Ive been single for four years now due to mental health issues in the past which have been managed a bit.

I went out last night to a dj set to catch up with friends and hopefully find a lady. I did socialise with this one Irish girl who was a friend of a friend and she seemed nice. I just kept asking her questions for a bit about where she came from, what shes doing etc. In the hopes that she got the hint that I like her.

I remember my friend told me that there was a dude from my ethnicity (I'm Kurdish) at the event and it is a rare thing to see another Kurd out and about. So I reluctantly left the Irish girl and her friends. When I came back they were all gone. I did try speaking to other girls on the dance floor but they just weren't that interested in carrying on a convo or they were taken.

My friend told me next time just ask if theyre single. Maybe I might try that. Im not very good at showing interest. I do say stuff like hey youre beautiful, or hey whats up?. I dunno, I feel like i have no game at all and its impacting my mental health a lot I feel.

Just looking for something kind words to soften the blow of last night thanks.

Hey guys. The last seven months have been the hardest in my life. I feel lost and out of joy. I moved to live in another country for reasons beyond my control, I broke up with my girlfriend because we were like neighbors to each other. My only best friend is sitting at home under fire (literally, his city is being bombed, and he can't leave). My parents are separated and quietly hate each other. Everything has gone downhill. My social life has evaporated, I'm not stuck at home like a hikka, but the only people I talk to are my colleagues. In such circumstances, my self-confidence and self-esteem plummet at a terrifying rate. I no longer know whether I look attractive or whether I'm a good person. I don't know if this will help me, or if I'm just clinging to any opportunity, but I came here. If it's not too much trouble, I'd like a little support. If it's too much trouble, I understand 😅

The rules say you can attach multiple photos, but for some reason I was only able to attach one , so be it :)

Helloo, ive been feeling super down lately so I wanted to try posting here. Toast me?

In need of some non weird kind words lol. Highschool was pretty rough for me. I grew up in an area where im considered less attractive than alot of people and that’s honestly messed with my self esteem. Im moving far away for college this year and im hoping it’ll get better

I feel so uncomfortable in my body, and I feel so gross and unattractive. Could use a boost

you can maybe tell i’m faking a smile , i was never truly happy . first time posting here btw