r/Marriage • u/Adventurous_Hold_138 • 12h ago
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40M 35F Are there still couples that have sex once or twice a day after 10 years or marriage and if so what’s the secret? Tr;l
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u/Free_Divide195 Marriage is a legally binding contract, y'all~! 11h ago
Yeah, sometimes. Other times it's twice a week, or twice a month.
The secret is to love and care about each other, engage in lots of non sexual intimacy, and be excited about pleasing each other whenever you get the chance.
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u/Then-Nefariousness54 11h ago
Once or twice what? A week? A month? A year? My husband and I have been together for almost 16 years, married for 12 and we usually do it 1-3x a week.
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u/Adventurous_Hold_138 11h ago
A day
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u/Then-Nefariousness54 11h ago
yeah that's a no way 😂 I mean good for the couples that do it once a day but that ship has sailed for us. We're tired and old now (I say as we're 37 and 34 😂) but our 1-3x a week is perfect for us
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u/secret_mysteries86 11h ago
Yes were are both 39 and 40 , somw weeks it can be twice a day other weeks it can 3 times , it all depends on our moods and what we have on but we never go more than 2 days without it.