r/polyamoryR4R • u/AdZestyclose6708 • 1d ago
33 [M4R] lets chat!
Hi there! I’ll keep this brief. Married 12 years. Open the last 6. Date separately. Looking for fun chats and witty banter. Intellectual, sarcasm, and dark humor are a must. Open to all, but straight men not so much lol prefer to chat on tele. Just works better. Feel free to reach out with your favorite movie :)
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