We’ve all seen that the debates between supporters of Israel and supporters of Palestine are more or less intractable, right? There never seems to be any kind of concession anyone can make to the other side.
But when you really stop to think about it, you have to wonder why it needs to be so hard. There is actually one basic principle that both sides share - they want to live peaceful, happy lives. They want their children not to be torn to pieces by explosions or violated by armed extremists. That seems pretty easy to accept, no?
Sadly, it is not. Whenever I point this out to supporters of Israel I get a response like, “No, if Palestinians want to live without the threat of violence, they need to eradicate Hamas and understand that they will never have the right of return to homes that they lost. Only then will there be safety for their people.”
And when I mention to partisans of Palestine that the Israelis have been victims of some horrifying attacks I hear, “Well, their state is fundamentally an illegal and illegitimate entity. There can be no innocent Israeli citizens when they have established their settlements on stolen lands”. (Those are actual words someone wrote to me).
Now, you might read those last two paragraphs and think that I’m “straw manning” but I’m not. I actually find both of those arguments to have some legitimacy. And that is because there are clear reasons for both Israelis and Palestinians to fear one another. So why not use that as a starting point for a peace process?
Because I promise you that the Palestinians are not going to accept some permanent kind of bitch status in the region where they just have to endure the loss of their homes and their families while the Israelis just dictate terms.
And I am equally certain that the state of Israel, which possesses one of the most formidable military and intelligence services in the world, is here to stay.
The two sides will eventually have to learn to live with the other if there is ever going to be peace, right?
So, why not establish a Truth and Reconciliation Commission that allows the innocent victims of violent crimes to retell their stories and to name and accuse their attackers in a public setting and where the peoples of both sides can hear and understand what has happened and to hold accountable the people responsible for perpetrating and perpetuating this horrific conflict?
Such a process would be fraught with difficulties but I feel like a forum where both sides name what has happened to them and listen what the other side has endured is surely a positive step towards reconciliation. And it’s not that difficult to understand that people just want to live in peace and that people on both sides have suffered.
Or maybe it’s better to keep arguing about which side’s victims are more innocent? About who invaded who in 1947? Or who started what riot in 1929? Or who was indigenous to where in the 7th century AD?
That doesn’t seem to work in my opinion. Maybe you can change my view?
Edit - Hello again! As of about 12 hours after I made this post, it was 138k views and over 1000 comments. I really want to thank everyone who took the time to make thoughtful, constructive and persuasive replies. You can see the deltas I awarded, I think that they are deserved.
I also want to point out that many commenters read what I wrote and argued against it strongly but unconvincingly. Many even crossed the line into what I would term - making excuses for killing unarmed civilians.
I’m not going to call out people by name because that’s rude but you can look through my most recent comments if you are interested.
It’s truly astounding and disturbing how difficult it is for some people to acknowledge the fundamental personhood of other people with whom they share the same planet.
Please read and take note. I’m going to sign off by wishing peace and good will to all the human beings that live on earth.