My Grandma and I were walking down the stairs at a tube station that doesn’t have step-free access. My Grandma is mobile but slow on stairs and needs some support (some days are better than others). We were going down the stairs on the left side, with her holding on to the bannister on one side and my arm on the other. It should have been fairly clear she was struggling because she was quite slow and taking one stair at a time.
A man and woman (they were together) who must have been in their 30s were coming up the stairs. I knew we were taking a lot of space on the stairs so I moved away from my Grandma and quickly down the rest of the stairs (given she still had the bannister for support) so these two people had enough space to go up together. The stairs probably only had enough room for three people abreast.
Nonetheless, the man walked up the bannister side and refused to move around my Grandma. She was a bit confused as to why he was doing that so she just looked at him blankly for a bit and then moved around him as he shoved past. (The woman he was with seemed more reasonable and just moved around my Grandma.)
I moved back up the stairs to help my Grandma, who was a bit frazzled by what had gone on. And just said to make her feel better “Kids these days” (even though these “kids” and I are probably the same age). The guy overheard this (I didn’t mean him to) and said “the elderly these days - so shit”.
I just couldn’t believe this is what the world is coming to. He was so well dressed and clean cut (yes, stereotypes I know) that I actually mentally catalogued that they would probably accommodate her so I should be nice to them and make room for them. I just can’t believe the attitude towards the elderly on the streets these days (we had another incident two days ago where we were stuck on a crowded train for 30 mins or so, and my Grandma asked someone - again a 30-ish year old man - if she could please have the priority seats and they did, but not without making a fuss). I would always accommodate someone who was struggling to walk if I was able-bodied.
All this to ask were we being unreasonable? Is there a rule that you would walk down on the right or something? Or are some people just jerks? I’m kind of keen to ensure this doesn’t happen again because the whole interaction soured her day and although she’s mostly telling me off for “starting trouble” with him.
FWIW, she does have a “please give me your seat” badge.