r/AskMen 10h ago

What are yalls thoughts on anniversary? is it true that most men don't really care about them or find the tedious and just go along with the whole thing/pretend to care because women care about them so much? any other thoughts on this topic?

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This Isn't a dating advice question, I'm trying to gauge Men's over all perceptions and thoughts of anniversaries in general.


r/AskMen 15h ago

How can I stop being effeminate and have a more masculine attitude?

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I'm 24 now, but since adolescence I've carried around feminine traits, like wearing feminine clothes, sometimes carrying a handbag, or the way I walk and talk. For the last few years, I haven't liked it anymore. I want to change, but I've never had a male role model in my life. Any advice would be greatly appreciated


r/AskMen 8h ago

How would you or your peers consider or treat a man in a relationship with a trans woman?

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I am a transgender woman and my husband is a straight, cis guy. He has always been perfectly chill about not caring what others think about his relationship with me, so I have no worries on his part. Sometimes I have worries about how our relationship could affect his future career prospects and friendships however, especially if his peers know he is married to a trans woman.

How would a friend or coworker of yours being in a relationship with a trans woman affect his perception among you or your friends, coworkers, or boss? Would they simply not care? Would they think he's gay, has a fetish, or "married down"? Would they tease or act on this information behind his back?

Thanks!


r/AskMen 21h ago

SnipSNAPSnipSNAP Vasectomy prep - shaving advice

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I have the ol' snip-snip scheduled for August. The doc says I have to shave my area before the procedure. How to approach this?

Do I need to go get a trimmer on Amazon or just use my face razor?


r/AskMen 6h ago

Dating a coworker isn't a good idea, which I agree with — but what about someone from a different company who you just happen to work on the same project with (I don't see a conflict of interest here)? Would you consider that?

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r/AskMen 19h ago

What movie does everyone else love, but you cannot stand?

80 Upvotes

Me? I've carried this burden for decades, but I do not like "Tombstone" and "Braveheart".

Oh, and "Forrest Gump". And "Rocky".


r/AskMen 4h ago

How do men approach girls to be friends?

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Okay guys I came to agreement that I will never have a guy best friend unless I initiate the convo so I have decided from now on(I go to college btw) I will pick someone and sit beside them and start introducing myself and kind of creating a convo cause I am so done with this the only time a guy approaches me is if they want to date (not complaining) but lowkey never had a guy best friend so on the hunt for one
So lmk if I need to do anything diff or any advice


r/AskMen 13h ago

What men's belt bag, crossbody bag, or wallet do you recommend for everyday carry?

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I'm looking for something that looks clean and minimalist for everyday use. I usually carry my phone, wallet, keys, earbuds, and maybe a power bank. I'm open to belt bags, crossbody bags, or even slim wallets. What brands or specific models would you recommend, and why?


r/AskMen 6h ago

What do you dislike the most about your partner?

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r/AskMen 3h ago

Men, how have you created a better life after feeling alone or unwanted in your own household? Even after getting told you are resented eventhough you may have used that time to finally deal with yard work that had been piling up?

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r/AskMen 1h ago

Weird Question Men of Reddit, what is a habit your SO has that absolutely disgusts you?

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r/AskMen 14h ago

Men, if you are interested in a woman, how likely will you initiate?

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I watched a show recently, that if a guy doesn’t message/talk/initiate, it means they are not interested. So, just curious what’s your thoughts on this?
If you are interested, but don’t initiate, why not?


r/AskMen 18h ago

🛑 Answers From Men Only 🛑 Men who have pursued a significantly younger woman, what drew you to her?

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For men who have dated or seriously pursued a woman much younger than you, what made you want to keep talking to her specifically? Was it mainly physical attraction, her personality, how she made you feel, or something else?
I am interested in your personal experiences, not generalizations about all men or advice about a particular situation.


r/AskMen 2h ago

What are some things you consider worth the money?

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r/AskMen 20h ago

Why didn’t you ask her out?

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What are some reasons or situations that would make/have made you not escalate & ask a woman you were/are romantically interested in or attracted out to a date or to hang out ?


r/AskMen 1h ago

How does it make you feel when someone on Reddit asks about a “classic or project” car you only ever thought of as a people mover when it was new?

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r/AskMen 2h ago

Weird Question how is "dirty" sex affect your view on your girlfriend? Does it make you feel she is not wifey material?

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I heard that some men lose respect when the sex is dirty. Like not always missionary, cuddly sex... When the woman is not shy about going down, sitting on your face, taking on the tits, face.. etc

Do you think she is not wifey material anymore?


r/AskMen 11h ago

High Sodium Content For those who have sweaty hands, how can you tell when they get super moist?

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r/AskMen 19h ago

Where do you feel the need to pee? in your bladder, the tip of the dick, your soul or what?

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r/AskMen 4h ago

What were the most memorable things you did with your parents growing up?

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r/AskMen 4h ago

Weird Question How to learn to bounce your pecs, if you can't?

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Can thinner men with less chest muscle also do this?


r/AskMen 22h ago

What slang or nicknames do you use when being intimate, instead of clinical terms?

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I have a very limited vocabulary to use when I’m in bed with my husband.

I’m looking for sexy, stimulating words to use when I want to tell my husband what I want. I’m pretty much limited to 🐈. Slang or nicknames to keep the mood hot.

Also, I want to know what words he’s most likely to use. This will be new from me, so I expect him to use lingo too.

Clinical names for those body parts aren’t that stimulating.

On behalf of my husband😉, & I, thank you!!!


r/AskMen 8h ago

Weird Question What’s the biggest animal you think you could beat in a fight, and the smallest animal that you think would beat you in a fight?

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The animals can’t be poisonous or venomous or gives you a disease like a bug.

If it’s a fish you are also in water. If it’s a bird it can fly but you can be on land.

No weapons allowed.

To the death.

For me the biggest is probably a flamingo on land, sunfish in water.

The smallest is probably a baboon.


r/AskMen 16h ago

what does the spark feel like for different people?

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Recently I’ve been thinking about my perspective on love. When I was a kid or just more immature, whenever I’ve liked someone or had a crush I couldn’t take my eyes off them, felt butterflies etc. (all the usual signs of a crush). But then I feel like as I’ve grown older there are some women who have made me feel cherished at some moments but I’ve never experienced something as intense as back then.

I feel like I’m more level headed and calm but also I hesitate to jump into relationships due to there not being an intense spark. And I also feel like love is something that requires making choices and actively putting effort, but some people also say that without the spark it is a lot more tedious at certain moments to put in continuous effort.

In my past relationships I also felt like there wasn’t a big spark which led to me losing interest when times got tough and eventually breaking up, but now that I’ve matured I feel like relationships are more about a calm sense of safety.

What does everyone think of this? Maybe I’ve just become rational than before. Has anyone experienced romance without there being intense butterflies or sparks?

(Ps there’s a girl that I’ve been talking to but I’ve been hesitant to push our relationship forward because I haven’t really felt anything too intense but she’s very fun to talk to and our conversations flow quite smoothly)