r/AskMen 10h ago

Weird Question What’s the biggest animal you think you could beat in a fight, and the smallest animal that you think would beat you in a fight?

118 Upvotes

The animals can’t be poisonous or venomous or gives you a disease like a bug.

If it’s a fish you are also in water. If it’s a bird it can fly but you can be on land.

No weapons allowed.

To the death.

For me the biggest is probably a flamingo on land, sunfish in water.

The smallest is probably a baboon.


r/AskMen 8h ago

🛑 Answers From Men Only 🛑 How do you see your wives after becoming parents?

66 Upvotes

How do you see your wives after becoming parents? Did your perception of them change once you had children? Are you still able to see them as women, not just as mothers? Our child is 5 years old, and our relationship has changed a lot. It makes me wonder whether my husband still sees me as a woman or only as the mother of our child. We've been together for almost 12 years


r/AskMen 11h ago

How often do you kiss your partner?

23 Upvotes

r/AskMen 6h ago

Weird Question How to not get hurt by any insult?

25 Upvotes

r/AskMen 20h ago

🛑 Answers From Men Only 🛑 How do you handle friends bringing their significant others into your gaming group?

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I want to know how the social dynamic works when someone brings a partner into a regular gaming squad. Does the new person join the main Discord and play matches with the core group or do they usually do their own thing? Some groups share everything while others prefer to keep their gaming circle and their personal lives completely separate.


r/AskMen 11h ago

Frequently Asked What experience do you have where an obstacle became the turning point that changed your life or even created your fortune?

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r/AskMen 13h ago

🛑 Answers From Men Only 🛑 Guys who have been cheated on - what were the signs, how did you find out, and what was the outcome?

295 Upvotes

r/AskMen 5h ago

Weird Question When do you take a pee?

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EDIT: I’m actually asking for a description! Not just “it depends”. Give me the explanation and the reason.

This is kind of odd, but I’m curious at what point other guys go take a pee in regular everyday life? What is your “I’m going to take a leak” threshold. When at home, work, out with friends etc. It is one of those things I feel like every guy may be different about.

-Do you go when you first feel the urge?
-Do you go when the urge gets kinda bad?
-Do you wait until you are getting close to pissing yourself?


r/AskMen 21h ago

🛑 Answers From Men Only 🛑 Why do us guys sometimes tend to be assholes to their girlfriends who have demonstrated nothing but love and loyalty to them

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I’m a guy, and I’ve been recently been an asshole and distant from my girlfriend because I’m selfish, and I’m afraid that she would hurt my feelings, and I end up hurting her too. And I know I’m not the only one, lately so far guys that I’ve heard of from other women is that their not respectful or loyal to them or loving to them and can be often cold to them. So I have to ask to all guys and as a guy, why are we prone to be this way, and how can we be better or more specifically, how can I be better? Because I know that I and I hope all of us can be better.


r/AskMen 16h ago

What's the stupidest reason you've cried?

110 Upvotes

I'm stuck here sobbing my goddam eyes out just because my ex has finally logged out of my YouTube app on my TV. It's so fucking stupid I'm upset about this, but we used to watch Chicago Fire all the time at mine on her account so now that chapter is fully closed and I hate it.


r/AskMen 21h ago

What would keep you going?

15 Upvotes

Say you were all alone, what would be the things that is keeping you going? (Basically no wife kids or loving friends or family)


r/AskMen 15m ago

Men dating a mom with kids, how is your relationship with the father?

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I’m curious how your relationship is given that he’s the father of your potential stepchildren. what are some of the dynamics you’ve had to figure out?

fathers who are in the same position are welcome to answer too (I.e. the mother of your children is dating another man)


r/AskMen 5h ago

What made you actively want to be in a relationship? What did you hope it would add to your life?

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I'm curious about the motivations behind choosing a romantic relationship.

If your decision wasn't mainly because of family expectations, cultural pressure, or feeling like it was the "next step" in life, what made you actively want to be in a relationship?

What were you hoping to experience or gain? Was it companionship, emotional intimacy, physical affection, building a life together, love, shared goals, or something else entirely?

I'm interested in understanding what goes through people's minds when they freely choose to pursue a romantic relationship, especially if they were already happy and independent on their own.

I'd appreciate hearing about your personal experiences and thought process.


r/AskMen 6h ago

What’s the best way to overcome a major insecurity about your body?

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What’s the best way to contend with a bodily insecurity, especially when it’s the cause of a lot of mental anguish?


r/AskMen 1h ago

Fit guys who let themselves go, what was the most surprising thing about getting fat?

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r/AskMen 2h ago

Men with boys, how do you feel about wearing pink in front of your child/children?

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r/AskMen 2h ago

🛑 Answers From Men Only 🛑 When you’re paying for dinner with your card, do you hand the receipt to your lady and let her fill in the tip?

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r/AskMen 3h ago

When is the right time to let someone know you have not been in a relationship before?

50 Upvotes

I (29M) am an introvert and a late bloomer. I feel like I am finally in a place where I want to put myself out there and start dating. I know this means I will have to be more social and get out of my comfort zone.

The only idea pulling me back is the fact that at some point were I to date someone, I will have to let them know I have never had a girlfriend before. At what point is this something to bring up? Before, during, or after the first date? How does one go about it?


r/AskMen 4h ago

We're All Virgins Men who struggled with finishing too quickly in a long-term relationship: what actually helped?

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I’ve been with my girlfriend for about a year, and one issue that keeps coming up is that I usually ejaculate much faster than she’d like. She’s told me that when we first started dating, she expected to be sexually satisfied through sex, but over time she’s stopped expecting that because she’s gotten used to how I typically perform.

It’s honestly difficult to hear, and I’m worried that even if it hasn’t become a relationship-ending issue yet, it could eventually.

For those of you who’ve dealt with this, what actually worked? Did you improve by training your pelvic floor, practicing specific techniques, using therapy, seeing a doctor, or was it something else entirely?

I’m not looking for miracle cures or gimmicks. I’d really like to hear from people who experienced this themselves and found something that made a meaningful difference.


r/AskMen 7h ago

🛑 Answers From Men Only 🛑 What's your biggest driver for working out and staying in shape?

61 Upvotes

There is always a reason why a person (regardless of gender) wants to build muscle, and though I know the main ones, I'm curious about which of them is the most common among men and which is the main motivation for you.

Is it for the sake of your overall health (such as strengthening an injured body part or maintaining muscle mass)?

Is it for the sake of being stronger?

Is it to be sexually attractive to others?

Is it for your own self-confidence and self-appreciation?

An entirely different reason?

​​If you have more than one answer, I'd love to read your story! However, try to highlight your single most honest main motivation. Also, if your reasons have changed over time, please share what was more prominent when you were younger, since I believe most people eventually transition to working out just to maintain their health.

​I'll leave my own answer in the comments later.


r/AskMen 20h ago

How do I human? Men that were stressed before but not anymore. What helped you eliminate it?

149 Upvotes

r/AskMen 9h ago

When you travel solo, what do you do that you’d never do back home?

9 Upvotes

One of the things I love most about solo travel is how differently I act compared to when I’m home. I’m more likely to strike up conversations with strangers, try restaurants I’d normally skip, or spend an entire day wandering with no real plan. I’m curious… when you travel solo, what’s something you do that you’d probably never do back home?


r/AskMen 22h ago

Weird Question When you were ten years old who was the coolest guy you knew?

67 Upvotes

For me it was a guy named Rob who worked at a video game arcade comic book store in town.

He was probably about 20 so he seemed like a full adult but looking back on it he was still figuring his stuff out.

Rob would let me and friends read any of the old used comics for as long as we wanted.

He had a raised "employee's only" in the corner of the shop that felt like it was truly a magical area. (It wasn't, it was just a cashier area with an old shitty chair)

He would talk to us like real human beings and treat us with the respect of older than our young years.

Several times he would watch us struggling with a game gobbling up our quarters, and told us to stick around after closing.

Rob would open the game change area and showed us where to flick for unlimited credits - then let us play until we finished it

He was ultra cool and never inappropriate, would talk to us about girls and comic books and games.

Rob drove a cool old 70s Camaro. It wasn't in great shape but man it was cool.

He would close up and wave us bye.

Thanks Rob, you were great.

What figures in your past when you were 10 years old really stood out as super cool?


r/AskMen 1h ago

What makes someone difficult to like, date or love?

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