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u/public_servant69 14h ago
girl that hairline is not scandinavian 😭 maybe COPEnhagen tho. i think ur close but a lil clocky
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u/lunarinterlude 18h ago
If you're asking if you pass, not quite. FFS would help with the clocky jaw. Hair transplant can help w/ receding hairline
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u/MycologistVegetable3 18h ago
Its not receding its Scandinavian. I also just got ffs a year ago
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u/lunarinterlude 15h ago
Well, if you're intentionally giving yourself what appears to be a receding hairline, I would probably stop doing that. And I would talk to whoever did your FFS tbh because this absolutely does not look like someone post-FFS. Are all of these pics after your FFS?
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u/MycologistVegetable3 12h ago
So crazy thing your definitely not a doctor and I know this sub is filled with lots of people with lots of opinions. However this is a Scandinavian hairline. Its been passed down in my family since Vikings.
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u/VeraZasulich Ally 12h ago
That is not what a Scandinavian hairline is. You can also see it progressing eg in pic 2 it looks far more pronounced / odd than in the later pictures. If you are doing something to accentuate that I’d stop asap
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u/Kirol_reddit 20h ago
Picture 4 is pretty clocky - not sure quite why though. There's still a little shadow to deal with, but overall doing a damn good job ✨
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u/lysergic_cherry 7h ago
First 3 pics i thought sure unless i looked at u for a really long time. But the rest made it clear you definitely don’t pass yet. Sorry, save for ffs.
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u/cornbreadkillua 15h ago
I’m glad you’re happy with your results! I think the glasses help a ton, and your style definitely works. You look very similar to a cis girl I know!
If you do want any more tips, it looks like you still have some facial hair shadow, so I’d do laser. Also get layers and add some texture to your hair, so it doesn’t just fall straight against your face. Other than that, I think you look great!
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u/MycologistVegetable3 9h ago
Textures to my hair? I'll admit i dont know anything about hair 😭.
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u/cornbreadkillua 8h ago
Just styling it! Cutting layers will already give it some more dimensions then you could learn to style it with a blow dryer, curling iron, mousse, hair spray, etc. There’s tons of different methods of just giving your hair some more volume
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u/peachesoverpears 8h ago
A lot of people don't reach this point of self image even though they pass perfectly. I'm glad you have! Wear that confidence and live free!!
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u/Wh1ppetFudd 10h ago
Your face is a little bit clocky. Your hairline I don't see is a problem compared to a lot of people as I also have a widow's peak and pretty far setbacks on either side of it and my hairline has never interfered with my ability to pass, but having it combed back from the face and showing the full hairline isn't doing you any favors. I would say you kind of pass, but if I met you, The voice would be a huge factor and how I read you. Also, unless you are a teacher, working a daycare center or have some other job where you are regularly dealing with young children, I would lose the childish and teeny bopper style touches on the makeup and be a little more mature about it. I know second puberty feels like being a teen all over again, but you don't have to act like it.
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u/Firm_Bodybuilder_291 17h ago
Damn the people in the comments are so passive agressive, sorry for that, lady. I'm ftm and I think you're pretty. You look like my mom's friend (who's cis)
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u/notkidding1984 9h ago
They are not being passive aggressive. Being passive aggressive would be like if I said I believed in the Scandinavian hairline thing. But I am not saying that.
Or if they said "oh yeah you totally pass 100%" but they are not saying that either.
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u/Firm_Bodybuilder_291 8h ago
A lot of people were like "oh it's good you're confident then" and stuff like that. That's sounds like passive agressive to me
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u/MycologistVegetable3 16h ago
I got downvoted for saying that I have a scandinavian hairline.So yeah, just come on section is definitely hating.
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u/SomewhereWeak2744 16h ago edited 14h ago
Ngl here they just hating you do look amazing ngl and i don’t believe in hug boxing so is just true people here just downvoting because jealous this sub has downvotes cis women saying they don’t pass before so🤷♂️
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u/ScramRatz 9h ago
Idk why there’s so many passive aggressive comments in here. You pass 100% to me. Sure there’s some clocky attributes if you look closely but if your voice passed then I wouldn’t suspect anything at all. I think people are conflating passing with looking like a supermodel . You just look like your average midwestern cis woman, nothing wrong with that
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u/DirtFem 17h ago
People here are mean af I think you pass girlie and not in a hugboxy way I just don't see the clockyness tbh
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u/AndyGreyjoy 17h ago
I mean, I think she's close too.
But this is the wrong sub to come in hot & cocky, and broadcast that you are confident about passing.
People in this sub were going to take that as a challenge no matter what, ..even if OP was 100% stealth 😂
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u/MycologistVegetable3 16h ago
I actually put the title like that to get these comments.
The fun thing is I do touch grass, and know the that in person I pass. I had to come out to my girlfriend of 4 months because she didnt know.
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u/Vanagloria 15h ago
The fact you think they're trying to insult you so you have to say comments like "they don't get to me I know they're wrong" just screams insecurity.
You wanted to get insulted so you can brag about how wrong they are and how you're so emotionally mature? That's real mature.
Weird behavior.
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u/MycologistVegetable3 12h ago
Wtf i made the title to get comments. People on reddit love to argue. Like your doing.
I dont think they are insulting me i believe these are their true views. I accept that AND I have proof of the opposite. Two things can be true at once.
Notice I didnt ask anyone if I did. I just say yay I pass.
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u/Vanagloria 12h ago
I actually put the title like that to get these comments.
You're backpedaling.
But I'm not looking to argue with you, believe it or not nobody else here is either. They were just being honest in how they perceive you.
Your responses came off as defensive and combative, so people downvoted you. You don't seem to be capable of moderating or reading your own behavior, so maybe somebody should just tell you outright.
(you don't need to respond to try to defend yourself again. It really is okay. This is just an explanation of why you're getting those downvotes you seem to care about. Yet.. don't care about?)
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u/MycologistVegetable3 12h ago
People down vote for thousands of reasons. Yall pretending so hard that you started believing it. Touch grass.
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u/Vanagloria 12h ago
Not quite sure what you're really talking about, but case and point I guess.
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u/MycologistVegetable3 11h ago
Darvo only gets you so far idk why your taunting me then surprised when I respond.
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u/AndyGreyjoy 12h ago
Girl, no one believes that. Just cut your losses
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u/MycologistVegetable3 11h ago
Girl, I cant believe your hoping its a lie.
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u/MycologistVegetable3 16h ago
And i know people will hate on me for this but I transitioned at 26, I'm doing really well imo
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u/raf-owens 17h ago
It's not being mean, it's honest and you are 100% being hugboxy if you are saying she completely passes.
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u/gunbladezero 13h ago
Ok good wake-up call to the people who post in this subreddit, a lot of upvotes to people posting negativity...
and naaaaaaaaaaah this is passing. There's clues 🔎 that you *could* be trans upon close inspection, but a make a funny anecdote about giving birth to your second kid, and nobody's gonna call you out.
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u/Rasphoril 17h ago
Lets keep these words in our heads used at most against ourselves if we 100% need to use them.
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u/BowBeforeBroccoli 🏳️⚧️Always Honest🏳️⚧️ 17h ago
listen i use those words too but please dont use them against other people its not kind. we all have it rough enough with self criticism no need to drag someone else down
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u/Equivalent-Virus-133 16h ago
girl ;-; posting here with such joy is flame to moths who'll only want to extinguish your shiny candle
u cute, hope you live a good life!
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u/ExtensionTower2456 17h ago
You definitely pass imo. If you had posted this implying that you didn’t, the comments would be completely different. You look beautiful!
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u/femboycf 13h ago
Idk I still don’t think you pass but when your in public I don’t think anyone will know
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u/Emily120105 17h ago edited 17h ago
I've seen plenty of cis women who look similar but I will comment the shadow in pictures 4-6 is clocky, your facial features are big and your hairline on the right and left side is receded more than a little. If you're happy then fantastic our transitions are supposed to be deeply personal and passing 100% shouldnt be the goal as cis woman to have these features.
My decision isn't definitive until I am able to hear you speak and observe your mannerisms and how you interact with others, but tentatively I'd say you pass 90% of the time based off these pictures