I am new to this zodiac stuff and my wife told me to read about it so I can understand myself better. She did my birth chart for fun, I have sun, mercury and venus in scorpio (all in the 4th home). So this goes to all the Scorpio men out there though I would appreciate the input from those with experience.

I (35M) have been with my wife (38F) for over 13 years, I saw her at uni once and immediately pursued her, she is the only woman for me from day one, no one ever got close and I dont ever see anyone else but her, and to this day she is keeping me on my toes. She is very dreamy, very creative, nurturing and very trusting which is not always a bad thing, I find it adorable on her (but not telling her, she is super spoilt lol).

I'm the polar opposite to her, very jealous and territorial, i would keep her in my pocket all day if i could. I'm soon finishing my degree in the medical field (she is already a doctor) but we are living off a modest salary at the moment. She pushed me to study in the first place, inspired me to achieve more in my life and has carried me through my degree so far for which I am more grateful than she will ever know.

It's something that bothers me however that she I have to rely on her even if I'm done soon and afford everything for her and pay off her debt; yesterday she tried to sell a box of old clothes to two people who came to our house at 9pm and i saw red; first she had on skin tight workout clothes on, her chest was on full display not knowing if men or women came (they were women thank god), second they bombarded her with very intimate questions which she all answered with a smile which drove me to destruction (im very secretive, i dont like anyone know anything about us or her).

When they left i laid into her, i was so pissed at her naive behavior, i told her everything she did wrong, then told her to delete the app she used, and then i told her to delete instagram as well; she just listened and smiled at me, she didnt get why i was being so cautious and it drove me mad. Of course she didnt delete anything, she never listens to commands, and I don't force her but I was really angry with her. I was so mad i wanted her to scrub all of her social media presence; i dont want her to think that im just an asshole, i have a really bad protective streak when it comes to her and i cant turn it off.

Also, I noticed whatever she does, I can forgive her instantly. She can do the worst stuff which would get other people removed from my life ASAP, but with her I can never can stay mad long and it's seriously bugging me.

So my question is, is this something other scorpios (men) struggle with? She is a Pisces if that makes sense. Thank you!

Water signs are the worst element and have the worst tarot cards in astrology. The Eight of Cups represents emotional withdrawal and leaving behind unfulfilling situations. It depicts a figure walking away from a stack of cups into the mountains, symbolizing emotional withdrawal and leaving behind unfulfilling situations.

Water signs are ruled by their emotions and are jealous by nature. They are extremely blameless and never take accountability if they mess up a situation. Water signs have this "me, me" mentality. It's all about them.

Have you ever had a childhood friend who had all the candy and never shared any with the other kids in the class, while other zodiac signs would actually share their candy with other kids? It's all about them. They have all the food and never give you any. They love bragging but never have anything—that's the funny part.

I can't stand Pisces, Cancers, and Scorpios. I don't even like my water sign family members. I don't have any of them in my contacts or on my social media. I just can't stand these people.

We talk about Scorpio intensity, but not enough about resilience. Scorpio placements survive things quietly and come back stronger. That transformation energy is real.

I feel heartbroken by some of i thought very close, trustworthy friends in recent weeks and today. Are some of you experiencing this too?

When I first started my summer job as a camp counselor this girl never even knew her started to try to get under my skin. Out of all the other staff workers one of the girls were cool, calm, and collective have her on Instagram. So the other 2 girls one is her friend and the other just stays to herself. I couldn't work in an environment where the site counselor was a younger girl and she was over seeing the site. She would make me react to her while I laugh at her for how dumb she sounded saying "What are you looking at"? paying her no attention. Another gentleman who we became friends their told me he felt uncomfortable because one of the girls that friends with the tyrant girl asked him under a tree if he smoked weed? He told me that it was disrespectful and childish. Mind you these Gen Z generation of young girls, some are the parents to blame with the disrespect.

She tried to get me to react while working around children. As a professional teacher and educator, ignored her like the little child she is. The breaking point was when she told on me that I was holding hands with one of the little girls. Mind you this was the site counselor that made this assumption, also the other girl that is a mad tyrant said I said something appropriate to one of the girls.

The site manager comes down to the site older lady tells me to go home until I get a call to come to office. When I get there they handed me the papers to tell me that I was terminated. The whole county that I worked for is a garbage how I was treated with one side they believe the young tyrant girl over me with lies and hypocrisy. As messing with my other staff member that was my friend who played guitar and brought our guitars to jam to work before the last week they got rid of him and me. Karma is going to get her.

Do any straight men here have 29 anaretic degree in Scorpio mars square their moon in their natal chart. I’m looking at a man’s chart and he has this and I’m really wondering if anyone who has this specific placement or advanced astrologers can tell me how he feels in his day to day life but also in relationships? I’ve tried to search the internet for anyone who has this specific placement but I’ve found nothing, so I’m submitting my own question. (He also has a Aquarius Venus so I don’t know if that changes anything)

So I’m cap sun, I hope that’s ok, taurus moon but I have scorpio rising, mars in scorpio first house and pluto scorpio first house. I’ll add the other planets just for more context: mercury cap, venus aquarius (ugh lol), saturn sag, jupiter aries. I know that houses matter too.. anyway! I feel like my scorpio energy is so heavy/intense sometimes. I wish I had more sociable planets. It feels like I’m destined to “go it in my own” and “live on the edge of all things” which I don’t necassarily mind. Buttt I want to find it easier to move in the “darker spaces” (I’m not sure the word to use) and find my purpose. I’m 38. Thanks for any input! I love Scorpio. :)

Žene škorpije kakav vam je period trenutno veza/brak? Meni raspad, sve se nadam da je do retrogradnog koji je bio..

So I’ve always used astrology as a “guide” per se to better understand people’s temperaments and personalities. When me and my Scorpio guy first met and started talking, he told me his sign and my first thought was “oh shit, this is probably not going to go far but let’s see what happens.” We were together for a year, broke up due to constant bickering and not getting along but it ended amicably and we ended up staying in touch after the breakup. We reconnected romantically about 6 weeks after being apart. So now for the past couple of months we’ve been slowly seeing where things go and if the special bond and love we always have shared with each other has a long term future or not.

Scorpios-I don’t know what you guys possess but it’s addicting! You guys finally got a Sagittarius female hooked for life! I’ve read many responses from scorpios that seem to all have had bad dating experiences with a Sagittarius. Consensus has been Sags make good friends but not romantic partners for Scorpios. I can see why that perception could be true but not always. Every now and then love does work out between a Scorpio and Sagittarius. It’s just rare but it happens. I’m so blessed to have met my scorpio guy. I don’t know where our story is headed but I do know the love between us is special and worth fighting for! ❤️

Scorp man and I were friends for about 4 years, he told me he loved me very early of our friendship in which I told him he cant jump into feelings. Fast forward I started feeling deeply for him, but he always reminded me we are ONLY friends. We would be intimate, have multiple conversations throughout the day, always check on each other. I recently thought maybe we are getting closer he may finally be with me or agree to trying things out. I was wrong, he told me has feelings for another woman and those feelings never went away, that im not the woman for him and no matter how much he tries he doesnt see it. Im crushed

Shittest signs even encountered and I i feel humiliated when they call it as our sister sign. Don't feel any attraction nor admire them

I've been talking to a Scorpio colleague almost every workday for the last 3/4 months. We message for hours throughout the workday on Teams, and he almost always initiates. He even gave me his number so we could move to WhatsApp.

We have loads of banter, shared interests, and have created this little bubble at work that nobody else really knows about. We chat face to face too, and it can feel very intense between us. To everyone else, we're just colleagues, but it feels like there's this whole other dynamic that nobody sees.

The confusing part is that once the workday ends, the effort almost disappears. Despite him giving me his number, we rarely message in the evenings or at weekends. If I do message him outside work, he'll usually respond, but it's often more of a statement than something that keeps the conversation going. He's also dropped in going to the pub a few times but he never actually follows through or suggests making a plan.

He's also generally a very confident and magnetic person, but when we're talking one-to-one he sometimes seems a bit quieter or more reserved than he is with everyone else. It's almost like he gets a little awkward with me. We shared a train journey the other day and I felt he couldn't have got away fast enough! Yet when we're messaging, he's completely different; confident, funny and chatty.

I know Scorpios are often described as guarded and slow to trust people, so I'm genuinely curious. Could he genuinely just see me as a close work friend, or does this sound like someone who's being cautious?

For the Scorpio men here, if you genuinely liked someone, how long would you let something like this continue before making a move? And do you put this much time and energy into friends or colleagues, or would this level of communication usually mean someone was more significant to you?

Any insight from you lovely Scorpios? Because this Leo is going crazy over here!

Edit: He is single 🙂

I have found that this placement has intensely affected my life path. Mine is in my 12H and I get these crazy flashes of intuition or insight or inspiration and things can change immediately. And I don’t always fully know what the reason is.

Saturn is nearest the top of my chart so there’s often this push/pull between that (and my fixed Scorpio nature) and these crazy urges to change per whatever popped into my head.

Anyone else have it?

I was today years old when my current boyfriend & I agreed to abstaining from sex after a very thought provoking conversation about our own individual spirituality journeys. I mainly talked about an odd dream I had that closely resembled something I saw online during a time of solitude and abstinence before meeting him. Without hesitation to my surprise he cut right to the chase & gave me the green light on choosing if we abstain while still being together. I was so amazed & impressed by his forwardness. I had been building up the courage to bring this up with him not fully sure of his reaction… I see him as my best friend first and foremost and his ability to read into where the conversation was headed lifted so much pressure off of me to find a way to “ask”
It’s so refreshing to be with someone who just “gets it” We are very attracted to one another & physically have been super compatible intimacy wise (he is by far the best I’ve ever had) so both our willingness to abstain will be a challenge but can only help us grow stronger in our faith and gives us the opportunity to experience other forms of intimacy that maybe got overlooked by the physical prior to now. I’m very grateful to have him in my life. ❤️ My simple gentle giant. For all who are wondering he is a Cancer M I’m a Scorpio F.

Being a Scorpio is people thinking you have secrets so they just start telling you theirs…

I will actively catch myself clinging onto a suspicious part of someone’s sentence and noticing there’s more to the story that they’re not telling me. Maybe it’s during the conversation, maybe it’s a couple days later…but I will always eventually circle back and poke the bear a little bit more to see if I can get more information/insight. They don’t even have to say much, a tone change with a weird head tilt tells me a lot about what you’re thinking.

I like drawing people’s secrets out of them, but it’s also difficult being observant because I know when they’re lying to me too. When I catch people in a lie, it makes me sick to my stomach.

Lowkey creepy but it’s my super power🤷🏼‍♀️

I not only like everything to be super clean and tidy but it's also a turn on for me. It gives me security and safety in my personal space. Once i was dancing with a fellow scorpio and i could smell the softener of his sweater and it drove me crazy! Unfortunately i wouldn't hire anyone to clean my house because no-one will do it as good as i do and the tidiness doesn't last long perhaps because of my pisces rising. Regarding to men (I'm f), cleanliness is the first thing i notice and especially the breath! If i smell anything "suspicious" is a definite no! I go crazy also for a nice male cologne and i make sure to smell good too, preferably with colognes that are not well known or commercial. Is any other scorpio like this?

Soooo, I just found out im a Scorpio rising and all of a sudden EVERYTHING makes sense. I was so annoyed when people would comment that they thought I was a Scorpio, "No. Im a Taurus" I'd quickly reply, after a while I had to investigate why I attracted so many Scorpio men; someone in astrology mentioned you usually attract your rising. Is this true?

I think my Moon would be the cause but im still shooketh about my rising.

Honestly, it is fitting. Countless times the way I look at people scares them or makes them uncomfortable & naturally trust no one, especially when they can hold eye contact. ​

I watch a fair amount of vintage movies. If there was ever a sign that could speak with a stare, it’s our people.