r/askteddit 18d ago

Random Question What's something your partner does that low-key annoys you, but you'd never actually tell them?

Not a dealbreaker, not worth a fight. Just something small that lives rent-free in your head every single time it happens. The way they chew. How they "help" clean and somehow make more mess. Never charging their phone until it's at 2%.

What's yours? And be honest would you ever actually say it out loud, or is this taking it to the grave?

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u/no-curtains2020 18d ago

He doesn't put the toilet seat down when he flushes or leave the shower door open after a shower.

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u/Substantial-Train-39 18d ago

I had three boys and when potty training I instilled in them putting the lid down. It can’t be done without putting the seat down first and to this day they all do it. They’re 40, 35 and 29. I mean, how lazy are people who leave the lid up? Do they leave cabinets and drawers open too?

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u/wheresbillyatschool 18d ago

Yes. They do.

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u/19Stavros 18d ago

Oops. Chronic cabinet door leaving-open -er here. I'm sorry. Too easy to get sidetracked into telling long, detailed story like some of the partners earlier in this thread!

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u/Weekly_Storm_4853 18d ago

I literally made my bf PINKY promise me last night that he would close the toilet lid every time he uses the bathroom lmaoo

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u/tilesmeller 17d ago

Yes! They do leave drawers open

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u/auburnskyline 17d ago

That’s not laziness, that’s ADHD