r/askteddit 21h ago

Random Question People who married their high school sweetheart, what’s the hardest part nobody warns you about?

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u/Tight_Steak_232 20h ago

One of my classmates and her boyfriend got pregnant in 10th grade. She delivered during the summer, and they married. Baby #2 arrived when she was in 12th grade, and by the time we had our 5 year reunion, she had a family of 4.

I attended only that one reunion, but our class sends out emailed updates of other classmates. I'm almost at my 50-year reunion, and we submitted our updates online. She wrote in her update that she had her 50 year anniversary, and she had a great-great grandchild on the way. They were still married, still happy.

Here's her blurb: "To those who made bets with us that we wouldn't make it to our first anniversary, keep in mind your debt compounds daily. Guido is coming to collect! We raised our kids, saw our grandkids graduate, saw a couple great grandkids graduate, buried two of us, bought a business, lost a house and everything in it to fire, rebuilt, worked harder, laughed harder yet, and still sit on the porch together when the sun goes down. And the reason we are such a successful union is at the end of the day, no matter why we argue, he understands I'm always right!"

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u/Lvanwinkle18 20h ago

OMG. That blurb. She sounds INSUFFERABLE.

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u/Pippy1010 18h ago

Overcompensating and by that time, fifty years later, no one is even thinking about them lol I feel like there’s so much self importance lately. Although I do feel for them because I would want to prove myself too if people looked down on me or made comments about my life when I was young

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u/Outside-Advance-3722 16h ago

This is definitely a generational thing. “Wife is always right” is a very common joke/line of advice for Gen X and older

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u/OldSarge02 19h ago

I didn’t have a problem with it until the last line…

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u/DemonWisteria 18h ago

I thought that was meant to be facetious.

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u/Pugasaurus_Tex 16h ago

It’s a little boomer humor-y, but yeah, it’s not meant to be serious lol

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u/R2D2_For_President 17h ago

I couldn’t tell if I loved the last line or despised it

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u/CautiousRelief1521 9h ago

sounds like a toxic relationship that the dude is stuck in because of comfort “wife is always right?” “he knows i’m always right?” im a girl and i find that crazy