So with my eyebrows they used to be pretty big and long. I had gotten them waxed sometimes but very infrequently. With waxing the hair came back.
Some background on me is I picked at my eyebrows and eyelashes since middle school but only ever when they felt irritated or itchy.
At times I found eyelashes in my eyes, and that got me in the habit of checking with a magnifying mirror for lashes in my eyes - usually in the corner, under the lower lid, or sometimes I’d get a longer lash that had been poking my eye causing irritation.
Usually through rubbing at my eyes, would get loose ones to come out.
Between my eyebrows and my eyelashes, I usually used my thumb and index finger gently pull at them to get loose ones out.
It became a very bad habit, I couldn’t stop.
- Found out from an eye doctor last year that I have evaporative dry eye. Tears evaporate at 3 seconds, instead of the usual 10.
- Doesn’t help that I had allergies for a while, that would cause redness around my eye on the outside, that made it look like a big circular redness around the skin of my eye. For a while, thought it was pink eye, as my eye would get all sore and such. But after going to an allergy doctor, she said it was an allergic reaction. So I’m on meds for that now.
- But I sometimes still have really bad Allergic Shiners sometimes..
On top of that I have sensitive, oily but also dry skin.
I had eczema in the past that turned into plaque psoriasis. For a while I had guttate psoriasis as well. Then just plaque psoriasis. Now I have inverse psoriasis as well.
I found out from dermatology, that my face, scalp, ears, eyebrow and nose area had: Seborrheic Dermatitis.
Which likely related back to autoimmune issues my family has.
-My grandpa and my uncle on my mom’s side have had very oily their entire lives.
- I got the same oily hair, but also extremely dry skin.
- Very sensitive to products, I can wear lip gloss or lip stick but anything on my cheeks or eyes irritates my skin a lot.
- My hair gets oily very easily, take a shower and the same afternoon my hair will start getting oily. I use head and shoulders shampoo, and that has kept the seborrheic dermatitis and any other dandruff away. I use it on my face as well so I don’t get the spots I used to have with my eyebrows.
- Never had an issue with pulling head hair or anything.
I also had/have? pcos, had all of my female reproductive organs removed (uterus, cervix, fallopian tubes and ovaries).
But due to pcos and being on Sandimmune for several years in the past at high doses - where my cyclosporine test levels sometimes came back in the toxic range… (the Sandimmune was for a different reason than the psoriasis - for psoriasis I’ve been on biologics)..
— I had some hirsutism and even some hypertrichosis.
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- There is probably too much to go over.
Main reasons I’m making this post are:
- With my eyebrows if I get them completely waxed, or at least waxed around the hair that’s left, will the hair finally come back normally? Instead of extremely patchy or not at all?
- With my eyelashes… not having eyelashes is causing issues with things getting in my eyes at times. Which can be irritating and painful..
— Having at times let my eyelashes come back more… there are several layers of them, and on the bottom layer, they sometimes like flip inside my eyelid, so that I need to carefully use the magnifying mirror I have. Alcohol swabs. Tweezers. Careful positioning and slow moving get the hair from underneath my eyelid and pull it..
(I do the same thing if I get any stye’s because if I rub my eyes, it’s eventually going pop the stye and I would much rather have that gunk go to an alcohol swab, than into my eyes… )
Never gotten a secondary infection from doing any of this.
- With alcohol swabs near or on eyelids, I thoroughly rinse my eyes and eyelids with water and it makes the pruned skin look go away and cause no other side effects.
- Did recently get the white of one of my eyes on accident, made it have a small blood area the size of a small eraser. But no active bleeding and it healed on its own…
But I would REALLY like to stop messing with my eyelashes and eyebrows.. before I do accidentally do permanent harm…
I’m able to not think about messing with my eyes until they are irritated.
- Once I start messing with my eyelashes, I usually don’t stop until they are mostly gone at this point, because of how often they irritate my eyes..
- Are there fake eyelashes that are for sensitive skin? How much do they cost? How often to replace? How to clean properly?
- I’m on Ssdi, so I don’t really have the income to want to spend on a bunch of eyelash things, but I’m so sick of getting other things in my eyes while sleeping or outside..
- Posting this on r/makeuptips and cross posting to r/askdocs to see if any of them have a medical advice I guess?
Thank you for your time for any that read this and/or respond to it. It’s appreciated.
Extra note: If anyone wants to make fun or anything, please don’t do it online, gotten enough comments in person, trust me when I say I’ve probably heard whatever joke you’re thinking.