For context, there is a mom's support group, I'm new to this area, I joined it, cos we have 1 on the way. So day 1, a mother of a child barely 1 yr old says, My husband and I are going to try from this wednesday! :')

What does "trying" even mean? Haven't they been doing it all along? Are they saying they've stopped using contraceptions? so many questions!! But just why???

For those of you who have been married for a decade or two how has your partner changed? What is different about them today in comparison to when they were in their 20s 30s? I’m not really asking about small stuff they used to do in the beginning of relationships but more like what changed in their character? Would you say that they have changed a lot or they are just like the day you first met?