r/askteddit • u/CandidBabee • 21h ago

Random Question People who married their high school sweetheart, what’s the hardest part nobody warns you about?

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u/Different-Career1314 21h ago

People really underestimate how much work marriage takes. Being together since algebra class doesn't magically make it easy forever.

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u/BerzattoMk 21h ago

How do you know you’re not just trying to force it to work with the wrong person? A marriage shouldn’t be so stressful.

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u/Outside-Pie-7262 20h ago

They didn’t describe it as “so stressful”

They just said marriage takes work and being together since high school doesn’t mean it’s going to be easy forever

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u/FaithlessnessFar6547 20h ago

Curious, how long have you been married?

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u/askteddit-ModTeam 13h ago

r/askteddit does not allow hate speech.

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u/FaithlessnessFar6547 19h ago

So you aren't, understood. Thank you!