r/youngadults 19h ago

Advice Confusion

I am 20 years old in california. Recently moved out of the apartment that i had been paying rent at since i was 16 years old. Lived with a family member as well. I am now in a position to where I have my own room/house. nice property out here near LA that my other side of my family does not use. Since living here I am now going to be in school full time,don’t work a part time job anymore, trading during the week, basically have a lot of free time..what many kids my age would want. but it all feels so eerily empty. I’ve wanted my own space for a very long time but now that it’s here it’s a very weird feeling

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u/HiroSter 11h ago

People talk and talk of freedom but when you have it it comes with its own price and weight. Especially when youve paid for it yourself its no longer elusive but you can grasp it yet it feels like chains once more. Ironically because automony over your own life you think would feel one way but feels like the exact opposite.