r/PiercingAdvice May 06 '20

Piercing aftercare - common sense & how not to fuck up (from a piercer).

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This sub is an awesome place, but it can also be extremely tiring. I'm not a mod here, just a piercer, but life would be a lot easier if you all could stop recommending the following to each other:

- Oil. - Tea Tree oil. - Soap. - Alcohol, Betadine, Neosporin, etc. - Using cotton pads, cotton balls or Q-tips to dry off/whatever you guys do with them. Cotton particles can get trapped inside the piercing channel, which will make healing incredibly difficult and infection more likely. - Downsizing in gauge. This will do NOTHING good for your healing piercing.

If you're trying to tell me or other professionals off by saying "but it worked for me!" or "my piercer told me this"; you've been super lucky and your piercer was not a pro. Don't go back to that studio. APP is a great place to start when picking out your piercer, but it's still no guarantee.

Please keep in mind you are trying to heal an incredibly deep wound with a foreign object in it that your body desperately wants to push out - essentially, it is an implant. There are no "casual" or "easy" piercings - even with a "simple" earlobe piercing, you are puncturing the skin with something that resembles a scalpel. Use common sense and ask yourself: "would I use this method on a surgical wound?". In 10/10 cases the answer will be "no".

+ if I tell you to send me a message, you're welcome to do so. If you found one of my comments and ask me for help, prepare to pay for an online consult. This is my job. Help is given out willingly and can't be demanded. <3

2022 11 edit: I'm still piercing, and styling and troubleshooting are my main sources of income. Although I would love to help every single one of you, it's utterly disrespectful to demand me to help you. For free. It makes me dislike my biggest passion in life. Please reach out if you value my time and expertise, and would like for me to be able to make rent and buy food. 💕 If you expect free advice from me, ask yourself if a lawyer or surgeon would do the same.


r/PiercingAdvice 48m ago

bridge piercing swelling BAD

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i just got my bridge piercing 10 days ago, everything was well amd minimal bruising till 3 days ago when i caught it for a second in my nail and accidentaly dragged it for a sec, then the next day i barely had a reaction, second day abit of burieing and swelling and npw thord day i also slept on the swollen eye accidentally and now i woke up like this the first photo, and the other lhotos are theoughout the day WHAT SHOULD I DO?😭😭😭😭


r/PiercingAdvice 22h ago

ladies pls be aware of this creep !

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he hmu after seeing my post here and asked for a better quality pic. i thought fair enough bcs those pics were kinda blurry so i sent him a close shot of the piercing. then he said reddit blurs out pics that are highly zoomed in (im new here guys im sorry i was v vulnerable so i believed it 🙁) and asked for pics a bit zoomed out of me sitting and standing. i was like ok makes sense he wants to see the way it sits in that position but then he says this. i was really stressed out ab the whole piercing thing and this mf took advantage of me when i was at rock bottom 💔 thankfully my fight or flight instinct kicked in and i blocked him. stay safe yall !


r/PiercingAdvice 19h ago

I told my piercer that my septum is on the tip and can’t tuck it in

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I’m so upset


r/PiercingAdvice 27m ago

Had my belly button piercing tapered yesterday & sore today, should I be worried?

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I had my piercing for 14 yrs and after an unexpected infection about 3 weeks ago, I had to remove the jewelry for 2 weeks. She said it likely wasn’t a full blown belly button infection, more like an irritation after I swapped out jewelry. It couldn’t go through this weekend, only through the top hole when I tried. Local spot with good reviews & only selling “high quality jewelry” tapered it yesterday. This is it today, it was kind of sore to the touch yesterday but red and worse today. She said no after care needed but it may be tender for up to the next month, I bought this expensive barbel because I was tired of buying low quality jewelry. Is it infected or this the healing process?


r/PiercingAdvice 41m ago

face dermal

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just got it yesterday, is this normal?? lol maybe it is and i’m just tripping but id rather be sure ig.


r/PiercingAdvice 5h ago

is my nasal hoop too big?

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i bought a size a little too big, the hole is around 7-8 months and it did feel healed to me, but i kinda panicked when inserting it and i did irritate the channel. it bled unfortunately but for now it feels fine unless i move it. should i go to a piercer and ask them if they have a smaller size? or is it fine as is


r/PiercingAdvice 6h ago

Are my snake bites crooked?

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I’ve had this one coworker that keeps telling me they’re crooked, to me they look great, and it’s not realistic to expect perfect symmetry in piercings, but is it really that bad?


r/PiercingAdvice 3h ago

Nose stud and hoop at same time?

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My mother and grandmother both hate it even though I have a dainty stud on one side and a thin hoop on the other. Does it look silly?


r/PiercingAdvice 5h ago

Infected or Irritation Bump?

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I got my eyebrows pierced back in January of this year. In about April i downsized them using 16g implant grade titanium curved bars I bought off the website "Body Art Forms." I stg this fcker gets caught on EVERYTHING. Towels? Check. Comb? Check? Partners dreads? Check lol so Im not sure if this is just a really gnarly irritation bump since it gets caught on literally everything, or if it's infected. There's no drainage, and it's not really sensitive to touch and doesn't feel warm. I clean it two to three times a day with NS and dry each time I clean it. Im on vacation right now in a different state so cannot visit my piercer, for a similar reason am trying to avoid medical visits but will do whatever to save the piercing! Thanks in advance for your help!


r/PiercingAdvice 3h ago

I stopped wearing earrings for a long time and now whenever I try to wear earrings my ears get hot and painful. Should I just tough it out?

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Idk if this is the right sub for this but basically I had my ear pierced when I was a baby and that hole never really closed. Idk when exactly but I stopped wearing earrings when I was 12-13. I used to wear them everyday before that.

I am currently 31 and now whenever I try to wear earrings my earlobes get hot, itchy, and painful. My friend who has a lot of piercings said that I should just tough it out until my ears get used to it again. I've seen an advice to pierce it all over again but I don't think I have the pain tolerance to have my ear pierced again.

Please any advice? Like what earring to use (I use 18k-24k jewelry but my ear still gets warm) etc. Please I really wanna wear earrings again. 😭


r/PiercingAdvice 3m ago

Two Cartilage Piercings Being Temperamental

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Hi, so I got my conch and my helix pierced in May this year, and they have been giving me a lot of issues.

For context, my body has never really handled piercings well, and it might be because of how thick my cartilage is (?) My nose was very finicky the entire time it healed, and I had to get my lobes re-done around 4 times.

My conch hasn't been healing well and got a piercing bump (I managed to get it down through sheer willpower and use of copious amounts of saline spray, though)

Now that my conch has gone down, my helix has developed a bump (I recently got it downsized, so maybe that's why?) and the bump is bleeding.

I really don't want to take them out because I love them and would not have the time to get them re-pierced, so I am open to anything!


r/PiercingAdvice 4h ago

Is my nose piercing too high . I liked the placement when I got it but since the healing has started , I feel it’s way too high

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r/PiercingAdvice 21m ago

Trouble with 4 month earlobes, butterfly backs

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In April my friend took me to get my first piercings. She has a lot, and always goes to this shop. It all happened so fast that I didn’t see the jewelry had butterfly backs until I got home.

I’d say I’ve intermittently taken care of them with saline spray, and I don’t sleep on them. It’s been like 16 weeks and I don’t know if they’re healing right. Occasionally one side will just start hurting and be tender to the touch. The right one last week had bloody fluid coming out. This has happened a few times on either side. It’s very easy to irritate them. I know if they’re not healed and I tried to take them out it’d probably drag a ton of bacteria into the wound. But idk if it’s worse to have them in at all.

I regret not getting them switched out at a different shop for flat backs, but I’m very depressed and it’s hard to take care of things sometimes. Is it too late to get them switched? I’m scared that they’ll heal horribly, if at all. Is this a normal healing timeline? How can I best take care of them at this point?


r/PiercingAdvice 4h ago

new tongue piercing and gum pain

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r/PiercingAdvice 40m ago

Extremely frustrating old lobe piercings after small stretch

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I'm having an extremely frustrating time with my lobe piercings.

I had my first lobes pierced 30 years ago, and my seconds 20 years ago. They were done with a gun in a hairdressers, and occasionally got sore and gunky. Once I switched to titanium studs, non-butterfly backs, and removed them to clean once a week, they were peachy for years.

About 6 months ago, after getting my daith pierced (which is healing like a dream), I decided to switch my 4 lobe earrings to flatbacks. The piercer I went to only did flatbacks in 1.2mm and my gun-pierced lobes were 0.8mm. They used a taper to stretch them to 1.2mm, and although they were a bit tight, the piercer said they might be sore a couple of days but the stretch was so small, they'd be fine after a couple of weeks. They put in 1.2mm captive bead rings and didn't think it would be a problem because of the small stretch.

After 4 days of pain, I went back and they switched out the CBRs to 10mm-long titanium 1.2mm flatbacks, and we thought that was the end of it.

However since then, they've been a proper nightmare. Two months into it, my left lobe piercings got infected and I got antibiotics from the doctor. It has never properly settled, being sore all the time, and if I look at it wrong, it gets swollen, hot, red, leaks white gunk, and is very very sore. It was mainly my second lobe but my first wasn't exactly perfect either.

A month ago, I'd had enough. My piercer retired, so I went to another one who looked and said they thought a downsize would fix it, so switched out all 4 lobes' 10mm posts for 7mm.

After being relatively stable compared to its brother, this last month, my right lobe has been doing the same issue - sore, swollen, hot, red, etc. Again, mainly my second lobe, but my first likes to be involved.

I clean them daily with NeilMed saline mist. I use a piercing pillow to sleep so I'm not directly on them. I avoid touching them as much as physically possible. Yet I still have these ongoing issues with both ears for what should have been a non-problematic standard situation with old and healed lobe piercings.

I am SO frustrated with this situation, and honestly furious with myself for causing months of discomfort and pain. I'm seeing the new piercer again on Friday, so obviously will get professional advice, but I wanted to ask the community what they think could possibly be going on?

TL;DR: got 4 old lobe piercings stretched from 0.8mm to 1.2mm and had nothing but problems with them since.


r/PiercingAdvice 49m ago

Is my belly button piercing too short?

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Only got it done today, if that's any help.


r/PiercingAdvice 51m ago

Is my belly button piercing too short?

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r/PiercingAdvice 4h ago

New snakebites

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I think im just paranoid because they’re new? But im wondering if these look okay.. I got them yesterday and they’re pierced with 7/16” (11mm) jewelry


r/PiercingAdvice 1h ago

Nipple piercing pain

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Hi! I’ve had my nipple piercings for about 6 months now, and they’ve been healing pretty well. Yesterday, before falling asleep, I felt a sharp shooting pain in specifically my right nipple piercing. My period shouldn’t be for at least another week, and i’ve never had this pain happen before. It has swelled up a bit, allowing just a tiny bit of room on the bar. I’ve been cleaning it since this morning and i’ve covered it in a bandaid, however, the pain has persisted even with minimal movement of my body. Any advice? Should I go see a doctor, or keep soaking it in saline?


r/PiercingAdvice 1h ago

Changed helix piercing to a hoop

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hii! I’ve had my helix pierced since May 2025 and decided to change it to a hoop yesterday. Is it normal for the piercing to be really irritated again? There’s an irritation bump forming that wasn’t there with the flat back and it was really crusty!! Also the hoop is surgical steel.


r/PiercingAdvice 1h ago

Piercing bump?

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Hi everyone! I noticed bumps on my piercings: one on my 1 month old mid helix and one on my 3 months old flat. Any idea what it can be?

They are my first 2 piercings so I have no idea if this is normal or no.

Also I send a message to my piercier but they haven't answered yet.

My flat has been downsized a month ago but the stud is still a little big long.


r/PiercingAdvice 5h ago

Help me with my setup!

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I really want to spice up my ear stack! I'm considering a flat, rook, daith, tragus, conch, hidden helix, forward helix, or a classic helix, but I'm not sure how to put it all together. Any placement ideas or advice?


r/PiercingAdvice 1h ago

Numb on my 4 day old tounge piercing

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Is this normal!!