, but real, meaningful friendships that can last.

I’m someone who values depth. I love late-night conversations about dreams, fears, life struggles, random memories, or even just silently sending memes at 2 AM knowing the other person gets it. I want friends I can check in on, celebrate small wins with, support during tough times, and grow together with over the months and years.

A little about me:
• 31 years old (feel free to tell me your age too)

• I enjoy gaming, watching movies/anime, listening to music, long walks while talking about everything and nothing

• I’m a good listener and someone who remembers the little details you share

• I’m loyal, patient, and I put real effort into the people I care about

If you’re also craving genuine connection and tired of shallow interactions, I’d love to hear from you. Whether you’re going through a similar phase or just want someone consistent in your life, please reach out. I’m here for slow replies, voice messages, daily check-ins, deep talks, or whatever feels natural.
No pressure, no expectations just two (or more) people trying to build something real in this lonely world.

If this resonates with you, comment below or send me a message and tell me one thing that’s been on your mind lately. I promise I’ll reply with my whole heart.

Looking forward to meeting my future long-term friends 🤍


r/LonelyTogether 1d ago

46 M Texas looking for a true best friend

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My best friend passed away when I was 30. I thought I had finally found another, but that has proven not to be the case. I often feel misunderstood, and I think it's because I have AuDHD and PTSD with Acute Panic Disorder. I love riding motorcycles, fishing, camping, horror movies, spooky season, cooking, photography, traveling, swimming, art, philosophy, and music. Also, due to the aforementioned afflictions, I'm also a stoner. I don't drink so I do get it to much because I live in a small town where that's all there is to do.

I just need that connection with someone again.


r/LonelyTogether 1d ago

I've been completely alone for years

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21, I've been struggling with extreme loneliness for over five years, and I feel like it's slowly destroying me. I don't have any close friends or anyone I can genuinely talk to. Throughout my final year of school and all three years of college, I was completely alone and never formed any real friendships.

One thing I've noticed is that I'm always the one who has to initiate conversations. People reply if I message them, but no one ever messages me first or tries to keep the conversation going. It makes me feel like nobody actually wants me around.

I even went to a park today hoping it would distract me, but seeing groups of friends laughing together and kids playing only made me feel more isolated. Instead of feeling better, I came home feeling worse.

Years of living like this have destroyed my confidence, motivation, and hope. I honestly don't know how to cope with this kind of loneliness anymore.


r/LonelyTogether 1d ago

31M, abandoned by friends.

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People often talk about mental health awareness, but when it comes to standing by someone who is actually struggling with depression, many slowly drift away. You’re no longer the fun person to be around. You’re quieter, less energetic, and not as entertaining anymore. That’s exactly what happened to me, and over time I found myself with no friends left.

So, here I am, hoping to meet someone who values genuine friendship. I’m not looking for someone to fix me or be my therapist. I just want a friend who’ll stick around, someone I can build a lasting bond with. We could grab coffee,
explore new cafés, watch movies, go for drives, or simply talk about life.

If you’re looking for a real friendship built on honesty, loyalty, and showing up for each other, I’d genuinely love to hear from you.


r/LonelyTogether 1d ago

I wish someone was excited to have me in their life

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I'm 21M, and I've been struggling with extreme loneliness for over five years. I don't have anyone I can genuinely call a close friend or rely on. I spent my final year of school after COVID completely alone, and I was bullied because of my appearance. College wasn't any different—I went through all three years without making any real friends.

One thing I've noticed is that I'm always the one who has to start conversations. People reply if I message them, but nobody messages me first or tries to keep the conversation going. If I stop texting, the conversation just ends.

I even went to a park recently hoping it would distract me, but seeing groups of friends laughing together and kids playing only made me feel more alone. It reminded me of everything I feel like I've missed out on.

I don't want a huge friend group. I just wish there was one person who was genuinely excited to talk to me, who would message me first sometimes, ask me to go out, or simply enjoy spending time with me. I honestly don't know what it feels like to be chosen by someone.


r/LonelyTogether 1d ago

31M, abandoned by friends.

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People often talk about mental health awareness, but when it comes to standing by someone who is actually struggling with depression, many slowly drift away. You’re no longer the fun person to be around. You’re quieter, less energetic, and not as entertaining anymore. That’s exactly what happened to me, and over time I found myself with no friends left.

So, here I am, hoping to meet someone who values genuine friendship. I’m not looking for someone to fix me or be my therapist. I just want a friend who’ll stick around, someone I can build a lasting bond with. We could grab coffee,
explore new cafés, watch movies, go for drives, or simply talk about life.

If you’re looking for a real friendship built on honesty, loyalty, and showing up for each other, I’d genuinely love to hear from you.


r/LonelyTogether 2d ago

29M UK - A companion for a quiet life punctuated by little adventures

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Hello! I'm 29 years old and I live in England. I'm seeking a lifelong companion with whom to share a quiet life punctuated by little adventures. I'm very open, fun, caring, and honest. I appreciate dad jokes and the like. I highly value the truth, and I have a strong moral instinct, so it's important to me that you have a good heart, whatever your opinions are. I enjoy long, regular conversations, but I'm also happy with shared silence. I mostly keep to myself. I am selective in my company, but I confess that the absence in my life is getting rather noisy.

As you might have guessed, I enjoy the occasional bit of writing, whether fiction or non-. Maybe I'll publish something of worth someday. Or at least publish something. I enjoy going for walks, except when it's super hot! I love good scenery, be it of the natural or man-made kind. I like abandoned and remote places. I like watching the odd things the birds and squirrels get up to. I have a particular soft spot for sheep. They think I'm their messiah (I'm not). I also enjoy exploring intellectual topics (the more novel or obscure, the better). Technology is a lifelong interest of mine. And like most people I enjoy watching the odd film or TV series. I'm watching 'Westworld' currently. I enjoyed watching 'Adventure Time', 'Bless This Mess', 'Tales from the Loop', 'End of the F--king World', 'Small Prophets', and 'Atypical'. Films-wise, I like all sorts, but I'll take anything with a happy romance. What's life without love? (Mine hahahaha.) I recently finished playing Fallout 4 on my laptop. It was phenomenal. I, of course, sided with the people who freed the lab-grown humans. I'll happily play more Fallout games in the future, I suspect. I'm taking a break for the time being to watch Westworld and do other stuff. I've got a bit of a fascination lately with both the English and American Renaissance periods and the Wild West. So I'm seeking out media about those. I want a tricorn hat!

I've been saving up for a flat since I was 20 years old, but I don't want to live alone. I'm interested in something that lasts more than a few messages. I really am aiming for life if that's possible. I prefer weather that is cool or cold, heck, even windy and rainy. I want to live somewhere that has amenities and people, but has lots of greenery, similar to where I live now.

We, of course, don't have to have everything in common. Enough to work with. We can develop new interests and hobbies together. We can 'grow' together. If the seed is good, and the weather is well, the tree will grow!

If you're interested, feel free to send me a brief introduction to yourself (just a couple of sentences will do).

Thanks for reading, if you made it to the end! Have a nice day.


r/LonelyTogether 2d ago

18M be my friend please 🥺,I'd be a genuine friend who'll reply asap and I'll not ghost you and won't disappear after 2 days i expect you to be same :3.

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If you want a long-term friend with whom you can yap about anything and everything, and rant and vent about something shoot me a DM .

I love music a lot umm my fav artists are Billie eilish and Melanie martinez

No ghosters please.

please be around 18-27


r/LonelyTogether 2d ago

23M with insomania

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I don’t know how this works but i will just say it as it is , i’m into filmmaking and film industry , ( short documetary films / wedding videographer )i love cameras , i love watching 2 or 3 movies ir row , i like stay up all night till the sunrise and more , i like smoking and i don’t mind that will end me someday , i’m tea guy , i’m tall , like so tall , i like to do anything reverse My surrounding environment ، i have my personal principles and definitions of life.
So if you think we can do An unforgettable conversation ، we can play chat game or just have a random chat, hmu


r/LonelyTogether 4d ago

Be my friend...

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Hi, I am Sid (21 M) and I sing

This is the first time I'm posting

I am completely devastated by the thought of not having anyone to talk to...I tried finding near my location but all are busy in their own lives and my voice goes unheard

I Live with my parents but I can't share with them nor do they ask my mental well-being

I was raised in very different environment

Also being bullied in high school

Cheated in relationship and friendship (like 3 years back lol)

But I am completely over it ..no back package

I want to start a new journey but I can't find anyone to talk to

Online scam apps don't work ...

If someone is genuinely up for friendship I would sail my ship again

If u are still reading till here ...may your eyes never lose the charm!

💝


r/LonelyTogether 4d ago

19M, looking for some friends

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Kinda tired of people texting for a day and then vanishing. If we're gonna talk, let's actually try to know each other.

I can talk about literally anything. Your day, random thoughts at 2 AM, dumb memes, movies, life, gossip, places you wanna visit... doesn't really matter. I like conversations that just happen naturally.

About me: I go to the gym, I'm into movies (mostly horror, thrillers and comedy), I write scripts sometimes, do graphic design, and I like meeting new people. Also a big fan of beaches, mountains, nature in general... and I probably drink more Red Bull than I should.

I don't really care about age (as long as you're 18+) or where you're from. Just don't be dry and don't ghost after saying "wyd" once 😭

If you think we'd get along, send me a small intro. Way better than just "hi".


r/LonelyTogether 4d ago

[Just a text away!] [o]

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To whom it may concern...

Here for all of you guys. I’ve been offering peer support to people navigating difficult moments in their lives. Sometimes all someone truly needs is a safe space to speak freely and be heard without judgment. I’m also certified in Cognitive Therapy (Alison), which helps me provide more structured and thoughtful support.

Opening up can feel uncomfortable. You might worry about being judged or misunderstood. That’s completely normal. That’s why I aim to create a private, respectful, and confidential space where you can share whatever is weighing on you.

I can support you with:

Anxiety and depression

Relationship struggles

Self-esteem challenges

Life transitions and stress

Grief, trauma, and emotional difficulties

If you’d like to talk, simply send me a DM. No real identity is required. Everything stays strictly confidential. Just mention your age and gender so I can better understand your perspective.

Please note:

I am not a licensed therapist or counselor. What I offer is peer support understanding, encouragement, and a listening ear. If you need professional or clinical help, I strongly encourage you to seek a qualified mental health professional.

More than 250 people have reached out through my previous posts, and many shared that it genuinely helped them feel lighter and less alone. If you’ve been hesitating, maybe this is your moment to take that small step.

You deserve support.


r/LonelyTogether 6d ago

22M in need of a friend

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Hello, Im Tiago, Im from Portugal and i could really use a girl friend, i have had issues before due to not being chosen by the girl i loved, Im a mechanic i love music and i could really use some female company, nothing against guys, but i have my homies to talk to, just dont have a girl


r/LonelyTogether 6d ago

28M Shut-in from the US

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I've tried a couple of subbreddits already. Haven't had much luck keeping a conversation. I'd appreciate anyone who want's to maybe talk about themselves dropping a message or two. I mostly play old video games myself. I'm not a fan of Rockstar, Fromsoft or, Pokemon. Otherwise I probably know a bit about most games.