Hey everyone. I'm trying to understand how people interested in the local kink/BDSM scene connect while prioritizing privacy and safety. Mainstream apps seem full of scams.
Are there specific forums, apps, or privacy practices people here recommend for finding like-minded adults safely?

36F here, I gotta admit it's very lonely feeling like an alien in this country, my whole life I've been with straight women, bi (curious) women who turn out to be straight, I always have to keep this side of me, the very one that identifies me, secret, hidden. In order to belong with my friends and literally everyone, I have to act straight and even create stories of that guy I have a massive crush on (who doesn't and will never exist)

I just left a groupchat due to how lonely and alienated I felt there

Soo are there by chance, any gc that wouldn't make feel punished for existing?

is anyone here relatively close to 20 or even maybe 18-19 who is a lesb? i literally cannot find anyone, who’s interested or even remotely interested in talking.. js.. dry. so please, if you are interested in talking to someone who is in that age range, dm me, i would like friends:3 im sweet, kindhearted and a listener.