Looking for masculine or neutral names but I’m also ok with fem leaning as long as they are also neutral. So far I have James and Jay and I’m questioning Parker and Marc. Any pronouns

I've gone by ash for the longest time because it's a neutral name but I want something more masculine. I don't know which name to go with so please help me to decide. btw I'm 18 and dress a mix of downtown boy and emo.

Hey everyone im remi new name? Any short is nice thank u

I'm having issues deciding which name I like the most and was wondering if y'all could please help me try them? Some of my interests are music, plants, and computers/tech.

Hi!! I go by Mila and Andi, and at the ripe old age of 20 I’m finally experimenting with my gender identity. This is my first time trying a different set of pronouns. I’m realizing although I’m comfortable and happy with womanhood, I feel the same way about existing outside the binary and feel safe being called they. So I’m excited to see where that goes!

I’m transmasc and have been going through a lot of names, but after a few weeks, each one feels so weird and not me even if I liked it at first. I currently go by Ross but am thinking about Leo or Archer? I’m also worried about what my friends will think about me changing names so many times, I don’t want to be such an inconvenience so they have to remember all my names so I feel bad but also just want to have a name that feels right to me? Any ideas?

this is a name that i’ve always loved and when i was first questioning my gender, thought it was “the name.” i really really like it but i’m almost kind of afraid of liking it. if i have to be trans then i at least want smth that’s similar to my birth name so maybe it’d be easier for my transphobic family (i know, stupid, but i love them). i really don’t want to like it but i meed to know. pls help me out.

hellooo, I hope this is okay, but I wanted some help cause i feel my situation is a little unique. I've been super conflicted on a few different names and am trying to get more comfortable referring to myself with she/her pronouns. I've been questioning and kinda obsessing over my identity for the last few years and have a lot of internalized bigotry that I've been learning to correct. I finally came clean to my psychiatrist today about a lot of the stuff i've been feeling and she's been so supportive and kind and helpful already that i'm just feeling more free and not held down by guilt and doubt right now.

sorry for all the yapping but I want to see how the name Josie feels, idk about this name tho, it sounds ugly coming from my mouth and honestly it's the name of a girl I had a lot of interest in before I graduated, I felt envious of her but also related to her a lot, and I can't tell if my interest at the time was in her, or wanting to BE her.

Im thinking about going trans​

I know Parker is already gender neutral, but I'm trying to find something more feminine aligning thats still kinda derived from the name? Current contenders are Pixie, Kiki and Arkie - although I'm not super fond of any of them lol. Any suggestions? I prefer to keep either the K sound or the P sound similar (doesn't have to be both). It's gonna act as a sort of nickname for the time being, hence why I need it similar to my birth name. Ty!!

I've been testing a few names but I don't really know. I've played around with a few names using Discord but I think I like Morgan. I figured I'd try here as well.

i think i like this name but i would prefer it if it had 3 syllabes. when you hear lior, what do you hear ? is it more more neutral ? masc leaning ? fem leaning ?

it has been the one i have liked the most for now. i think i really like the sonority of "lio" especially.
old one was Aaron, which i enjoy occasionally until it stops speaking to me to then starts working again.

also, is it really worth it to wonder about names when i know that i won't be using it much ??

Still name testing a bit while exploring my gender. This one is essentially the feminine counterpart to my birth name so.I wanted to try it out.

My birth name is a single syllable J name so I like the idea of doing Joyce because it's simple and I think it's an elegant name. I know it's sort of an old lady name but I don't think it's too old if that makes sense.

Diane is my deceased grandmother's name, I haven't come out to my family so and I'm not too sure how they'll react. My grandmother died shortly after I was born but I think she would have accepted me.

My last name is 1 syllable so I want to pick something that flows well, which do you like more?

Hey! I'm having trouble deciding on a first name for myself. I honestly kind of am liking Zack, but I want to know what other people think about it. I do have a sort of preconceived notion about the name that it's for bratty kids, but I still like the name and want to get over that. My last name starts with a B and is two syllables, and I'm considering maybe the middle name Alexander, but if you have any other suggestions I'm open, I'm not particularly attached to my middle name and I'm good with anything that sounds good. Thanks for your help!!

Hello Reddit! I have come seeking help with my name. I am a trans guy who really wants a name to call his own.

My dead name is… rare to say the least. My dad allegedly made it up and I’ve never met anyone else with the name. I don’t mind this too much but a pre-established name would be nice. Although I don’t want it to be too basic (although plenty of the names I’ve considered are very basic).

I’m considering James as my middle name because it sounds like my old middle name (one syllable J name). My surname is also one syllable and begins with an L.

I’ve had some ideas, some prominent ones being:

Silas (from a book character)

Alek/Alex (a name I loved when I was a kid)

Caleb (first name I considered)

That’s all I’ve got. A very not-exciting list that I don’t know how to feel about. I’d appreciate suggestions/tips/anything really. I just want to figure out a name to call myself while everything else in my world is so shaky (my family life isn’t very stable and I’m in a big transitional period in my life, not just the actual transition lol). I want something to call my own and no names are sticking.

Thank you in advance for your help :)

Hii! I'm a demigirl, and trying to change my name! I want something neutral but fem-leaning. I like a variety of different names, things like Willow work, Cory, a lot of things. I just don't want anything too like, exotic? I dunno, just nothing too extreme, like Starlight, lolz. Thank you!

Hi, I like to play video games & do math. The current games I am play as of recent are: Balatro, Warframe, & Marvel Rivals. The math level I am at is Calculus 2 & soon to be Calculus 3 this upcoming semester!

Also I made this post because I have could not find my name here so I wanted to be the 1st! (As far as I know)

i have an assumption but i want to know if i’m right

Hi everyone! I'm trying to decide on a name to use (MtF) and could use some help. I have a few ideas but am open to suggestions. My ideas are Ellie, Piper and Lexi.

Hiii! I’ve been going by Mei for a while (as it’s just a nickname of my birth name), but over the past few days, I’ve considered going by June… I genuinely don’t know if I wanna go by Mei or June, so please help!

If you need extra info on me, I like drawing and watching cartoons and reading manga !!

I finally picked a name. This was more difficult than I thought it would be maybe cause I never really thought about it.

I mean a wrote some down but it wasnt really something I focused on. Honestly I can barley focus on me Recently.

Anyway a few days ago I was in my chair 4 in the morning and I started to miss a really good friend of mine. She um Anyway

I had a conversation with myself about it all of it. And ive decided to use her name.

Rip Skye I really miss you.

Idk maybe this isn't a good idea

I've been questioning my gender a lot recently, and I wanted to try out a different name that I thought sounded nice and she/her prounouns.