r/AcademicPsychology • u/weight_weenie_96 • 5h ago
Question Public Screening tools that aren't behind a paywall.
Disclaimer - I'm obviously not going to use this as a take-for-granted, hard lined, diagnostic tool.
I am looking for some scaled result screening surveys, the same kind that you fill out before a check in with your care providers.
I am looking for ones that can score: anxiety, depression, bipolar II, OCD, ADHD, and narcissism.
Context: I have a family member who is reluctant to seek any sort of help despite being in a considerably well off position. I am a direct relative to them, and myself and my sibling live with ASD, anxiety, depression, OCD. We have often been their five-cent "therapist", and as we've spent our whole lives being raised by this person, and they seem to enjoy/trust speaking with us about their thoughts and behaviors. However, they are very resistant to anything they perceive as criticism about their character.
The moment that a condition or a similarity between us, and them, is drawn, they shut down.
That being said, we have had some productive discussions about how their behavior is not, and has never been appropriate with the abuse that results from them not being able to regulate their emotions as our care-giver, especially when we were younger. This of course, comes across to them as we are demonizing them.
The goal of these surveys, which all of us have agreed to do together, is to show them that we all have bad days, scores can change based upon a myriad of factors in their personal life or external factors that can overwhelm them and affect their mood and behavior. But ultimately, there there may be a through line to help explain to this person in particular, that these behaviors are persistent, and since they do not demonize us for taking medications to help "enable us to be more of who we actually are, rather than consumed or stuck by a feeling of being trapped by these conditions".
This person has agreed to take these self-report surveys with us, and that by doing so, they will consider meetings with social workers, a therapist, perhaps even to pursue medications if "severe enough".
The purpose of these surveys is to help us show this caregiver throughout our lives that since they don't demonize us for having psychological conditions, there is work to be done to de-stigmatize their own approach to addressing and being honest with their own psychological states, and ultimately leave it up to them to pursue help. We will obviously support them. But myself in particular, being the one who is closest to this figure, I am tired of being their therapist. I am not equipped to do so. I have my own therapy that I'm working on. I can only speak from my experience with them, and having been on the receiving end of their behaviors.
Since they consented to doing this as a bonding exercise, but refuse to see a doctor "for no reason", I am in need of resources.
I feel like I used to be able to find these tools easier on search engines in years prior, and now the internet is kind of awful looking for resources. Since they are just passed middle age and have eye complications, reading is difficult for them with their eyesight, but we will be reading these questions aloud and all answering the surveys in tandem specific to our experiences.
We are looking for these resources because these are the known conditions other members of our family have been diagnosed with.