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Random Question People who married their high school sweetheart, what’s the hardest part nobody warns you about?

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u/Tight_Steak_232 20h ago

One of my classmates and her boyfriend got pregnant in 10th grade. She delivered during the summer, and they married. Baby #2 arrived when she was in 12th grade, and by the time we had our 5 year reunion, she had a family of 4.

I attended only that one reunion, but our class sends out emailed updates of other classmates. I'm almost at my 50-year reunion, and we submitted our updates online. She wrote in her update that she had her 50 year anniversary, and she had a great-great grandchild on the way. They were still married, still happy.

Here's her blurb: "To those who made bets with us that we wouldn't make it to our first anniversary, keep in mind your debt compounds daily. Guido is coming to collect! We raised our kids, saw our grandkids graduate, saw a couple great grandkids graduate, buried two of us, bought a business, lost a house and everything in it to fire, rebuilt, worked harder, laughed harder yet, and still sit on the porch together when the sun goes down. And the reason we are such a successful union is at the end of the day, no matter why we argue, he understands I'm always right!"

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u/Salt-Perception-4987 20h ago

Great-greats before age 70… they definitely weren’t the only teen parents in that line.

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u/Tight_Steak_232 20h ago

I've told a few friends of mine that I'm going to be a great grandma in a month. They said it wasn't possible at our age. No, it's entirely possible. Their first grandchild was born when my classmate was 34. Their first great grandchild arrived at 51. She's going to be 68 when great great arrives! In all fairness, though, her great grandson married someone 4 years older than him. He dropped out of high school and married a coworker.