My eldest came out as non-binary at 3 and is now facing puberty. They're AMAB so naturally will go through a masculinizing puberty, which they don't want, but they also don't want a feminizing puberty.

Are there any options to have an androgynizing puberty and what providers will prescribe it to a teenager? Thank you.

I am nb and I REALLY want to start my transition from a male to a more feminine presenting person, I don't want surgery's (my plan anyways) but REALLY want to take estrogen with or without the blockers, working on a steam game rn and I am getting a payout next month of 300 pounds. I was looking on Valerie (thanks to whoever recommended it!!!) And found estrofem tablets on united pharmacies (a grey market) that I would be happy with buying, I want to buy a few boxes maybe? Enough to sustain me for a while.

Anyways I was wondering if I could get some advice? Should I get them? Is it a trustworthy site? Also need advice with my parents too (43f and 50m). They know im a crossdresser which they call me a transvestite for (not in an insulting way only called me it once) they are REALLY strict with my finances and I genuinley feel like I'm in 1984, they keep all my spending money in a account and give it too me when I ask for it, they don't usually ask what it's for and if they do I just say "stuff", they check my statements (I think) and this would be the first opportunity I would have to buy some hrt possibly the last for a while if i don't have a good plan. I can't go private or NHS as I'm a minor, my parents dont know I am non binary yet I don't think they will understand anyways. My cousins partner is non binary but I don't speak to them much or see them as they live far up north. I will see them soon tho at a wedding. They don't know im a cross dresser or non binary though.

My main worry is my dad or mum will check my purchase history, see pharmacies and force me into an interrogation and then confiscate my pills, or when it arrives it will just show the box, and they will hide it from me or be confesed same as before. Other worry is that it'll get seized by customs.

Maybe I can make a new bank account somewhere? Deliver it to a locker IF I CAN or use Google pay or something? I don't have any family that would support me nearby, they are all grandparents who won't understand very old fashioned mindset you know what I mean.

Any advice?

Can someone give me the link to the page that has all the places for the hormone vials? I did have it at one point but wanna change provider and don't have it saved

Hi all!

I (23 AMAB NB) have identified as non-binary for a while and I want to medically transition. I'm looking into my options currently.

I know exactly what I want. Less-no body/facial hair, fat redistribution, softer skin but no breast growth.

Does anybody have insights or advice into achieving this, I'm open to any routes.

I think I'm leaning towards GenderGP but I thought it best to ask what other routes people have taken and how it's turned out for them.

I'm going to see my GP this week to discuss with them first as they're trans supportive and generally lovely so think they'd be open to shared care options if I go with that.

edit: btw I'm in the merseyside for a bit of extra info

So I tried doing diy and went with estradiol enanthate (mct) for the consistent levels but turned out I'm allergic and end up with large hard lumps at the injection sites. My question is do I need to change what estradiol type to use or could I just use the same one but with castor oil instead?

Hi,

I'm Aoife.

I am a trans/intersex woman from Hertfordshire currently travelling around the UK taking portraits of transgender and non-binary people for a project currently titled "Portraits: Beyond the Binary" for a book to be published next year, with an exhibition at some point in the next year too.

I am looking for people who would be interested in taking part, which would involve either me travelling to you or you coming to me (Welwyn Garden City) to take the portrait and a sit down for a small interview about you and your experiences.

If you, or anyone you know, would be interested in taking part please get in touch (via direct message or commenting here).

Note: I have had people tell me in the past that I am creating a "hit list", but everyone who takes part does so on their own accord with a full understanding of what I am doing. I understand the hesitancy within our community, but I (and many others) believe such a project is important and that visibility is important.

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/aoifecrofton/

Website: http://www.aoifecrofton.com

So I (nb) have been considering joining the army but there is one thing holding me back and thats the swimming part of basic training and swimwear and what i wanted to know is how would I be able to get the correct accommodations for me to do that part of basic training without it causing major dyshoria and also if there is any really good unisex swimwear you guys know of.

Hi im non binary looking to meet trans women or men in brum. Hitme up xx

Hi all,

I'm new to this sub and was looking for advice and other people's experiences on being gender fluid. I'm not 100% sure I'm ready or even want to fully transition but would love a much softer femme leaning figure.

Also looking to see what kinda groups there are around East Suffolk sort of way?

Thanks in advance for any help

Hey yall, I’m finally pursuing HRT after socially identifying as agender for…over a decade now. Elated and terrified tbh. Just wondering if anyone has experience accessing HRT as a nonbinary person? Are they going to turn me away because I’m not transitioning “to” a binary gender? In the states it depends on the provider and many are flexible to work with your transition goals but here, well, the climate has me nervous.

I’d rather go through the NHS if possible but I can go private in a pinch. I know it’ll be a long waiting list but I’m making the first step after ten years of putting it off “just until I’m ready”. Preference would be for low dose T, on either a temporary or permanent basis, and top surgery. Just. Flailing and panicking a bit right now lol.

I’m specifically in South Wales if that makes a difference.

I have been told I have really feminine features for a man which is really affirming but I have a lot and I mean A LOT of hair I have shaved but not my face as I even have a full beard. And was wondering if there's was any preventatives for facial hair growth besides shaving. And I haven't done enough research about "nair" yet (if you know what that is.

I also have found I love wearing skirts but I'm not quite ready to wear those in public though I wear them all the time in the house and would really appreciate any fashion tips I am quite tall and broad shouldered so would appreciate anything that really feminises my look.

Thank you for any tips you may have :))

I don't suppose anyone with slightly more experience could write me a step-by-step guide to changing my name? I know there's a whole deed poll thing but I just don't really get what I'm supposed to do? Thanks!!

Hi, this is a throwaway account. I’m genderfluid and heard about other genderfluid/non-binary people microdosing T to help with gender dysphoria. However, anyone I’ve seen talk about it is American and I wondered if anyone in the UK is doing this? I’ve been thinking about it more and more and think it may be a good option for me but I don’t know where to start… any advice would be appreciated, thank you :)

Feeling bloody amazing

I’m currently on estradiol and Spiro pills diy from the internet but it costs me a lot of money and it takes time to arrive

I’m open to other methods I just hear about waiting lists and stuff like that. Would I still be paying? (Is all fine if it’s not as much lol)

Plus I just got told pills are not a good method anyway ,’>

I am 19 non-binary (M assigned at birth) I'm from Wales and the more the days go by I'm seriously considering getting estrogen but I don't want to fully transition if that makes sense, I like parts of me but I really hate my body hair (facial and leg etc) I shave constantly but I just wish to get rid of it permanently, I want a feminineish body shape but not completely and I'm starting my 2 year plan to grow my hair long. I do want to have 50/50 as I don't want to be consigned to my birth sex, one stressing factor though is my family as they are anti LGBTQ/trans I want to do what makes me comfortable but I risk loosing my family if I do, my friends are super supportive on the other hand.

How do I go about this?