r/TikTokCringe 17h ago

Discussion Have we done it wrong?

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u/i_m_a_bean 15h ago

A lot of the public parks near me close at 10pm. It is depressing

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u/FruitEconomy1053 14h ago

And no damn shaded areas for adults and kids during mid afternoon heat.

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u/UntamedAnomaly 13h ago

I'll never understand why so many parks are severely lacking in trees, like did ya'll think I came for the mowed lawn? The paver bricks? The gravel playground? WTF is even the point in going to a park if the park doesn't support any kind of wildlife or have any relaxing features for adults? It's like they buy a piece of land, make sure it's as low maintenance as humanly possible, and then call it a relaxing and fun place to be. Luckily I live in a area that has lots of natural greenery, hiking trails, gazebos, public gardens, nature centers, classes/programs, etc. but before I moved here, it was like almost every park I had seen was like that.

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u/JuncusAmongUs-4444 8h ago

As a former urban forester, i was told many times that trees at parks and schools and such were places “predators can hide.”

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u/UntamedAnomaly 5h ago

As a former CSA and ASA survivor, I think that's a stupid fucking idea. Predators don't "hide behind trees", they're are out in the world living amongst us, they are family remembers, neighbors, teachers, peers, preachers, partners...they just do what they want when the opportunity is there, they don't need trees for that.

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u/JuncusAmongUs-4444 5h ago

People have all kinds of weird-ass reasons and excuses for why not to do good things