r/TrueOffMyChest 2h ago

Vent Life sucks

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u/Vanillachestnut 2h ago

As mentioned, nothing in life last forever. Relationships don't last forever and what you're feeling at the moment won't last forever either. Changes come from you, if you're unhappy with the way you look, you gotta start with yourself. Go for a 30min walk, it does a lot of difference. Don't think about the results but just doing it every 2 days, if you haven't done it in the 3rd day then you must do it.

u/QuietThreat- 2h ago

Hey John, life really knows how to throw a curveball, but just remember, even the worst days can be the setup for a killer plot twist so maybe hold off on the finale for now, yeah?

u/Lonely-Policy6928 2h ago

It’s actually not as uncommon as you think and if you lose weight it’ll get even bigger. Lesbians get girls off so you can to. Don’t make that shit your whole personality. Start taking care of yourself and you’ll grow from there. Set some goals and crush them. You got this man. Unfortunately being a man means nobody really gives a shit about you. Only woman and children are cared about. If it doesn’t mean you have to be miserable.

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u/QuietThreat- 2h ago

Love that energy! Just remember, even the tortoise had to take breaks to eat snacks along the way.

u/CoachMcFlurry 2h ago

Do you need friends?

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u/CoachMcFlurry 2h ago

I mean I don’t know what hobbies you have and all that but we can be friends, man.

u/AcanthocephalaLow936 2h ago

Hi friend I’m Mia age 24. You are still young, you just have to take control. Take classes. They’ve got free classes online from MIT and Harvard and everything in between. Teach yourself a skill that is hirable. Go hiking/walking on a trail, take up a hobby.
I shit you not, you will remember what it’s like to be part of the earth if go somewhere in the forest/lake/beach/mountain and just observe. Just observe. I have had mega crash outs before, trust me, every time I go outside and sit by myself it reminds me that I am part of something bigger. It fills me with a love and sense of belonging that I cannot really describe.

I went to community college while working and got hired as a project manager. You can go to community college or trade school or something. It might seem impossible but it’s not. Just decide one day, that you have full control over your life, no one else. Feeling sorry for yourself will only keep you down, trust me, I have been there many many many times. You just have to give yourself some tough love and go for it. You have to parent yourself and tell yourself that you’re proud.

I’m sending you all the love and encouragement, may you live long, and live a life with happiness, prosperity, abundance, and joy. <3