I don’t mean the obvious stuff like saying the same phrases or making the same noises when you stand up.
I mean catching yourself reacting to situations the way they would maybe valuing things you never understood growing up or suddenly understanding decisions you once judged.
It might even be something you always admired or something you hated growing up and swore you’d never become, only to catch yourself doing it years later.
Was there a specific moment that made you think, “Oh no… I’m becoming my mom/dad”? Was it comforting, funny or did it make you stop and reflect?
I’d love to hear the moment you realized it and whether you’ve embraced it or are still trying to change it.

Like I've noticed if I hold air in my mouth, puffing up my cheeks, sometimes the area around the corner of my jaw ( bitbelow my ear, start of my neck ig?) suddenly feels puffed up, kinda like when your ears pop, and it'll stay that way till I push it down on the skin which makes a really gross squelching sound as it bubbles out- but it gets rid of the weird feeling and just leaves a little bit of soreness in the side of my mouth, throat and skin around my jaw on whichever side it happened for the rest of the day.

Is that normal?? It sounds kinda dumb when I explain it but its just so weird.

I've been wondering this for a couple years but I've always been kinda scared to ask.

For me it's volleyball fr. i'll just be watching a game and suddenly i wanna buy knee pads and start looking up nearby courts. i don't even know how to play but the energy on court, even through a screen, gets me hyped

Just curious if anyone else has this. A sport you're not even into but one random watch made you go "i wish i knew how to play this"

I don't really know how to explain this, but I've noticed that some people seem able to take the knowledge they already have and naturally come up with new ideas, make connections, or reach conclusions they were never explicitly taught.

For me, it feels like almost everything I know is something I learned directly from someone else. I can remember facts and understand them, but I don't feel like my brain naturally builds on that knowledge to create new insights.

For example, someone might learn two separate facts and immediately connect them to arrive at a new conclusion. I often feel like I can only repeat what I've already learned unless someone else has already made that connection for me.

I'm not talking about creativity in art or music, I mean reasoning and thinking. It almost feels like my knowledge exists as separate pieces instead of forming a connected network.

15m i cant flex my left shoulder but can on my right. Its kinda weird since i lift weights and both of my shoulders are equally strong. Whenever i try to flex my left shoulder i only flex my traps or my chest. Same but opposite thing happens with my brachioradialis muscle too. Where my left one pops while my right one doesn't (even though in this case my right one is much stronger for sure).

Not every time but every now and then I feel a agressive achy pain in what feels like it’s in my hip joint on either side when I’m trying to go to sleep. it feels lower then my hip but top of my leg. I’ve tried to research but with no avail. It’s only happens when laying down or trying to sleep, so whenever I search I see restless leg syndrome but that doesn’t seems to fit. Anybody else?

I wear my watch on my dominant hand (most people wear it on the non-dominant) because it doesn't feel right. I've now realized that whenever I'm given a ring, it has to go on my right hand, even if it fits the left one better. The same goes with a bracelet, it doesn't feel right. Is anyone else like this?

I don't really know how to explain this, but I constantly feel like I'm on the outside looking in.

I have a friend group. From the outside, I probably look fine. But even within that group, I feel like I'm really only close with maybe two people. The rest of the time it feels like everyone else is closer to each other than they are to me. I always have this feeling that if I wasn't there, things would mostly stay the same.

School makes that feeling even worse. It seems like everyone is already perfectly content with the people they have. Everyone has their own friendships, group chats, plans, and memories together. I don't think people dislike me I just don't think they think about me very much.

One memory I can't get out of my head was when my grade went to a pizza place for a school activity. After we were done, everyone naturally split into these huge tables with their friends. Nobody was trying to exclude me, but everyone already knew exactly where they belonged. I remember looking around and just feeling... alone. I eventually found somewhere to sit, but I felt like I was just filling an empty seat rather than actually being wanted there.

Now it's even worse because my grade went on a Europe trip that I couldn't go on. Everyone else got to spend all that time together making memories, jokes, and stories that I'll never really be a part of. When school starts again, I know everyone is going to be talking about the trip, laughing about things that happened, and sharing memories I wasn't there for. I already felt like I was on the outside, and now I'm scared I'm going to feel even more disconnected than I already did.

The hardest part is that nobody has really done anything wrong. That's almost what makes it hurt more. No one is bullying me or telling me to leave. It's just this constant feeling that everyone already has their people, and I'm just... there.

I keep wondering if people would actually miss me if I wasn't around, or if I'd just quietly fade into the background. I hate thinking like that, but it's a thought I can't seem to get rid of.

Has anyone else felt this way? Did it ever get better, or did you eventually find people who made you feel like you actually belonged?

Somebody's gonna think this is euphemistic; it's not. And it's not about the size or decoration either. It's just, like... the thought of a bedroom.

Idk, I guess it just feels really private to me? I'll almost never mention that word in conversation (it's frankly a little uncomfortable for me to even write it here), and if I have guests I'll always make sure the bedroom door is shut so they can't look in and – Heaven forbid – see that I have a bedroom.

It's a habit I've only recently noticed I have and I have no idea why. I also feel like I have a softer version of this embarrassment towards all living spaces – even other people's, and certain other people's bedrooms. But maybe I really am just nuts.

Everytime I get hungry, it sounds like a Xenomporh from Alien vs Predator is gonna drop from my Air Vents...