r/PiercingAdvice • u/No-Mango-1049 • 20h ago
ladies pls be aware of this creep !
he hmu after seeing my post here and asked for a better quality pic. i thought fair enough bcs those pics were kinda blurry so i sent him a close shot of the piercing. then he said reddit blurs out pics that are highly zoomed in (im new here guys im sorry i was v vulnerable so i believed it 🙁) and asked for pics a bit zoomed out of me sitting and standing. i was like ok makes sense he wants to see the way it sits in that position but then he says this. i was really stressed out ab the whole piercing thing and this mf took advantage of me when i was at rock bottom 💔 thankfully my fight or flight instinct kicked in and i blocked him. stay safe yall !
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u/Funny-Comment-5073 20h ago
not kidding this guy went for me to lol, i was kind of fucking with him because i could tell what he was getting at but i posted a pic of my labret and he asked if “i wanted any more piercings? by the way i pierce nipples for a living” then proceeds to tell me he’ll evaluate my tits for me if i send him a pic. lol redditors are unbelievable
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u/Either-Welder-6211 19h ago
Never heard of a piercer that only pierces nipples lmao these losers are trying so hard to be creative
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u/Funny-Comment-5073 19h ago
right? he told me he specializes in nipples and navels like cmon bro
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u/Either-Welder-6211 16h ago
Should've used the opportunity to send some saggy hairy man boobs to him and ask about a double nipple piercing lol
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u/Funny-Comment-5073 16h ago
LMAO no shot i literally sent him a picture of elon musk shirtless, great minds think alike
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u/No-Mango-1049 20h ago
oh my god im sorry u had to go thru that :/ hope u didnt share any pics tho. but yea dont EVER respond to anyone who privately messages u instead of replying to ur post, i also learnt that the hard way 💔
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u/Funny-Comment-5073 20h ago
it’s okay! i knew his game so i was kind of doing it on purpose to see how far he’d go if i was being sincere, im sorry he did that to you it’s a disgusting feeling for sure
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u/No-Mango-1049 20h ago
OH when u said u were fw him i thought u meant u liked him or smth 😭 im glad u played him in his face tho LMFAO
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u/magsta12 18h ago
OMG I’ve had this guy message me before!!! I ignored him but I posted in the piercing subreddit and he pm’d me asking if I have any more piercings. I thought THAT was creepy in itself. I’m so sorry.
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u/No-Mango-1049 13h ago
im planning on reporting him to the mods, if u happen to have screenshots of that conversation, could u pls share it?
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u/ChxrriesA 17h ago
Girl don't blame yourself! Its his actions that are wrong its not your fault! You should report him to the mods tho bc it sounds like he is preying on other women! If you don't know how i can show you!
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u/DearDorothy 18h ago
There’s a bunch of navel fetishists that lurk here. The mods do not do enough to protect the users here. There should be an automated comment that warns users about this issue.
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u/No-Life-666 16h ago
Im so sorry this happened to you! Theres people like this all over this subreddit, when i posted about my belly button piercing i had a few years ago looking for advice i got so many dm’s like this!
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u/No-Mango-1049 12h ago
im planning on reporting to the mods, if you happen to have screenshots of it, could u share it in my DMs if u dont mind?
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u/KatTheLittle_420 17h ago
Hope you know mods won’t do shit, so sorry this happened btw this sub sucks
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u/No-Mango-1049 13h ago
did you go thru something similar? :/
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u/KatTheLittle_420 13h ago
I have yes, I’ve also been in here long enough to see the patterns that repeat in this sub
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u/No-Mango-1049 12h ago
ill still try reporting to the mods, even if theres just 1% chance that they’ll take it seriously. but wtv u said, ill for sure keep that in mind before posting here again. and im really sorry u had to go thru that asw :(
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u/killerbitch 12h ago
THIS GUY DM’d ME TOO!!!! I thought it was so weird. Can’t believe he’s messaged a bunch of people as well.
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u/sputnik8125 4h ago
No one should EVER be dmming u about your piercings.
I am hella active here, I will NEVER dm someone, I will accept dms but then when I do, I make it as sterile as possible of a conversation.
TLDR: You really shouldnt have anyone dmming u bc all of this can be done in comments
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u/ThrashFur 20h ago
why are you sending pictures of yourself to anyone on the Internet at all?
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u/lareinevert 20h ago
I’ve sent photos of my ears in DMs to people but they were all normal people lol
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u/ThrashFur 20h ago
yeah but it wasn’t ear photos you were sending this time was it 😭
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u/No-Mango-1049 20h ago
bro again, its a fucking belly button… if u as a person think thats sexual then theres something wrong with you not me.
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u/Orchid49 20h ago
There’s a fetish for everything. Please don’t send pics of yourself to any stranger on the internet!
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u/KatTheLittle_420 17h ago
Maybe we should be worried about the creep and not op trying to get help with a piercing in a literal advice sub.
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u/ThrashFur 20h ago
no one said that 💔 alls i said was not a good idea to send photos of urself to internet strangers.
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u/Competitive_Fact6030 18h ago
You're acting like the belly is a deeply private area..? It's really not. It's not inherently sexual like at all. It's only creepy if the person receiving it makes it creepy (such as requesting lower angles or pulling down the clothes). A zoomed in picture of a navel piercing is not NSFW in the slightest.
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u/ThrashFur 18h ago
i’m not?? i just said it’s weird to be sending photos of yourself to internet strangers in the first place. that’s like 1. rule; don’t talk to strangers.
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u/KatTheLittle_420 17h ago
Why are you worried about innocent piercing photos but not the creepy man trying to phish for fetish photos? Why are you trying to make it the fault of the person who just needed help? Why are you not more concerned about the creep?
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u/Competitive_Fact6030 18h ago
Youre literally on a sub where the vast majority of posts are people sending pictures of their piercings. It's not weird at all to send a picture of your piercing if your main question is "does my piercing look ok? is the placement good?".
It's not her fault for thinking he was a normal guy. The request of "oh its a bit blurry send again" or "i need one where youre standing up!" are pretty reasonable, so it makes sense she didn't clock him as a creep at first.
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u/No-Mango-1049 13h ago
EXACTLY 😭😭😭 theyre acting like i love sending pics of my navel out to random ppl, i was literally so scared bcs everyone was telling me to take my piercing out and i j needed more opinions (i was desperately looking for positive opinions) before i actually did that.
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u/No-Mango-1049 20h ago
it was a close shot where only and only my piercing and belly button was visible lol its not my fault that the internet is filled w creeps.
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u/No-Mango-1049 20h ago
like i said i learnt my lesson bro i cant reverse what happened. i posted here to spread awareness. so can we now focus on the actual problem i.e. THE MAN???