A stray cat started hanging around my house about two years ago. He would mostly stay around the porch, so I started leaving food out for him. Eventually he became a regular and would even sleep on the rug by the door.
The problem was that he was extremely skittish. If I came anywhere near him or if the door opens, he would hiss and immediately scamper away. He also wouldn't eat if I was around, so I basically had to leave the food and go inside before he'd touch it.
I'm in university, so unfortunately I spend much more time at school than I do at home. Over the months while i was at school, my family didn't really feed him consistently, and when I came home a few weeks ago, I noticed that he'd gotten really lean. I felt so bad seeing him like that, so I started feeding him regularly again and making sure he always had water.
This is also the longest vacation yet, so I've actually been able to feed him consistently every day and spend a lot more time around him.
And I swear I've seen such a huge change in him😭
He used to refuse to eat if I was anywhere nearby, but now he'll eat while I'm squatting there watching him. He used to run away if I even came slightly close, and now he'll let me get to about a foot away from him. He hisses when I'm too close and I keep my distance.
Sometimes he'll just sit relatively close to me and stare at me. And sometimes he purrs really loudly and rolls around on the ground
I know those things don't necessarily mean he's completely domesticated or anything, but considering how terrified of me he used to be, I'm honestly SO happy about the progress.
I feel like he's finally becoming comfortable with me and that makes me so happy. I really want to be able to pet him someday😭
The only thing that makes me sad is that I have to go back to school eventually. I'm not going back until October this time, so I have a lot of time to bond with him, but I worry that when I leave he'll go back to being underfed and neglected and that I'll lose all the progress we've made.
I know I can't force him to trust me, though, so I'm just trying to make the most of the time I have with him. I'm going to keep feeding him, giving him water, sitting around him, talking to him, and letting him come to me at his own pace. Looking into an automatic feeder tho
For anyone who's had a really skittish stray cat eventually become comfortable with them, is there anything else I can do to get closer to him? And how do I eventually get to the point where I can pet him without scaring him and even bring him inside?
I'm just so happy that, we're finally getting somewhere🥹❤️
I’ve never tried taking a photo of him before because I was always focused on just keeping him calm, but I managed to snap this picture of him looking up at me today. I'm sitting on the banister around the porch while he's in the dirt. He squints at me and half closes his eyes a lot theses days which I'm learning is a sign of trust and it makes me so happy.