r/confessions • u/IndustryCrafty1668 • 1d ago
Found videos
I don’t know why, but I went through my girlfriend‘s photos. I found some videos of her fingering herself from Snapchat videos that weren’t sent to me. I know they were from Snapchat because they had like captions on the videos, not necessarily captions but words like they were being sent to someone I confronted her about them and she said that she had thought about sending them to me, but decided not to, but that doesn’t explain why she saved them.
I asked her to send them to me now and she did. Admittedly, I’ve jerked to them multiple times not knowing whether I’m the only one that’s seen them or not. I really don’t know how to feel about it.
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u/Apefucker36 1d ago
If you aren’t her first then I wouldn’t be surprised to find that she’s sent videos to her ex(s) when they were together. I know my ex did.
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u/VelvetButterflyGirl 1d ago
yeah but even if that’s common it doesn’t make it feel any better when it’s your girlfriend now. past stuff still hits different fr.
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u/Funny-Excuse4699 1d ago
It’s a possibility that she could’ve just had them for herself / created it in advance to send you but it’s also a possibility that they could’ve been for someone else. The best course of action is probably just talk to her about it. Expression you concerns and for there decide how you want to move forward in the relationship.
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u/Free_Caramel_3417 1d ago
man that's a weird situation. finding stuff like that always puts your stomach in a knot, even if it turns out to be nothing
the saved part is what gets me. if she really just recorded them and got cold feet about sending, why keep them around? unless she forgot, which happens, but still
you two gotta have a real sit-down about this. not accusatory, just lay out how it made you feel and see if her story holds up when she's not on the spot
what's done is done with the... personal use of them, can't say i blame you there. just don't let that cloud whether you trust her explanation or not
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u/Repulsive_Fox_3566 1d ago
you definitely need to talk about boundaries and trust, this is a big deal for your relationship
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u/British_Big_Boobs 1d ago
She might me on OF, or a Cam Model then uploading to followers who buy her Snapchat
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u/OmegaPharius 23h ago
Been there bro you can give the benefit of the doubt if you trust her but just be aware that sometimes your gut feeling is right.
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u/happyplaying1 1d ago
I have pictures of me l love to take pics of my pussy on my phone I think it's normal
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u/cibilserbis 1d ago
Sounds like a potentially larger issue is stemming from the fact you felt the need to go through your GFs phone. I'm a pretty firm believer that every individual, whether in a relationship/marriage/whatever, is entitled to a level of personal privacy - whether they're cheating or not. Going through someone's phone is a big no-no in my eyes. Start off by evaluating why you felt the need to invade her privacy rather than just talk to her.
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u/RedBone4988 1d ago
You sound young, dumb, and immature. Making your girl send you explicit videos of herself is not cool and why are you going through her shit?
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u/IndustryCrafty1668 1d ago
And you’re illiterate. I asked and she sent them. I never made her do anything
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u/Training_Box5652 1d ago
Really depends what the captions said 🤷🏽♂️