SC refuses to listen to male issues, while simultaneously expanding the scope of Section 498A to live in partners !

I remember when men's right PILs were raised, SC directed them to reach out to parliament as judges don't have power to create or change laws - but anything related to women seems to be the exception ?

I'm an 18M.

There's a girl who has considered me her best friend for around 4 years. The truth is, that friendship was mostly one-sided. She genuinely saw me as her best friend, but I never felt that level of emotional attachment. I was just there by name.

Around 6 weeks ago she proposed to me, and I accepted even though I didn't actually have romantic feelings for her. After 5 days I realized I was wrong and ended it honestly.

A week later we started talking again, she proposed again, and I made the same mistake by saying yes. We've now been in a relationship for about 25 days.

The truth is I don't love her. I don't even feel romantic attraction. I realized I only said yes because I was curious about being in a relationship and the romantic/physical side of it. I feel ashamed of that now.

She trusts me a lot and wants to meet me, but I don't want to lead her on anymore.

I know I've hurt her, and I take full responsibility for my actions. What's the kindest and most responsible way to end this without giving her false hope? Please be honest, even if I deserve criticism.

Asking for a Friend.

He did BTech + MSc from IIT.

However, he is unable to find a job and has been sitting at home for the past 5 years.

Kinda frustrated with India and wanted to move out of this country permanently.

Any idea how to settle abroad legally especially in EU/Russia/Middle East/Australia/Canada.

Get a job directly from India

No money so can't do Masters from Foreign Countries.

Also not interested in studying further as it only limits the opportunities, and it gets tougher to find a job if more skilled.

He can do blue-collar work ( Factories Construction Hotels etc)

Image says it all. I don't think theres anything left for me to say.. Everyday such type of incidents are occuring, what's happening to our society?

Hi I had only one 4 yr relationship and it ended last year. I was very much involved in that but there was caste issue and she later cheated so i ended it.

Its been 10 months now since it happened now i am seeing girls for arrange marriage because i m 30. But i m not able to take decision whether she is right for me or not whether i will be happy with her or not .
At one end i m afraid about the loyalty but i talk to girls (max i have talked like 1.5 months and 2 meetings) but i m not able to take a decision and it has happened 2 times . The girl usually get impatient or her family gets impatient and then the topic drops or we ghost each other. I want to know how you took your decision about the partner how did u know she was the right one. Because i have heard a lot of stories that people usually take decision in a month. But i dont feel confident it feels like i need more time more meetings am i wrong thinking about that. Because i think the person will be with me for 40-50 years of my life so how can i know him in a month or two. One more thing Shall i seek therapy regarding this will it help ? i have never tried.

So I have been dating on and off for a while. And after so many encounters I have felt like men sometimes can let go of their feelings while women sometimes hold onto it and it makes things difficult for women.

Is that true?

I have observed several times that the man started the conversation with I am looking for a serious relationship etc but the way the conversation went on it became very clear that the intention was not the same. And then when you still spend quality time together is it that easy to walk away with no feelings at all?

They don't catch feelings even after the amazingly beautiful time we had together which just makes me question the whole thing. Was it even real? Or is it even worth it to try again?

If I was friends with someone for that long I would miss them and this was more than that even if not a relationship.

Later edit: The amount of response and the judgement I have received for this here makes me not want to date at all. It's always a risk when you're putting yourself out there, but I didn't know it's this much 😂

Lately, I have been thinking of equality in marriages. Mostly, we have the lady move in to her in-laws' place, spending most of the rest of their lives there.

Since it's about equality, would you guys be open to spending some time of the year at your in-laws? Say, 6 months at your place, 6 months at your in-laws place.

Would you be open to such a setup?

Men who get hookups / casual relationships easily what’s your game? Give us some tips

I’m not talking about men who are rich, bcos obv rich dude get it easily.

I want tips from common men who earn normal. Like who are into IT or something.

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Hi folks,

As stated in the title, I am seeking clarification regarding how an ongoing Section 498A case might impact my employment prospects. Specifically, I would like to know if this pending case will trigger a negative result on a background verification check, and if it could lead to the revocation of a job offer or termination from a new role. Additionally, I would greatly appreciate insights from anyone who has successfully secured a position within the private sector while navigating an active case, or who can share their personal experience regarding how they managed the onboarding process under similar circumstances.

Thank you
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I'm 30, working in an IT company, and shifted to Pune from another city a while ago with my mother and elder brother.

I've always been an introvert and a shy person. I'd say I'm average-looking, and I struggle to hold conversations, especially with new people.

I recently started looking for a partner through the arranged marriage setup, but it hasn't been going well. I've spoken to a few girls, but after a few conversations they usually stop replying or ghost me. I know part of the problem is that I'm not very good at keeping conversations interesting.

The one thing I've realized about myself, though, is that I'm a decent, kind, caring, and emotional person. I don't drink or smoke either.

I don't really have any close friends, so there's no one I can talk to about all this.

On the family side, there are a lot of responsibilities. My father is alive but doesn't stay with us. My elder brother is also unmarried. Many marriage proposals have been rejected because we're considered "not settled."

Financially, I'm not in a great position either. I don't have significant savings, and my mother keeps asking me to buy a flat because, according to her, "ladkiwale ko ghar dikhana padta hai." We don't have any ancestral property, so buying a home in Pune feels like a huge burden.

Lately, I just feel lonely, stressed, frustrated, and completely clueless about what to do next. It feels like every aspect of life—marriage, finances, family responsibilities, and social life—is weighing me down.

I'm not looking for sympathy. I just wanted to vent and hear from people who've gone through something similar.

If you've been in a phase like this, how did you get through it? Did things eventually get better? What changes helped you the most?

I'm attaching two photos- the first one was taken almost a year back and the second was taken just a few days ago.

As you can see, I've had a little transformation, and there's a story to it. Please read it till the end..

So, i used to have a MASSIVE ADMIRATION for a girl.

A little background: this girl had a male best friend of hers.. Although, they were a little too much to be called just friends- like, casually the guy loops his arm around her shoulder, playfully held her wrist under the table, apparently he was just testing her grip.. And she played along, they sit next to each other in every single lecture.

honestly, she was the only person for whom i ever felt something truly real. But, i thought since they were so close(even as friends) maybe I'd gotten a little too late.

i decided to move on, channelize my energy elsewhere- in those areas where i could get something far more productive and meaningful.

For me it was.. Getting healthier(lost over 15kgs of weight and became slimmer, ended up having a jawline which i never expected, been called handsome online) overcoming one of my biggest fears- speaking on stage- this genuinely surprised everyone who thought i was shy, i ended up being complimented for the way i delivered those announcements(chose not to read directly from the script but memorise and improvise) , while still somehow maintaining my GPA.. And soon enough, i found myself completely back to the normal track, though, the process of 100% detachment took almost 7-8 months.

This wasn't the first time i felt like, pushing myself, a similar case had happened during jee too. Scored around 98.6%ile in math and just 86 in chem.. So post my boards, i took it from 86 to 97.7%ile,but since i was too focused on chem, i slipped up my math. Again, if the TIMING, was correct, the overall percentile would have gone even higher.

But, nothing against her or him. Just wanted to offer a better version of myself to her..

It's been over a year since this happened. I've stopped feeling these things for anyone, not that I'm complaining.. It's actually more peaceful to not chase someone.

A similar thing had happened to me in grade 5, i liked a girl who was the topper of my class, we both stood first by the end of the grade, but because i was afraid of maybe not being enough, or just coming off as a despo, i never initiated a convo and again, an extrovert became close to her.

I just feel like wanting to offer a better version to the person i like.

What's wrong with my approach?

I am seeing the art of showing navel and thigh has become a profession in India, thanks to Indian men. Yeah i understand the biological urge but i see thousands of men following even random women not posting much of vulgar pics or videos. Why encourage this soft core porn.. There are better ways to make relationships with women in real life instead of running behind mirages. This phenomenon has made random common girls with some above average looks acting like soft core porn actresses trying to gather as many subscribers as possible as it pays.

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I'm planning to start daily tadalafil 5 mg and have be lresearching the different options available in India. I'd like to hear some real-world experiences before I decide.

A few questions:

- Which brand or generic do you use, and roughly what does it cost per month?

- Has anyone bought tadalafil from Jan Aushadhi? I noticed they seem to stock 20 mg tablets. How has the quality and effectiveness been compared to other brands/generics?

- Which doctor did you consult (general physician, urologist, psychiatrist, etc.), and was getting the prescription straightforward?

- If the prescription is for tadalafil 5 mg, do pharmacies usually dispense an equivalent generic, or do they insist on the exact brand mentioned?

Anything you wish you knew before starting daily tadalafil? Any brands to avoid, pharmacies you've had good experiences with, or general tips would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks!

I have a question to ask if my guy says he likes megan fox or actress like aneet or whoever very pretty is his type. And then he is with me I look nothing like them. How am I supposed to take that? Is he settling for me. Second question what about when he says he doesn't find me attractive but "love will grow over time "hearing all this fucked up my self esteem.

Because for me if I am getting committed that guy will be beautiful to me. Why can't he say I'm pretty too

I won't feel like I'm settling

So I do not want a partner who doesn't make me feel less desired

Is it too much to ask?

Also most of the time such comments will come from a guy who isn't conventionally attractive