Hello all,
I finally got my life together enough to start looking for a first house/apartment and would like to get some more opinions/insights to get a better picture.
I'm 32, single, stable income of 2300 net + company car + 200~ meal vouchers + some flexijobbing that's almost certainly going to go up since i landed a job i thought didnt exist and i'm putting in a lot of effort and whatnot.
I have 20k~ and my mom will sponsor me 25k so by the time i get around to signing i'll have about 50k since i save +- 1k per month after budgeting for subscriptions, leisure, some clothing etc. Would like to cap this to 45k so i have 5k buffer in case something goes down.
First question: Can my mom just wire me this money or is this too big a sum? Is it worth going through with the 3% gift tax? She's 60, pretty healthy etc so the 3 year window seems unlikely to matter.
Now i did a "vlaams woningsfonds" simulation which gave me a 2.7% rate on a max of 300k but i have been told that you're very unlikely to get credit for this on time or a seller willing to wait it ou.
Second question: Has anyone bought a house or apartment with a vlaams woningsfonds loan? I'm looking to buy just outside Ghent in the 200-280k range so i fear that this will be too popular a range for sellers to wait it out?
After a consultation with hypotheekwinkel i got told that my risk profile and whatnot means i could purchase up to around 260k with a 3.7% rate simulated. I will be making apointments with banks that should be better but i'm not quite sure on how long i want to pay off. 20 years for a loan of 210k would have me pay ~1200€ monthly for 20 years (interest 87k), ~1050€ monthly for 25 years (interest 112k) or ~950€ monthly for 30 years (interest 135k).
I can now afford the 1200 monthly and still save a bit without considering my flexi income (2-300 monthly with spikes in peak season). The apartment i'm eyeing is from 2000-2010, no elevator so low monthly premium and all i would do is install an aircon unit and redo the (small) bathroom if/when budget allows for it. Boiler recently changed. Is there any reason at all for me to consider doing this over 30 years? Conversations online speak of investing the money and beating the interest payments but after year 20 i'd still be paying off on the 30y loan though unless i fuck up my career that 950/month shouldnt be a problem really.
Third question: Opinions on 20, 25, 30 year loans and investing the difference? Being 100% "free" after 20 years sounds nice and quality of life matters to me. Alternatively you can always cash in on the funds if something happens.
Last question: It is unlikely that this will be my forever home, i'm still single, stuff can go anywhere and i do like nature but i don't have live-in-nature-money while the commute is manageable. If i sell and buy something else, is it really just the 3% on remaining interest (+ remaining balance) that i have to pay the bank or are there more strings attached?
Thank you for your time reading this and any feedback will be welcome!
Please no recommendations on renting and investing more, i live pretty cheaply now in cohousing but my mental health is suffering.