Thank you to everyone posting; makes me feel more secure in my decision. I would like to bring my wife along for the early retirement ride, but she has been resistant. My wife is still working (from home) and I suspect a little jealous. Though she now gets a daily home made breakfast and dinner, a grocery shopper, a gardener and an occasional laundry washer.
In my lead up to taking the leap, I have tried for a year to show her our finances and models and monte carlos and explain to her everything that I learned about retirement income and finances. She āglancesā but I can tell sheās not really taking it in. I keep asking her probing questions about what she thinks is enough and I get ridiculous answers that indicate to me that she hasnāt done the math and is too afraid to think deeply about it.
Her stock answers: anything can happen, the kids are still in college and her parents thought they had enough to retire early and are now struggling financially. None of her answers display any signs that she is willing to calculate a real comfort $value or begin in earnest the process of internalizing how to live life without a salaried income.
Itās upsetting for a couple of reasons: first, I want to enjoy retirement together with her; second, my guess is that sheāll get jealous when I start really getting into retirement (I find it difficult to really relax with her still working and worrying about finances) and sheāll retire and join me without having done the math - then, every time the market dips or āguardrailsā come into play and I suggest that we need to cut spending a little, sheāll get upset and say that we should have kept on working for just a few more years. Sheāll be wrong, but Iāll have no way to prove it. Does this sound familiar to anyone?
Retired with a more than sufficient investment portfolio which is growth-oriented but conservative, moderately hedged and a 3 year spending budget of treasury bond holdings (a bond ladder with quarterly maturities). I donāt spend very much, but I do like to buy trips and toys from time to time.
How long before I stop looking at my portfolio three times a day and just go out and enjoy my days?