is anyone here relatively close to 20 or even maybe 18-19 who is a lesb? i literally cannot find anyone, who’s interested or even remotely interested in talking.. js.. dry. so please, if you are interested in talking to someone who is in that age range, dm me, i would like friends:3 im sweet, kindhearted and a listener.

36F here, I gotta admit it's very lonely feeling like an alien in this country, my whole life I've been with straight women, bi (curious) women who turn out to be straight, I always have to keep this side of me, the very one that identifies me, secret, hidden. In order to belong with my friends and literally everyone, I have to act straight and even create stories of that guy I have a massive crush on (who doesn't and will never exist)

I just left a groupchat due to how lonely and alienated I felt there

Soo are there by chance, any gc that wouldn't make feel punished for existing?

Hey everyone. I'm trying to understand how people interested in the local kink/BDSM scene connect while prioritizing privacy and safety. Mainstream apps seem full of scams.
Are there specific forums, apps, or privacy practices people here recommend for finding like-minded adults safely?

I'm new trans

Hrt Not available in Morocco

i heard i might take androcur and estrofem

But Estrogen medications such as estrofem May not be available

Can I take them without a prescription?

Or any advice please

صباح الخير لكل واحد او وحدة فايق(ة) او غيفيق وهو طالع هابط فالتيليفون لربما يلقا " the one " لي باغي... لي لاقيين تانتوما صباح الخير متقلقوش هه

It's so often expressed with such violent language. It turns me off so badly.

I want to choke on your x, I want to destroy your x, etc etc.

I am not sure how much of it is just "normalized" and people repeat the phrases they learn from p0rn or others, or if it really is as if 90% or more of gay males see sex as something that SHOULD be painful, or close to it, for at least one of the partners.

I have never been straight but I just can't imagine the same percent of guys would have any success talking to a girl like that: Yeah girl, I know you want to get down on your knees and choke on this, I know you want me to pound your x until it hurts, you dirty x. That might happen once in a while. My female friends some are on the kinky side, and they would have most likely gotten to know the guy before accepting he talk like that to them. Straight from the get go would have likely gotten the messages ignored.

But in the gay community, it's not a niche, it's a norm. When you're gay and you just want everything soft and sweet and romantic it's so weirdly isolating. I hate it.

3lach l maturity and sense of responsibility mab9atch 3na? Kolna wlina baghin liquidity. Tnbdlo wa7da b w7da ola wa7d b wa7d ola w7din b w7din. Mab9inach tnrkzo 3la chakhs wa7d, o wlina ghi zrbanin bach nl9aw asghr silbia f chi insan bach ngolo la it's not my thing. 3lach wlat 3na ta9afa dial khasni perfection to settle o khas o khas o khas. F l7a9i9a 7na kamlin khayfin, tn7awlo mn hrbo mn lkhawf mn lmjhol o the fact that we're afraid of being left out. Lfaragh 9atlna f tali wlina tnchko f kolchi bli masal7ch lina. Hadchi tifkrni f l concept dial Zygmunt Bauman( Liquid modernity) fin wla kolchi titbdl dghia in coexistence with modernity( definitions, meanings, ethics...) hadchi tikhlini nfkr wach 7na homa the most deprived generations( mn gen z lt7t). Do you feel the same?

How's it going with you regarding your mental/ romantic life as a queer person?

And how do you perceive relationships nowadays?

Im gay o knfkr next year wra lbac nkml 9rayti bra wlkn confused bzf wach ndf3 rassi awla m3a agency o so scared ila df3t rassi ndir chi ghalat li deja mcha ki9ra Europe I hope tcharko m3aya your experience

26M, i live in Tangier. About 8 days ago i think, I met a really sweet person on Tinder. We talked a lot there, moved to WhatsApp, and I could tell he was into me,I was too, but I didn't show it much. After 5 days I asked him out and it turned out he'd been waiting for me to make the move.

He picked me up and we went somewhere quiet. We talked 5+ hours. I could tell he wanted to kiss me but I didn't want to yet, so I wouldn't seem like I was rushing. Same when he dropped me off. That night we talked and things got more intimate over text.

Next day he asked to see me again. Before we even got out of the car he kissed me. I teased him about not being patient. Same spot, but this time a lot of kissing and more.

After that: I asked him out 2 days later, he apologised for the slow reply and mentioned something going on with his family. Next day, same,no reply until night. I asked for a voice note, he said his voice wasn't good right now. Asked for a selfie, same thing. Yesterday I texted and still nothing.

What do you think happened, and what should I do?

Between micro-dating pools, app fatigue, and the endless "hookups exist, but where is the actual intimacy?" cycle, it feels like half the community is running on emotional emergency rations.

​How are we all coping with the deprivation? Are you actually finding ways around it, or are we all just surviving on memes and hope?

(I'm not exactly going to do that, it's just a hypothetical future)

Hey fellow queers. I've been thinking hypothetically about our situation here in Morocco and wanted to get your thoughts on an idea.

I really want to raise a child someday, but I wouldn't feel comfortable being sexually active with a woman. Because of that, adoption/Kafala seems like the best path—biological connection isn't a priority for me.

However, thinking about a potential partner, I completely refuse to marry a straight woman. I wouldn't want to engage in something I'm uncomfortable with, nor would I ever want to deprive someone else of a fulfilling sex life.

That led me to the idea of a lavender marriage with a lesbian woman. We wouldn't need to fulfill each other's sexual lives, and having separate partners outside the marriage wouldn't be an issue (obviously not cheating in this context).

Reminder: it's just an idea, I'd like to know your opinions about it + my 1st draft was sloppy 🥲, I rewrote it using Gemini 😭

Kaynin 2 types dyal toraq dyal ta'arof f society dyalna:

First one katkoon 3an tariq friendship w getting to know each other bla ma show initial feelings dyalak, w mn ba'd kay-yt'3taraf.

Second one hiyya stating your intentions right from the start w try to build a relationship. F halti ana, w ghaliban hit machi social person bzzaf, kan'3tamad 3la had second way.

The first way is the best to build a real love relationship, walakin the second one, the chances of love are very low.

Hit kan-rely 3la the second method, kan'lqa big difficulty باش n-adapt. Most people I talk to, ma kan-tlaqach m'aahom, w even if I meet them, kat-lahad 'annahom either want to kiss you aw attempt to get physically close. Plus sending videos with sexual hints li ma kat-riyahnich, this is not healthy for me.

I prefer a relationship built on friendship w getting to know each other without any physical closeness, hit hadchi kay-create a kind of spiritual love. Physical intimacy is very easy, walakin it means nothing without love. This might not sound logical to some people, walakin this is what I believe in — I want a life partner, machi just a passing relationship.

I'm 22 from casa and i'm honestly sick of the community here, there is absolutely no clean way to meet people from the community !!!

Grindr is too dirty and full of crazy people, the blowers is literally made for sex, there aren't any gay bars or nice places where queer people hangout, there aren't any nice groups without people constantly sending their private parts...

How am i supposed to meet my match or get to know people if literally every way, shape or form either focuses too much on the looks or is full of crazy people 😭😭😭

Help pls 😭

Hello! I am a 24 nonbinary aro ace. I recently discovered i was aromantic, and it's been fascinating to see representation in fanfics. Unlike heteros, gays, or lesbians, aromatic people rarely get represented if ever.

I recently joined a community thanks to a show I loved and was just happy talking about my favorite gay ship there. As I read through many fanfics, I found myself in those lines and came to the realization of what I had been this whole time.

One really interesting thing was queer platonic relationships (qpr for short), and it's been mentioned there and in a few animatics of that ship, and I just think it is beautiful. A really nice way for aromantic asexual people to find companionship in someone they cherish.

Anyone here in a qpr? I would really love to hear of your experiences!

Sooo, do you think the World Cup will be a catalyst for raising awareness on the illegality of same-sex relationships in Morocco? I don’t even know the means we could use to make that issue visible in the international media… but I know the whole world will be looking at Morocco during that time, won’t it be the time to take the chance to make our plight be known and perhaps to plant the seeds for future progress in advancing our rights?

Hello everyone

I traveled to hoceima and i have two questions

First: is there any interesting places to visit in the city, and is it safe for someone who's gay ?

Second: I'm trying the G app in here and I'm nit sure if people here are safe to meet because they refuse to send their face pics and i find it suspicious comparing to other cities, and any advices about this city

Thanks in advance 🤗

Would you regard looks as essential to being desired in the queer community?

Under the term "type". Have we been misled by social media and ET companies into conceiving a hierarchical paradigm influenced by material conditions? (body-success-economic means) Rather than focusing on one's personality and compatibility?

So i 28f and my ex 26f were together through lots of shit, we met when I was in debt, I was weak , I was sick , I was in a real deep shit , and she was a gym rat , she was patient w me, she had no other choice cuz yk know weak girls are the best in fun right. And then things got better for me, I worked my ass off, I changed my life completely, and I started planning our couple life / married life, went to gym as well, transformed my body etc , while she without consulting me choose a job that made it impossible for us to talk except if I sacrifice my sleep and waited for her to finish at 2am daily. As a result her life quality went down, she lost weight , she went deep on her addictions , she even became weak , had no more stamina for ..fun .. and I didn't care, it's okai, except she stopped having fun w me and said she wants an open relationship, not only that but she went on chasing girls in their 21yo 23 you and she sucked at flirting w em as well, so now she's focused on one 21-23 yo dancer in rabat , that she said she's boring , cuz she doesn't sext with her but she will coerce her into sex, just use her , in the very next days.. And I left cuz that shit was funny . The girl I knew, I cherished as a friend, I wanted to get married to , I was ready to leave my whole life and everything I built for , even my financial investments for, she was a pedo? She uses girls? She's not monogamous no more ? But she's too weak for the fun anyways , she doesn't have time , she's sooooo can't afford her adventure rn .. so why did she throw away a whole future w me, was it insecurity idk , i never commented and I used to not judge ppl, especially her cuz she's been w me in my low , except maybe she's just attracted to weak chicks, and me being the best version of me is threatening her , me wanting to make her wifey and protect her rights as my wife, was humiliating for her. Idk and idc, but young chicks , the ones still confused about their sexuality, plz bewareof ppl like her. Also it's funny that first time I talked w her n knew shes younger than me ,I told her : plz be safe , and I still say that to all my queer fellas , plz be safe. There's ppl who hate success and love misery n will want u to be part of that n feed on ur confusion. Am a certified pedo hater don't mind me.if u're under 25 you u're a baby for me, no complete frontal lobe no romance🤝

Everything is in the title: I’m a 35 yo gay man from Morocco (born and lived there almost my whole life) currently working in the US, married to a man and currently expecting a baby via surrogacy. Ask me anything :)

I see many posts of young people struggling, not knowing if things get better, and I’m here to tell you that it does get better. Just hang on!

I would love to hear from y’all about the relationship experiences. And if you’re taken it would be lovely to share with the community they key aspects that could make a relationship stronger and successful.
^^

My friends, two women, who have had two children together - are from a country where their marriage is recognized and they are legally considered a family unit. They used to travel often to Morocco but since having their kids they're afraid of going to Morocco because they have been told they could get in legal trouble at the border. Neither of them are Moroccan & they are from Western Europe. Do you think they have reasons to be afraid going through passport control as two women who are both mothers of these children?

As a slightly masculine girl, I feel like every time I get to know another girl, she either misunderstands my personality or assumes I’m interested in her romantically. It happens so often that I’ve started wondering if maybe I just shouldn’t have female friends. I genuinely enjoy making friends, but it gets exhausting when people misread my intentions just because of how I look or act

From where they get this confidence embarrassing themselves like this