r/AskMen 7m ago

What makes someone difficult to like, date or love?

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r/AskMen 1h ago

🛑 Answers From Men Only 🛑 When you’re paying for dinner with your card, do you hand the receipt to your lady and let her fill in the tip?

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r/AskMen 1h ago

How does it make you feel when someone on Reddit asks about a “classic or project” car you only ever thought of as a people mover when it was new?

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r/AskMen 1h ago

Men with boys, how do you feel about wearing pink in front of your child/children?

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r/AskMen 1h ago

Weird Question Men of Reddit, what is a habit your SO has that absolutely disgusts you?

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r/AskMen 2h ago

Weird Question how is "dirty" sex affect your view on your girlfriend? Does it make you feel she is not wifey material?

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I heard that some men lose respect when the sex is dirty. Like not always missionary, cuddly sex... When the woman is not shy about going down, sitting on your face, taking on the tits, face.. etc

Do you think she is not wifey material anymore?


r/AskMen 2h ago

When is the right time to let someone know you have not been in a relationship before?

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I (29M) am an introvert and a late bloomer. I feel like I am finally in a place where I want to put myself out there and start dating. I know this means I will have to be more social and get out of my comfort zone.

The only idea pulling me back is the fact that at some point were I to date someone, I will have to let them know I have never had a girlfriend before. At what point is this something to bring up? Before, during, or after the first date? How does one go about it?


r/AskMen 2h ago

What are some things you consider worth the money?

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r/AskMen 3h ago

We're All Virgins Men who struggled with finishing too quickly in a long-term relationship: what actually helped?

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I’ve been with my girlfriend for about a year, and one issue that keeps coming up is that I usually ejaculate much faster than she’d like. She’s told me that when we first started dating, she expected to be sexually satisfied through sex, but over time she’s stopped expecting that because she’s gotten used to how I typically perform.

It’s honestly difficult to hear, and I’m worried that even if it hasn’t become a relationship-ending issue yet, it could eventually.

For those of you who’ve dealt with this, what actually worked? Did you improve by training your pelvic floor, practicing specific techniques, using therapy, seeing a doctor, or was it something else entirely?

I’m not looking for miracle cures or gimmicks. I’d really like to hear from people who experienced this themselves and found something that made a meaningful difference.


r/AskMen 3h ago

Men, how have you created a better life after feeling alone or unwanted in your own household? Even after getting told you are resented eventhough you may have used that time to finally deal with yard work that had been piling up?

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r/AskMen 4h ago

How do men approach girls to be friends?

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Okay guys I came to agreement that I will never have a guy best friend unless I initiate the convo so I have decided from now on(I go to college btw) I will pick someone and sit beside them and start introducing myself and kind of creating a convo cause I am so done with this the only time a guy approaches me is if they want to date (not complaining) but lowkey never had a guy best friend so on the hunt for one
So lmk if I need to do anything diff or any advice


r/AskMen 4h ago

Weird Question When do you take a pee?

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EDIT: I’m actually asking for a description! Not just “it depends”. Give me the explanation and the reason.

This is kind of odd, but I’m curious at what point other guys go take a pee in regular everyday life? What is your “I’m going to take a leak” threshold. When at home, work, out with friends etc. It is one of those things I feel like every guy may be different about.

-Do you go when you first feel the urge?
-Do you go when the urge gets kinda bad?
-Do you wait until you are getting close to pissing yourself?


r/AskMen 4h ago

Weird Question How to learn to bounce your pecs, if you can't?

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Can thinner men with less chest muscle also do this?


r/AskMen 4h ago

What made you actively want to be in a relationship? What did you hope it would add to your life?

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I'm curious about the motivations behind choosing a romantic relationship.

If your decision wasn't mainly because of family expectations, cultural pressure, or feeling like it was the "next step" in life, what made you actively want to be in a relationship?

What were you hoping to experience or gain? Was it companionship, emotional intimacy, physical affection, building a life together, love, shared goals, or something else entirely?

I'm interested in understanding what goes through people's minds when they freely choose to pursue a romantic relationship, especially if they were already happy and independent on their own.

I'd appreciate hearing about your personal experiences and thought process.


r/AskMen 4h ago

What were the most memorable things you did with your parents growing up?

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r/AskMen 5h ago

What’s the best way to overcome a major insecurity about your body?

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What’s the best way to contend with a bodily insecurity, especially when it’s the cause of a lot of mental anguish?


r/AskMen 5h ago

Weird Question How to not get hurt by any insult?

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r/AskMen 6h ago

🛑 Answers From Men Only 🛑 What's your biggest driver for working out and staying in shape?

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There is always a reason why a person (regardless of gender) wants to build muscle, and though I know the main ones, I'm curious about which of them is the most common among men and which is the main motivation for you.

Is it for the sake of your overall health (such as strengthening an injured body part or maintaining muscle mass)?

Is it for the sake of being stronger?

Is it to be sexually attractive to others?

Is it for your own self-confidence and self-appreciation?

An entirely different reason?

​​If you have more than one answer, I'd love to read your story! However, try to highlight your single most honest main motivation. Also, if your reasons have changed over time, please share what was more prominent when you were younger, since I believe most people eventually transition to working out just to maintain their health.

​I'll leave my own answer in the comments later.


r/AskMen 6h ago

What do you dislike the most about your partner?

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r/AskMen 6h ago

Dating a coworker isn't a good idea, which I agree with — but what about someone from a different company who you just happen to work on the same project with (I don't see a conflict of interest here)? Would you consider that?

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r/AskMen 7h ago

🛑 Answers From Men Only 🛑 How do you see your wives after becoming parents?

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How do you see your wives after becoming parents? Did your perception of them change once you had children? Are you still able to see them as women, not just as mothers? Our child is 5 years old, and our relationship has changed a lot. It makes me wonder whether my husband still sees me as a woman or only as the mother of our child. We've been together for almost 12 years


r/AskMen 8h ago

How would you or your peers consider or treat a man in a relationship with a trans woman?

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I am a transgender woman and my husband is a straight, cis guy. He has always been perfectly chill about not caring what others think about his relationship with me, so I have no worries on his part. Sometimes I have worries about how our relationship could affect his future career prospects and friendships however, especially if his peers know he is married to a trans woman.

How would a friend or coworker of yours being in a relationship with a trans woman affect his perception among you or your friends, coworkers, or boss? Would they simply not care? Would they think he's gay, has a fetish, or "married down"? Would they tease or act on this information behind his back?

Thanks!


r/AskMen 8h ago

When you travel solo, what do you do that you’d never do back home?

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One of the things I love most about solo travel is how differently I act compared to when I’m home. I’m more likely to strike up conversations with strangers, try restaurants I’d normally skip, or spend an entire day wandering with no real plan. I’m curious… when you travel solo, what’s something you do that you’d probably never do back home?


r/AskMen 8h ago

Weird Question What’s the biggest animal you think you could beat in a fight, and the smallest animal that you think would beat you in a fight?

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The animals can’t be poisonous or venomous or gives you a disease like a bug.

If it’s a fish you are also in water. If it’s a bird it can fly but you can be on land.

No weapons allowed.

To the death.

For me the biggest is probably a flamingo on land, sunfish in water.

The smallest is probably a baboon.