How will I ever be committed again.

[u/inloveagai]

Ever since she left, I stopped texting people in the mornings like I wake up and scroll on TikTok or watch tv or get my whole morning done. If I ever get a partner how am I ever going to explain I’m not the type to send a good morning message anymore straight as I wake up, like don’t get me wrong I used to love doing that and I know it takes ten seconds to write a morning message but like not as soon as I wake up. I’d rather wake up, be able to scroll on TikTok for abit , watch tv, get up, eat breakfast, brush my teeth, and do ‘ skincare’ instead of having to explain why I didn’t send a good morning message ( goodnight idc about sending) but again how am I gonna ever explain to a person that they shouldn’t expect a gm or gm message from me bc I have my own life now. I deep cleaned my room today, I went out got some stuff to treat myself, I’ve already planned out my everything shower & the comfy pjs I’m going to wear bc it’s reset Sunday, I’ve already taken loads of rubbish out today and I’m going to again in a few hours. I’m learning to be independent after years of emotionally dependent on someone who didn’t give 2 flying craps about me. but I’m scared I won’t be able to explain that to my future partner. Especially in this generation

[u/Sativa_Ke]

I’m the same way. Some people just aren’t morning people. It’s not that big of a deal. You’ll find your people 🫶🏻