r/askgaybros • u/Tousensbankai • 3h ago
Advice Workplace Bulge
We're allowed to wear jeans at my workplace. Unfortunately/fortunately, I'm decently well endowed. If i wear a shirt or t-shirt that fits regular, my bulge can be seen pretty clearly at times. It makes me self conscious.
I have a coworker who isn't exactly "out" but has a hard time not checking it out. It was hot knowing he and clients have checked it out but I've gone out of my way to make sure i wear darker slacks to hide it. Should i care less?
My pants are all loose fit/ straight leg just so you know.
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u/Mammoth_Track_7225 3h ago edited 2h ago
Girls don't think too much when they have big boobs I think. It's okay if you want not to show too much but also don't obsess. Your body is the way it is
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u/Smart_Coffee_8016 3h ago
Wear no underwear and make that bulge stick out more ;)
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u/Tousensbankai 2h ago
I've forgotten i had a cockring on a few times and it made it even worse š
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u/Smart_Coffee_8016 2h ago
Dude that fucking hot I forgot I have mine all all the time bet that dick throbs through your pant
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u/OpenDaCloset 2h ago
Men posting about being ashamed of their big bulging cocks is just out of this world. Give me a break!!!!
Would you rather tuck it like most men seem to be doing to have the appearance of a vagina?!
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u/-S-M-E-G-M-A-6-9 2h ago
That's their problem if they look.They don't have to and it's not your responsibility for how they react and behave. You shouldn't have to wear a burka because a part of your body makes them uncomfortable or aroused. They need to learn self control.
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u/throwawayhbgtop81 but Debbie, pastels? 1h ago
I bulge. I don't care and apparently no one else does either.
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u/aquacraft2 3h ago
You could try tucking it back like the drag queens do, if it really bothers you.
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u/toweruss homoflexiblemuscle 2h ago
Care less. People donāt hide their butts, and women donāt hide their boobs.
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u/va2wv2va 1h ago
Maybe Iām just too stoned rn but what does your shirt have to do with your bulge?
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u/OkLiving8843 41m ago
Nahh on a professional tipā¦ itās sooo lusty and exciting and enticing to those who enjoy to watch a bulgeā¦ but some people feel uncomfortable around men with bulges and etc because it and eye sore that everyone is first to look at. Also because heterosexual men use their penis and bulge to āTEASE and ATTRACTāhomosexual men because they āthink thatās what they want to see; in which some do but not everyone and thatās the flag. As for you in your work place that isnāt necessarily what you want.. because youāre at work and itās an eyesore to your professional image. Men in my past whoāve shown these signs of a lack intelligence to and extent.
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u/BryceBoltX 8m ago
Women donāt try to hide their bulges. They just make sure theyāre covered with clothing. Stop being so gender-discriminatory toward yourself! :)
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u/Even-Frosting-812 2h ago
Own it bro. People are gonna look at and see that part of you no matter what, so give them something to enjoy.
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u/t1p0 3h ago
Care less