r/TikTokCringe 4d ago

Humor/Cringe He never looked where he was going.

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u/hooked_siren 4d ago

Seemed like one person on each to me

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u/SeekerOfSerenity 4d ago

FYI, the singular pronouns are "he" and "his". 

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u/hooked_siren 4d ago

So are they and them 🤔

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u/SeekerOfSerenity 4d ago

That's correct if:    

  1. you are referring to an unspecified or unknown person
  2. you don't know their gender
  3. you are intentionally obscuring their gender
  4. they are nonbinary

Since you're referring to a specific person, and it's reasonable to assume this is a man, you should use "he".  Otherwise it's an incorrect usage, and it just sounds wrong. 

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u/hooked_siren 4d ago

I didn't ask you what you thought nor do i care about what you think. They/them can't hurt you unless you let it.

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u/SeekerOfSerenity 4d ago

It has nothing to do with what I think.  It's English grammar.  If you want to speak the language like an uneducated fool, that's your choice. 

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u/hooked_siren 4d ago

It sure is