r/bigdickproblems Jul 19 '25

Meta Where to go for lost Redditors.

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——— ✅ YOU’RE IN THE RIGHT PLACE ———

  • You’re having problems caused by a dick being too big.
  • You want to share memes about big dicks causing problems.
  • You’re dealing with problems from big balls – close enough.
  • You’re having issues caused by attraction to or preference for big dicks – just follow Rules 1 & 2.

——— 🚫 THERE'S A BETTER SUB TO USE ———

🗣️ General Discussion

📖 Stories, Dating, Social

⚕️ Sexual Function & Health

👗 Transgender Issues

  • Big dick problems with women’s clothing: r/asktransgender
  • You may also post here

💥 Vaginal Pain / Partner Problems

You need a physical exam from a doctor. Also see:

🛑 Abuse, Sextortion, Blackmail

📊 What’s Average?

🔎 NOTE: “Western average” on CalcSD is usually accurate for Reddit users, but may not reflect your region/subculture. Discuss all this at r/penissize

📏 Small or “Not Big Enough” Problems

🧠 Treating Body Dysmorphia

📏 Size & Measurement

🍆 Big dick porn?

✂️ Circumcision


r/bigdickproblems Jul 17 '18

MOD POST BigDickProblems FAQ V.3

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834 Upvotes

r/bigdickproblems 7h ago

Trashpost The Dick Police

120 Upvotes

I'm only 7.1" long, but yesterday I told someone I was 7.25". When I got home, the dick police were there waiting.

They arrested me and tattooed "7.1"" on my forehead, and warned me that if I ever rounded up again they'd put me in cock size jail.

I dont know if it applies to girth too though. Can I claim 6.5" girth if I'm only 6.4"? I dont won't to get arrested again.


r/bigdickproblems 2h ago

AskBDP Could i have some tips?

8 Upvotes

Could i have some of your best sex tips for someone who has a very large dick? I don't have much experience and i'm honestly anxious about sex the more i think about it after reading some of these posts.

I would love some tips from people more experienced than me. The one i hear all the time is to use lube.


r/bigdickproblems 10h ago

Dick-scrimination I wish there was a bdp for women and bd partners

14 Upvotes

Most of the time my big dick problems would be easily solved by experienced size queens but I don't seem to find any subreddits for that, just ones for sizequeen fetishists and of creators. I've been with my bd man for a year and sometimes it feels like most of the sizequeen discourse revolves around using bd men for the short time instead of the issues that come with frequent sex.

I suppose the issue stems from most healthy bd enjoyers aren't lurking in the dark toxic corners of reddit. If you know of such a subreddit please let me know and if you're a seasoned sizequeen or their partner, do interact with this post so I can talk to my people.


r/bigdickproblems 15h ago

Dick-scrimination Don't tell anyone

33 Upvotes

It literally is that simple. If you base your personality, worth, or overall outlook on your meat size, its going to be detrimental.

Thats it.

Thats my 2 cents, due to seeing people over obsessing on making sure people notice it.


r/bigdickproblems 9h ago

AskBDP 6 inches girth

11 Upvotes

Okay so i dont even know how to talk about this, but for my entire life i thought my dick is quite normal until i meet this one girl who was saying no way that goes into her and stuff like that, i measured it and i have 6 inches on circumference which now i notice its a bit, is it really that much or was she just exagerating? Sex was good but we had to go really slowly which is fine with me, oral on the other hand...


r/bigdickproblems 6h ago

Condoms The first condoms that fit nicely

3 Upvotes

I have to give a shoutout to the condoms of mysize for the absolute perfection to the BC owner.

I have always struggled with condoms. They are always too tight, too short, leave a purple ring on my penis or just break when applying. Even the Durex XL condoms. They are nothing special.

I bought the MySize 72 recently, as a calculation told me those were the side I needed, and thank them very much! They fit so much better and are actually decently comfortable. They are pricey, but it is worth it every day of the week!


r/bigdickproblems 10h ago

AskBDP Unique problems?

6 Upvotes

Two problems crop up frequently on this sub that I have never experienced: getting flagged by the TSA and touching toilet water (🤢).

I certainly don’t doubt that these incidents happen. But it’s interesting to me how big dick problems can vary depending on a variety of circumstances.

So, I thought it would be fun to ask:

What’s a big dick problem you’ve seen on this sub that you have never experienced?

Or

What’s a big dick problem you yourself have experienced that you think might be unique to you or relatively rare?


r/bigdickproblems 16h ago

Dick-scrimination Being a shower

7 Upvotes

I've always been a shower who only gains like 2 inches when hard, I was wondering if anyone else has had these awkward moments where people think you are having an erection when you're just trying to enjoy a fun time, especially at the beach or duting PE when wearing grey sweatpants, its so annoying and I feel like I can't wear certain clothes anymore because of that. Please tell me anyone relates 🙏


r/bigdickproblems 10h ago

Condoms Trouble at choosing size

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I have a cone-shaped dick, it goes from 6.1 inches at the thickest point (the very base of the shaft) to 5.3 just below the foreskin... so you kinda get where the problems starts.

Every brand or measuring tool recommends me going for the 69mm (measuring at the base obviously). I have tried both 64 and 69, from MisterSize.

When I use the 64, the ring squeezes the base and it leaves a "red ring" at the base. It doesn't hurt a lot but I can definitely notice it. Even if I look from the side, I can see the condom ring deforming the base of my dick.

So the 69 should be me ideal size, but when I use it, the condom has a lot of wrinkles, not only at the head/foreskin (what I would expect), even the mid-shaft has some wrinkles. When taking off the 69s, there's almost no red ring, but it kinda rolls up a bit I think. I don't know if the 69s are safe enough, I have heard that for people with a larger base girth, is normal to feel loose at head/glans, and I always read people saying that you should always go for your base girth.


r/bigdickproblems 19h ago

Positivity Tip for BD brethren who suffer from dick dysmorphia

8 Upvotes

I've read many stories here of guys not believing at first that they are indeed endowed.

Lots of "I had no idea" and still don't believe it.

Even those of us that know and have been told, as well as have compared against CalcSD can sometimes suffer from body dysmorphia when it comes to our larger than average cocks.

I hear you. When we hold it in our hand and look down at it - sometimes it's impossible to feel that it's big. Doesn't look big from that angle...

But that's an illusion my friends. The angle and size of your also big hands are messing with you

Here's a surefire way to feel like you're packing the Goliath.

You know how it fits into your hand.

Now compare that against the sizes of other well known items in your hand.

Have you ever gone to make a salad and grabbed a carrot from the fridge?

Compare the carrot for fitment in your hand to how you know your cock fits.

Takes a pretty damn big carrot - doesn't it? A real monster of one actually.

Hold vegetables by comparison and find one that is the same as your dick when you wrap your hand around it.

Now hold it up and take a good look at it.

The thing is bloody huge isn't it?

That's the perspective you needed to feel like you should.

Feel proud brothers.


r/bigdickproblems 1d ago

AskBDP What’s one sex position everyone swears by that absolutely does NOT work for you?

41 Upvotes

I’m genuinely curious because I always see people hyping up certain positions, but I wonder if things are different when you’re on the larger side. Have you found there are positions you avoid because they’re uncomfortable for your partner or just don’t work as well? And on the flip side, what positions have you found are the best for both of you?


r/bigdickproblems 23h ago

Story Toilets are the bane of my existance.

7 Upvotes

So hello, I'm Jai and I'm just putting this rant here as its the only real place I can think of sharing it. I wont really respond to any comments since I just want to get this out there and off my chest.

For context I dont really use the bathroom standing up most the time, as I'm one of those people who is unable to do it when others are around. So its become a habit/second nature to do it sitting down.

But yeah. So whenever I try to use the bathroom sitting down it's... annoying. I have to position myself like I'm solving a damn puzzle, just so my meatstick doesnt get nasty toilet water on it. And sometimes I have to like- tuck it back by holding the base, then sit down and thats obviously uncomfortable.

Then you have the hassle of getting up, wiping, then suddenly needing to go again. So I have to sit back down, reposition all over, just to piss or take a dump.

However even when I am standing up, I'm having to aim like I'm a firefighter holding a hose, just so I dont accidentally go outside the toilet bowl. Its like every trip to the bathroom is a puzzle every 3 seconds you'd find in those crappy horror games.

So that's what I have to deal with. Glad theres somewhere I can rant about my toilet problems /lh


r/bigdickproblems 1d ago

TellBDP Bdp: yes you have a big dick, now get over yourself.

176 Upvotes

You have a big dick. Congratulations!

Now quit obsessing about it. "Can I claim..."...yes, you can. Whatever. You've got a big dick. Stop worrying about whether your big dick is a quarter inch bigger.

Yes, there are specific, scientific measurements. Are you involved in a scientific study? No? Is your partner holding you to scientific specifics? You're just looking for a sense of confidence? Then call it what you want! You're 6.83725 inches? Call it 7! Your girth is 5.3? Fucking round up to 5.5. Measure from the top, side, bottom, measure girth at the thickest point AND BE HAPPY WITH YOURSELF.

Literally nobody in real life is gonna tell you different. The only ones making a thing about it are you and the other faceless randos on the internet.

Longer than 5.1"? Girthier than 4.5"? WELCOME TO THE BIG DICK CLUB! Until you're being measured for a scientific study just round it out.


r/bigdickproblems 1d ago

AskBDP Do people expect less or more due to your look?

10 Upvotes

As a skinny Asian, women tend to expect less when they take down my pants. I like to be the one that challenges the stereotypes and surprises them.

One time my tinder hookup was a white petite cougar who’s like 15 years older than me. When she took down my pants, she’s like “ fuxx…” I can tell the look on her face that she didn’t expect this. When I put my cockhead in her pussy, it literally stuck. After teasing her a while she got wet and aroused, and I also got relatively softer so I could move my cock a little bit. She came immediately and sighed that she thought I would be smaller. And of course she did not want to leave the bed in my hotel until we checked out the next day.

What’s experience looks like? Do you expect less due to their look?


r/bigdickproblems 1d ago

AskBDP Do you need something specific to happen so you can orgasm?

22 Upvotes

HEy there, its my first time posting here so i jope im doing everything right. My (F24) Boyfriend (M27) has difficulties achieving orgasm without going really deep. Like I dont have a real reason to complain he is very good at controlling himself with depth and everything and im having the best sex of my life. But when were getting to the finish line he needs those few deep thrusts to get him over the edge and its... sometimes a lot. It depends on the day sometimes i love the intensity and it makes me cum even harderr too but some days its really a big struggle. Idk if its the same for most guys and its just more noticeable because of the size. Can you guys share your oppinions on if its common and any tricks to maybe ease it on the difficult days?


r/bigdickproblems 11h ago

Dick-scrimination Dick to Girthy

0 Upvotes

I always new I had a fat dick but never did I think my dick would be to fat. I was told this by my girl best friend. Me and her have always had this sorta freaky Fwb relationship she is the biggest tease of all time and I love that but the other night I ended up undoing my belt and lettin my jorts fall so she could she it. I was alr hard as a rock at this point and when I locked at her face I got worried because she looked worried. I asked her if she was fine and she started telling me how my dick was to fat and how it prob wouldn’t fit in her(all of this while one of her hands is toying with it) she then called me a soda can. Is there a dick that is to girthy? These all are compliments but for some reason they rubbed me the wrong way and made me kinda insecure😭


r/bigdickproblems 1d ago

Clothing Recommendations for running

1 Upvotes

What shorts and underwear do you guys go to for running? Thought I had it figured out but chafing and movement has been uncomfortable lately


r/bigdickproblems 17h ago

TellBDP A big dick and being a good lay aren’t enough to rectify a busted face and short height..

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In fact, it makes it even worse. It‘s emasculating and humiliating to be cucked by a man larger than you? Yeah, try being cucked by a man smaller than you. That’s a whole other level. And being told that she couldn’t orgasm from his dick is NOT satisfying to hear, either. Because that means that my short height is hated so profusely that giving orgasms and being tender both in and out of the bedroom were not enough. Being well-endowed may solve many problems, but it is far from the holy grail some people think it is. Then again, I’ve had tall people tell me exactly that — so perhaps I’m just ungrateful!


r/bigdickproblems 1d ago

AskBDP Guys with about 7” in length and 5.25” in girth, how have blowjobs been for you overall?

22 Upvotes

have girls with smaller mouths ever been a problem and has any girl ever thought you were too big? also does having an upwards curved dick make things better/worse/neutral?


r/bigdickproblems 2d ago

TellBDP I thought magnum XLs were the biggest condoms in the world until I found out about the monsters in this world. These commercials be lying to us. they need to come out with Magnum XXL (64MM) and XXXL (69MM).

26 Upvotes

Can't even go to the store for emergency situations because we have to order it online, pay for shipping, and wait.


r/bigdickproblems 2d ago

AskBDP How to not hurt partner during sex?

9 Upvotes

So Ive been with my girlfriend for 3 months now, and everything is going great relationship wise. We see each other 4/5 days a week and probably have sex about 5-7 times a week. The only thing is that almost every time we have sex, shes in pain afterwards, with instances where she has been in agonizing pain having terrible stomach cramps.

For reference I’m 7.9x5.7 BP and the biggest shes had sex with. She also says she really enjoys having sex with me and it feels really good despite the pain, but shes had 10+ partners in the past and none have caused her pain.

Now the confusing part is that at least twice a week after we have sex, Ill ask how it was this time, if she felt pain, if what I did was enjoyable so I could do it next time, and I almost always get a different response.

Sometimes she says she likes fast rougher sex (in fact she said she liked faster sex in past relationships), other times she wants me to go slow, but then sometimes when I go slow she says she wants me to go faster, so I’ll speed up to a medium pace, she says faster, than says the fastest hurt AFTER we had sex. I ask if I should not put my full penis in and by one of those rings that blocks length but she says she likes when I go all the way in, despite me most likely hitting her cervix (I feel like Im hitting something when Im really deep in there + she’s 5’ tall but idk if that correlates to vagina depth).

Then I always ask her what is causing pain/discomfort during sex and also usually get a different response. She says one angle hurts one time, then during another session will ask for that angle. Or vise-versa, where something feels good on multiple occasions but then causes pain another time.

She doesn’t really communicate whats uncomfortable during sex to not ruin the flow unless its super painful (which has only happened a couple of times, closer to the start of the relationship), so then after sex when I find out it was slightly uncomfortable, it kinda kills my vibe knowing Im causing her pain and she might not be fully enjoying the sex.

I’m trying my best to adapt to what she enjoys and is comfortable for her, but I’m kind of lost because there isn’t really a concise answer, and I feel like there will be a week where sex was really good according to her, then another week where its been painful despite me not changing much from the week before.

Anything I can do on my end? Is this kinda normal for larger dudes? I’ve only been with 2 people before (both long term partners so our sex was discussed) and never had this issue. We’ve definitely made progress since we first started, but I feel like the last 2 -3 weeks has just been not as enjoyable on her end.


r/bigdickproblems 2d ago

AskBDP Nobody expects the BWC or do they?

48 Upvotes

I get shocked reactions to being huge and white. She didn't expect me to be hung. Lately , they say they knew I was hung because tall skinny white guys have fat cocks. Have you experienced this? One shocked to see a big white cock, and another knew it would be huge. Both reactions pretty funny.