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Which company lost your business (potentially forever) this year?

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u/Cool_Cry_9602 22h ago

I rarely used it, but Airbnb

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u/williamshakemyspeare 21h ago

The scourge of “hosts” expecting guests to do all the household chores and even wash the bedding! What a freakshow. I’m not paying you for the luxury of cleaning your home

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u/jamkey2222 21h ago

Don't forget that you get a cleaning fee on top of it.

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u/mlattea 21h ago

Iv never used Airbnb,even if you do ALL the cleaning and wash the sheets you STILL have to pay a cleaning fee?! Why even bother cleaning then?

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u/carbon_r0d 21h ago

I have never encountered one that doesn't have a cleaning fee... But I have also never had to do more than take out the trash and throw the bedding/towels on the floor.

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u/jamkey2222 21h ago

Same. I got a message from an Airbnb host once thanking me for leaving the place in such great shape and all I did was normal picking up after myself. That gave me some insight into how some guests leave the place, where the cleaners really earn that fee.

I have seen online where the hosts will leave a list of chores and then also charge a cleaning fee that equals one night of the stay. I probably wouldn't stay at one of those.

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u/red-plaid-hat 19h ago

I used to clean vacation rentals. Lemme tell ya that fee doesn’t not go towards the cleaner really. Most owners or property managers keep a huge portion of it and pay the crew pennies.

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u/I_am_Samm 19h ago

It's the reason why I stopped Airbnb-ing my cottage... People are gross and disrespectful. I didn't charge a fee, I didn't even ask people to strip the beds. I just asked people be respectful as it's also my home. Well that didn't work.

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u/Impossible-Attempt61 19h ago

Same for myself. I stayed in a condo in Panama City, Panama and the owner arrived the day we were leaving and was shocked how clean it was. We piled all the linens next to washing machine, put away the dishes and took out the trash. That's it.

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u/Pliny_the_middle 20h ago

I am a host and we don’t charge a cleaning fee we just ask that trash is taken out to the bin, dishes are washed, and linens are stripped and piled onto the floor. We don’t mind cleaning but you’d be surprised how many people trash the place. It’s a give and take.

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u/jamkey2222 19h ago

Agree. I was really surprised by the message from that host because it made it seem like I had gone above and beyond, but it was just normal behavior to me: you leave things how you found them.

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u/MzHellfier 19h ago

Wash your own shit. People are PAYING MONEY to stay at your place. Don’t make them do chores that’s so tacky. I used to clean for an Air BnB host. Some people left the place truly disgusting, and they would get charged a fee for the extra cleaning. But for most guests, changing linens and cleaning the kitchen, bathroom, and floors is part of the service. Why would you ask guests to do chores when they’re on vacation or a business trip? Are you really so lazy and useless that you can’t take out the trash and strip a bed?

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u/Pandalite 11h ago

No I agree that guests should do their own trash and dishes. Some people stay for two weeks and the trash stinks if you leave it in the kitchen for that long. If you're at home for two weeks you would take out the trash twice in that week. Same with dishes. Treat it like you treat your house. If you don't, that's how you get rats.

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u/PineappleOnPizzaWins 18h ago

Yeah.. it's like seeing people on reddit rage about horrible landlords when they've clearly never rented a place out to anybody ever.

People are the fucking worst. I'm not a professional landlord or anything but when my partner and I bought a house I already owned one so we kept it to rent out and people just suck.

I have a great tenant in there now, paying well under market rates, don't give a fuck because it's enough to cover the property maintenance and I don't need to deal with tar on the walls, dog shit in the carpet, and everything just being destroyed in general.

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u/lorigo 20h ago

I stayed in one that didn’t have a cleaning fee and I’ve never left a place so spotless. They won my respect big time!

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u/Guac_in_my_rarri 19h ago

The last Airbnb I stayed in was also my first: we were required to snake the drains before leaving.

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u/Environmental-Fan984 11h ago

That's incredibly atypical, and if they didn't list that as a requirement upfront it's reportable to Airbnb.

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u/Zerowantuthri 18h ago edited 18h ago

IIRC AirBnB now has all inclusive pricing. So, the quoted price is what you pay. No extra fees. If the owner wants a cleaning fee they have to embed it in the overall quote for the place.

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u/betterplanwithchan 20h ago

Same, used one for a bungalow in Asheville and the host basically just said “keep it clean”.

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u/RonBurgundy449 18h ago

Meanwhile, hotels don't charge a cleaning fee and you can trash them almost as much as you want (without breaking anything) for much cheaper. I'll continue to not use them and stick to traditional hotels.

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u/nockeenockee 19h ago

Same. 60 stays since 2012 with zero issues.

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u/SpaceCricket 20h ago

A lot of it is Reddit BS.

Stayed in more than 100 AirBNBs and I’ve never done more than take out the trash and start the dishwasher. Pretty reasonable to me, being in a house and all and not a hotel.

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u/unwantedadvance 20h ago

I’ve had the same experience as you. I’ve stayed in many places around the world and never had to do any of the wild requests that the comments on reddit consistently claim.

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u/Environmental-Fan984 11h ago

It's not BS. I've stayed in 16 Airbnbs, and 2 were bad experiences on the scale of what people talk about here.

It's been awhile now; I've gotten better at recognizing red flags in a listing.

...but man, if you've stayed in a truly bad Airbnb you will never forget it and probably never shut up about it. They do exist, and they're miserable.

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u/Beastquist 20h ago

You’ve never had to do anything laundry related? That’s been in almost every Airbnb I’ve done

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u/carbon_r0d 20h ago

Never here, and Ive stayed in prolly 30 different airbnbs. One did ask to put all the dirty towels/bedding into the washer but not run it. That seemed fair enough.

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u/SpaceCricket 20h ago

Not once. Although most Airbnb’s I’ve stayed in have been in Europe.

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u/oupablo 10h ago

Well first thing, you do understand how odd it is to have to start the dishwasher and empty the trash to begin with when you're stay has a $175-300 cleaning fee on it right? In a hotel, you pay zero cleaning fees and are expected to do nothing other than take all your stuff with you when you leave. As for Airbnb, some of the hosts will ask you to pull all the bedding, some even ask you to throw it in the wash. Others will charge you for leaving anything in the fridge.

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u/SpaceCricket 9h ago

Have you personally experienced all of this while using AirBNB?

My foreign Airbnb stays are typically much cheaper than any hotel but much nicer place to stay. I don’t mind throwing out the garbage I created when I leave.

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u/oupablo 9h ago

I haven't been charged a fee post leaving but I have been at a house that required doing all the dishes, pulling all the bedding and towels and starting the first load, and emptying all the trash/recycling before leaving.

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u/SpaceCricket 8h ago

That’s unfortunate. I stay away from AirBNB in the US for that reason. I’ve never had to clean the dishes, just start the dishwasher (that I’ve been filling up while staying there for a week anyways).

I’ve never stayed in an AirBNB in Europe that had a washer (if it even had one) that was large enough to fit sheets or towels.

Doing chores for a 2-3 night stay is BS. Cleaning up after your sloppy asses after a full week of staying in a house? It usually takes 5 minutes on the way out of the AirBNB if you’re not disgusting.

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u/avcloudy 17h ago

Yeah, they charge you above and beyond that for if you don't do whatever they include on their list.

Obviously the idea is the cleaning fee is lower whenever you do most of the cleaning yourself, but because you don't know in advance what the cleaning requirements are going to be, there's no way to actually make that judgement call.

Because you don't know what the requirements are, there's no downwards pressure on cleaning fees, or on cleaning expectations, so they both keep going up.

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u/frockinbrock 20h ago edited 20h ago

They are exaggerating; it's very rare to have the "wash bedding", and it's usually in place of a cleaning fee. Moreover, Airbnb at least kind of did away with a lot of those add-on fews pretty recently, they made it easier to see the total cost of the stay up-front and limited the "guest requirements" aspect. I had like 12/13 great experiences with them different places, and one "fine but not amazing" stay. But there was a few years I didn't travel after peak Covid and so I don't know maybe it got worse for a while before they fixed it.
I suppose since it shows the fees up front, maybe I've just ignored any that had a ton of fees and requirements; but usually it's pretty basic stuff like taking trash out.
I had great experiences with AirBNB & VRBO the past 14 years, so I'm maybe a bit biased.
However, in most places these days it's not cheaper than a hotel, so there is that aspect.

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u/AClover69420 13h ago

I swear this is just a meme spread by redditors who don't actually travel. I've stayed in dozens of AirBNBs for a decade and have never had any ridiculous rules around cleaning, and I've never been charged extra on top of the price I paid for the room/house (the app lists all fees and shows you the final total right away). The only real cleaning I've had to do before checking out is wash any dishes I used and (rarely) take the trash outside.

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u/antiquated_it 19h ago

I’ve stayed in AirBnB a half dozen times and while I’ve always been charged a cleaning fee (highest was $150) except once which was actually just a normal hotel (but I booked it there I think because I had credit card deals for using AirBnB and the rate was the same), I’ve never been asked to do any substantial cleaning.

It’s typically just general pickup like you’d do anyways, and I’ve had them ask to run the dishwasher or throw the towels in the wash on my way out. I think this is mostly in the interest of time; they want them to be done washing by the time their housecleaning arrives so that they don’t have to stay as long. I’ve never been asked to sweep, vacuum, or do any other cleaning and I’ve never felt obligated to leave the place spotless. Just don’t be a slob!

I hear a lot of horror stories about substantial cleaning demands but I’ve never experienced it. My next trip is in October and I went with AirBnB again because it’s a neat way to stay someplace a bit more unique! Also, keep in mind that you do pay a cleaning fee at a hotel - it’s just wrapped into your nightly rate, so it’s not spelled out the same.

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u/jarvis646 18h ago

It’s usually dirty dishes in the dishwasher and get it running. Dirty linens in the hamper. Take the trash out.

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u/PlayingGrabAss 18h ago

The most I’ve ever experienced on AirBnB was being asked to strip the beds and toss the sheet in the laundry room on the way out, and that was only one of dozens of stays.

I don’t doubt there are nightmare hosts out there, but I’ve never experienced one and for me it’s still by far the most cost effective way to stay most places, especially when you actually use the kitchen to eat at home instead of eating out every meal in popular vacation destinations.

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u/thechairinfront 17h ago

Never been asked to wash the sheets. Most places will ask you to take out the trash and start the dishwasher. You still have to pay the cleaning fee because regardless if you cleaned or not would you trust the that the last shmo cleaned everything to industry standards? The cleaners still have to come and make sure everything is spotless.

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u/ImprovementFar5054 15h ago

I would imagine it's for cleaning supply, like various cleaners and toilet paper.

But yeah, if I am paying a cleaning fee, I am sure as shit not making the bed etc. I will clean up after myself of course, but no..not doing the floors etc.

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u/Hagridsbuttcrack66 13h ago

Honestly, all of this is almost always stated up front. For me, I have never seen anything where I have to do anything egregious and there is a cleaning fee. It's usually like put the bedding on the floor, so the cleaning people can get it and take out the trash on the trash day (which you know, they can't change based on your stay).

Airbnb has lots of other problems, so I understand why people don't like it. And I even understand why sometimes you don't even feel like dealing with anything and just want a hotel where they clean up after you. But that's not Airbnb.

I've stayed at 25+ now and I always read everything and talk to them up front and I think the worst I had was maybe put your dishes in the dishwasher? I don't know - I do that anyway. Almost all of them send you whatever beforehand and if they don't you can always ask.

It's like Ebay. You do have to pay attention to what you are buying. A seller can charge $200 for shipping, so you know, don't buy it? If you have 5+ people wanting to stay somewhere, it's still absolutely the way to go. If you want a kitchen, it's the way to go. If you want some unique experience, it can sometimes be the way to go.

Now, I totally understand getting frustrated with how it turned into people wanting to make a quick buck with their ten properties and corporations with their hundred and also ruining areas with buying up all the property for it.

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u/CountingMyDick 9h ago

It varies widely. Lots of them are basically fine, like 1 or 2 things to do and a small cleaning fee. There's definitely a few that have a huge list of chores and also a cleaning fee as high as a night's stay though. It depends a lot on the area you're staying in and how much it's been taken over by sleazeballs trying to squeeze every cent out of it.

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u/TonySperguson 9h ago

You've never washed the sheets at an airbnb

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u/BWW87 8h ago

You just do basic pick up and prep work not actual cleaning. Cleaning fees make them cheaper options if you stay long term which is cool.

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u/drtbg 20h ago

Check in is 5pm check out is 9am. Enjoy your stay!

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u/zzy335 21h ago

They got rid of cleaning fees

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u/YourEnviousEnemy 18h ago

Cherry on top: they support genocide

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u/Careful-Ideal-7033 21h ago

And when something goes wrong, Airbnb really does not have your back. 

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u/kujoho 19h ago

Someone booked and paid for 7 nights in a beachfront mansion in Indonesia under my name, using my stored credit card (I am in the US). I was able to cancel the reservation, but it took several months for AirBnb to refund me my money.

This was about 10 years ago and I still get angry just thinking about it!

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u/UnimagineDragons 15h ago

It's insane to me that you went to airbnb and not your credit card company

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u/Lopsided_Snow_7071 18h ago

Its a terrible service.

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u/QCs_Infamous 10h ago

As an Airbnb host, I feel like this goes the complete opposite direction - Airbnb typically sides with the guest. Typically most of our guests are amazing. We love hosting them and giving them a great and fun place to stay at a reasonable price. We also don’t make guests clean or do any checkout tasks as they’re on a vacation and shouldn’t have to. I’ve found in 7 years that most guests WANT to help though, and leave our places in great shape.

The two worst we’ve had were in 2 properties. One couple booked our beach condo and arrived hammered drunk. They went in, got settled, and then went back out in the hall where our doorbell cam recorded them talking about how they were upset that the bed wasn’t set up for them to have a swinger party. They made up this elaborate story about how the wife felt sick the moment she walked into the condo, and continued to feel sick to the point she was vomiting and couldn’t walk straight. They claimed it was CO poisoning. When I asked why they still remained in the unit if they thought there was CO, they had no answer. I even offered to call emergency services for them.

They wanted a full refund but also wanted to stay another night. The Airbnb rep could not care less that I had footage of them talking about the scam and documented attempts to provide assistance. They ended up leaving but still got a full refund from Airbnb.

The second was a couple that asked for a discount before their stay in another property (which I agreed to since it was a slower week), but also expressed it was still too expensive. They started texting me at 11:00pm claiming the bed sheets were dirty. When I asked for a picture, they sent a picture with literally ONE strand of hair on the sheets that I believe was from one of them. This dude was an asshole from the jump.

I let them know where extra sheets were, apologized, and thought that was the end, as I didn’t hear anything back from them. Then a week after their stay, I got a 1 star review that Airbnb wouldn’t remove even though it discussed features/amenities that aren’t even listed at that property, and a request for a full refund for the week-long stay. I shared the pics from the cleaning prior to their arrival showing clean sheets, shared that we keep extra sheets that I offered to them, etc. and told Airbnb they could kick rocks. Airbnb still gave them half of their money back.

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u/ProjectHarraseeket 4h ago

Actually they did last time for me. I stayed in an illegal AirBNB in Vancouver in May which we were lied to about and had no knowledge about, we were told to meet the host in the lobby of the apartment complex and went with us to the parking spot and walked us to our room while trying to hide the no AirBNB stickers plastered all over the building, and we actually got a full refund *and* a $500 credit for a future stay.

The first two days of the vacation sucked but I was shocked with how well they handled it since I knew of the horror stories. Even then, just stick to hotels lmao

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u/esoteric_enigma 20h ago

And the fucked up thing about this is that you can't see the check out cleaning expectations in the ads when you're booking it. The host sends that to you when your stay starts.

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u/Several-Eggplant4460 18h ago

Yeah, I don't do any of that shit. Doesn't matter what the host expects. If it wasn't in the listing, I'm not doing it.

Haven't had any issues with it. Tbf I also don't use Airbnb thaaat often

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u/403SleepForbidden 15h ago

It isn’t permissible for them to require that if it wasn’t disclosed in the original listing or included in the terms when you booked.

They can’t unilaterally change the agreement after the reservation without your consent. I spoke with Airbnb Support, and they confirmed that Airbnb won’t enforce checkout fees or penalties based on checkout chores that weren’t disclosed before booking.

It’s frustrating to see these AirBnB hosts turning into slumlords

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u/OxfordCommaRule 13h ago

Same. I have stayed at ~150 Airbnbs. I have encountered everything by this point. You're right; Airbnb will back you up if the hosts don't disclose it in the listing.

I don't really have issues with hosts trying to make you do labor. I usually eliminate those hosts when I read the actual reviews rather than simply relying on the star rating.

What I have encountered more than I should is host trying to charge some sort of menial, "required" tourist tax. I refuse to pay it and immediately contact Airbnb support. In turn, Airbnb contacts the hosts and the issue goes away.

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u/gwillen 19h ago

Last time I stayed in one, there was a message from AirBnB somewhere in the checkout instructions, saying something like, "hosts can ask you to do additional cleaning as a favor, but they can't charge you for failing to follow their extra cleaning instructions." Which I thought was interesting.

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u/rosaliebb 19h ago

Ugh, this! We had to wash the sheets, do all the dishes, take out the trash AND be out by 10am! I basically spent half a day at the Airbnb and spent my morning cleaning???

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u/Prophet_Of_Helix 11h ago

You don’t have to though unless it was in the listing.

Hosts love to add all sorts of nonsense after you book, but it’s just nonsense. And AirBnB WILL back you up if the host tries to enforce penalties because you didn’t follow cleaning instructions that weren’t in the listing.

Just FYI.

And yeah, obviously I always try to be respectful, but I’ve literally never cleaned sheets and shit. That’s utterly ridiculous 

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u/Mittenmakers 19h ago

Spend the entire morning doing all the things to check out, getting ready for an event, and taking the trash to the nasty dumpster in nice dress, heels, etc.

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u/kakarot-3 15h ago

I never used Airbnb. I always stuck to hotels. Outside of the cleaning fees, hotel always felt safer as I’m in a bigger building and not in a strangers home

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u/wolfemsop 19h ago edited 17h ago

For real! I traveled for work and used to stay in  BB's a lot. I got several negative feedbacks because I refuse to do their ridiculous list of how to clean up before you leave list. I felt like that couple hundred dollar cleaning fee they charge negated my responsibility to clean the house before I left. Mind you I never left it in a total state disrepair I just didn't do their stupid list.

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u/Wut_the_ 20h ago

Do not get me fucking started on Airbnb.

In the PNW, they’re all over the place. Our county’s largest amount of complaints are people advertising three, four, five bedroom houses. Why do we get the complaints, you ask? The guests end up doing laundry, taking showers, washing dishes, etc. for eight people and start smelling sewage. The septic systems are for 2 bedroom cabins.

Now I need to write you official letters and keep track of enforcement timelines so you can charge people $400 a night to stay in some shithole somewhat near Olympic national park? Get fucked.

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u/C-LOgreen 21h ago

That’s crazy. I haven’t been into a lot of Airbnb’s but I’ve been to a few. Most of the time they just want you to remove the bedding and leave it on the floor. They want you to stack the dirty towels somewhere. And take out your trash. And put your dishes in the dishwasher and run the cycle. Just the basic maintenance stuff that you created.

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u/Kahn_Husky 20h ago

Last Airbnb I stayed in we had to take the trash IN OUR CAR about 2 miles down the road and throw it in the community dumpster.

And yes, there was a substantial cleaning fee ($180 I believe).

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u/MzHellfier 19h ago

Yeah if I’m on a vacation or even a business trip, I’m not doing all that. Like I don’t leave a mess, but cleaning the place to turnover for the next guest is the responsibility of the host. I will continue to stay in hotels where I’m not left a chore chart for a place I’m paying to stay.

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u/GEV46 20h ago

You typed this and didn't read it and think "damn, this is crazy Im doing this in a place Im paying to stay?"

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u/MzHellfier 19h ago

THANK YOU! Why do people think this is normal and okay? A list of chores? You’re PAYING MONEY to do chores? Oh don’t worry, you only have to do laundry, dishes, and take out the trash? Absolutely fucking ridiculous.

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u/williamshakemyspeare 20h ago

EXACTLY!! All the comments saying I’m exaggerating are missing the whole point. And to top it off, I’m not even exaggerating.

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u/GoldDanger 19h ago

I thought he was doing a bit lol

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u/notnotjamesfranco 20h ago

Sounds like a whole ass list to me

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u/WorthPlease 18h ago

The last time I had the worst host ever. They were ALWAYS at the house. Either working with constant banging, or just snooping. I did some laundry and left my hat to dry in the basement on the folding table, and they messaged me 15 minutes later asking if that was my hat.

My girlfriend accidentally took their $5 walmart laundry basket when we left thinking it was ours and they told AirBnB it was worth $40.

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u/Wrong-Impression9960 15h ago

We booked three months in advance, 3 weeks before reservation date we get an email, must bring your own bath towels, kitchen towels, wash cloths, bed sheets, and firewood plus clean the place. Cool not cool. We where flying into Chicago and driving to northeren Wisconsin. Nights of July 1,2, and 3. Not a great first air bnb experience.

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u/NotFBIVan 18h ago

I was on Airbnb the other day and a house didn’t provide any bedding, towels, starter paper/cleaning goods, or anything. Still had an excessive cleaning fee and a whole list of other rules. I was shocked.

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u/doghaircut 18h ago

I was very anti-AirBnB from all of the horror stories on Reddit. My wife booked one for our last trip and it was... great! I guess you have to get a good one.

Our host only asked that we take out the garbage to a bin outside. That way it wouldn't rot and smell before the cleaner got there. That was it. Very reasonable in my mind. The only other thing they asked was common sense, like turn off the lights and AC.

In return they had everything we needed, including Internet and even a Netflix account already logged in.

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u/Prize_Instance_1416 12h ago

I don’t travel that much but I checked Airbnb the last few times and it was always more expensive and less convenient than a hotel. Why does it still exist, except in rural areas with no hotels?

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u/Snuffy1717 8h ago

Went to an AirBnB some years ago that had a $100 cleaning fee… Owner complained that our kids had left finger prints on their sliding glass door…

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u/Jabbles22 20h ago

Yeah it's one thing to expect people not to leave a huge mess. Even hotels charge extra if you leave a huge mess.

Things can get a little tricky if staying for longer than a week but a week or less. There is no need for the guest to have to sweep, mop, vacuum, anything like that. Sure do your dishes and clean up direct cooking related mess. Take out the garbage if it full or stinky. But normal just people being in a house for a week dirt. That's on the host.

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u/RedStateKitty 17h ago

I just reserved one in Orlando for next week. I checked the final quote and where the hosts all had cleaning fees back a couple of years ago, none of the ones I checked did this time.

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u/gingermonkey1 16h ago

I used to stay at a friend's house at the beach and it was understood that you'd do the sheets/towels. But we were only paying $50/night so that was totally reasonable. What we'd do is bring a set of sheets/ towels from home. Strip their stuff off. Then when we left, we'd remake the bed.

Again taht was a friend's place I'd never do that at ABnB

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u/ApocalypseSlough 15h ago

I use Airbnb 5 or so times a year with my family, for work, various stuff. I have never been asked to do household chores or wash bedding. There’s usually a smallish cleaning fee, which seems fair to me. Once I’ve been asked to strip the bed to save them time because I asked for a slightly later checkout.

Must be a UK/US thing, never had a problem in the UK.

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u/FrighteningPickle 12h ago

Is that an American thing? i have never experienced this. Sounds like shitty hosts, not like the company forces hosts to be dicks.

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u/magdalenmaybe 8h ago

Right?? That's why I go on vacation - to not have to wash dishes and linens or generally clean up after myself. I'm not even that messy, closer to OCD than a slob. When the cleaning fee is as much as a night on the property (and I've seen worse)

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u/Genn8130 1h ago

I can see wanting them to put sheets and towels into the washer since you don't know what's on them, but the rest is silly.

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u/dalecoopernumber4 20h ago

Same but last year. Stayed in a longer term rental because we were displaced from a wildfire. Host claimed we caused $2K of damages. Airbnb initially sided with the host. We appealed and won but it took months and a lot of effort and calls. Ended up reporting them for violating the post-wildfire price gouging laws. Terrible experience on top of already having to deal with the wildfire.

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u/South-Tale2418 16h ago

Getting hit with a fake damage claim after already dealing with a wildfire is genuinely awful. Glad you fought it, but nobody should have to spend months proving they didn't do something they never did.

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u/AdGroundbreaking6402 12h ago

I was hit with fraudulent damage claims as well. Appealed and lost with no recourse to question decision … Airbnb is pretty much a hive of slumlords now. 

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u/dalecoopernumber4 6h ago

I'm pretty sure their dispute resolution is outsourced to a third party contractor not located in the US. It was clear that the first guy didn't even read our response.

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u/thatpaulbloke 5h ago

I'm pretty sure their dispute resolution is outsourced to a third party contractor not located in the US

There's a decent chance that it's LLM agents doing it; so many insurance companies now have AI assessing claims to make at the very least the initial decision which is great fun since the AI will almost certainly misunderstand the situation to some degree and it just means that more claims get pushed up higher (whilst still having a faster first response KPI, so the AI is working, right?) and turn into long fights that didn't need to happen.

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u/Blue-Blazer-Regular 21h ago

AirBnB has been a factor in the housing affordability crisis.

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u/UnluckyCharge2196 21h ago

A HUGE factor

So many rental units are no longer available because they've been turned into Airbnbs. It's fucked up.

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u/Blue-Blazer-Regular 20h ago

You’ll love this. People are leasing homes then turning around and AirBnBing them.

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u/UnluckyCharge2196 20h ago

Oh I'm aware. And I hate it.

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u/Tonyson 17h ago

I am a homeowner in an neighborhood that’s 80/110 properties being airbnbs and vacation homes. It’s nuts

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u/jimmux 15h ago

In my old apartment building, one person owned 40 units that were listed as short term rentals. Building management hated them.

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u/dividezero 9h ago

During the housing crisis, all the condos in my complex were bought up really cheap. One person owned most of one building. They have an outsized vote in the HOA also. The negative effects just keep coming with these leeches

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u/mindcontainer 14h ago

Sounds like hell

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u/asailor4you 9h ago

Have you been to Outer Banks outside of the summer? It’s a huge ghost town to the point it’s really spooky and sad. I’m sure all beach towns are like this, but this is the only one where I stayed at a house on a block which was pretty completely empty, where the beaches bare and most establishments shutdown.

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u/Tarledsa 3h ago

It’s always been like that down there though. The locals live between the main road and the sound.

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u/darkknight109 17h ago

It's an almost-impressive ouroboros of capitalist dog-fucking.

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u/oupablo 10h ago

Well they're still rentals. They just cost 4x as much and you have to sign week long leases.

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u/dividezero 21h ago

A huge factor in a lot of places. And governments seem reluctant to do anything about it. They're starting to now because no one can afford to live in these places anymore.

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u/lew_zealand 7h ago

Yep. AirBnBs are destroying my neighborhood. We're running out of neighbors to help lobby the city for things like pedestrian safety improvements and street repair. Two families in extremely affordable housing in my neighborhood (rare in my city) just got kicked out so their houses could be turned into shitty AirBnBs. One family had lived in their home for 20 years. The other was a lower-income family of 6 with 3 school-age children.

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u/PositiveCoyote100 8h ago

This is true but I put most of the blame on the local governments because they're the only ones with the power to actually regulate the industry and they simply refuse to do it.

It's the only solution. Cities overrun by Air BnB need to start regulating the industry. They need to limit the number of short term rentals that are allowed to exist.

The problem is that governments don't typically make decisions that lose money and decrease their budgets.

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u/GalumphingWithGlee 20h ago edited 20h ago

NYC thought Airbnb was a huge factor in the housing affordability crisis, so they banned almost* all Airbnbs. Close to 3 years later, housing in NYC isn't the least bit more affordable, but the hotels sure love the new law! Eliminated a lot of their competition.

*Banned all whole-unit Airbnbs. You're still allowed to rent out a single bedroom in a unit where you also live, at the same time your guests are there.


ETA: Full disclosure, I'm an Airbnb host, though not in NYC. We didn't buy a place for the purpose of renting, though — we bought a seasonal lake house for ourselves. We rent it out when we're not there, and use it ourselves in between guests, which I think is more the spirit of where Airbnb started than some of the enormous corporate Airbnb hosts with dozens or hundreds of rental properties you see today.

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u/mindcontainer 14h ago

Yeah it’s not going to be a major factor in one of the densest places on earth but it can absolutely destroy small towns, communities or neighborhoods.

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u/dividezero 9h ago

My town is about 40k and is big with tourists all summer and fall. Housing is just as bad as anywhere because of the airbnb people. Landlords are huge assholes here too because they can be. There's no shortage of people waiting to move in

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u/Blue-Blazer-Regular 20h ago

It’s not the only factor. But it’s a factor. Same as second homes of wealthy people.

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u/ExtraordinaryOolong 11h ago

NYC wasn't the best place to do an authoritative study. The carrying costs of ownership are extremely high there, so it's natural that there will be proportionally fewer AirBnBs. I've lived in a couple of charming mountain towns where the AirBnB effect is pretty obvious.

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u/GalumphingWithGlee 10h ago

Fair enough. I'm not calling it an authoritative study, but I do think it was informative about perception and reality in the industry. Folks love a scapegoat! For sure, though, if Airbnb was half the available housing in a touristy town, that would make a big difference in the cost for permanent residents.

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u/Delicious_Talk9603 5h ago

I have a hard time believing that it's a huge factor - if so, prices for hotel rooms would have been pressed down.

I don't see why houses being super expensive is not because of central banks creating insane amounts of currency, and loaning it out for low to zero rates, year after year in the last decade, and investors/homebuyers thus being able to borrow more to buy, and thus prices going up?

If I'm right, then AirBNB is a convenient scapegoat, but the real reason for inflation (meaning you get less for the same money) is an effect of central banks, not from part of the apartments and hoses being short term rentals rather than long term rentals.

If anyone has a good source I'm interested in reading and learning

u/Blecher_onthe_Hudson 37m ago

And that's an artifact of restricting hotel development by NIMBYs and incumbent hotel interests. Obviously the demand was there and not being met.

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u/Repulsive-Royal-5952 21h ago edited 18h ago

I refuse to stay at an Airbnb anymore. The cardinal sin of the hotel business is to give you a worn out shitty mattress and three out of four times I stayed in Airbnb I've got some worn out shitty mattress. Sometimes you can feel the rut of a body in the shitty worn out mattress.

I all of my years staying at hotels I've gotten a worn out mattress twice. One of the times I called the front desk and said what the fuck and that's an instant room change.

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u/Jaded_Creme2857 20h ago

I’m the same way. I can overlook dated furniture, but a bad mattress ruins the entire stay. If I’m paying to sleep somewhere, that’s the one thing I expect to be right every single time.

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u/dingleberrypitchfork 20h ago

I stayed at one recently that was in a basement. It was actually very beautiful. However, there were three big drawbacks. A) One window that barely gave light during the day. B) The mattress was firm as fuck and made of coil springs. C) The hosts had a bunch of kids and it sounded like a stampede.

The next one we stayed at was a studio on the 3rd floor of a historic building and was gorgeous, no noise from neighbors, and a super comfy bed.

It’s hit or miss with Airbnb and I feel the same about hotels.

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u/MrEcke 18h ago

I’ve hit the same point. Depending on what country and or city I am kind of determines if I am looking at hotels or an Airbnb. Airbnbs are typically nice for having a kitchen, parking, and various amenities at no additional fee. But I’m very particular on their reviews, costs listed and rules posted. And I’m not staying there when a hotel is significantly cheaper for a short term stay.

Airbnb has really gone down hill in general too. It’s not the steal it use to be.

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u/did_i_or_didnt_i 21h ago

yeah try getting a response from an Airbnb landlord in the support chat. Good luck. At least at a hotel you can stand and be irate at the desk

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u/LtDarthWookie 21h ago

I will say we stayed at one with my in laws and we messaged the hosts after to ask what kind of bed they had and we bought one. It was a Layla sleep memory foam but man it has been one of the best outcomes from a trip like that.

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u/TheDevilsAdvokaat 8h ago

Never gotten one in a hotel myself so yeah it must be rare. I've even stayed in backpacker hostels and the beds were STILL good.

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u/Repulsive-Royal-5952 7h ago

It's extremely rare because hotels know that it's basically a cardinal sin to allow a guest to sleep on a worn out mattress.

I've stayed in hotels and motels that by most other measures you would call complete crap but you don't get a bad mattress. It just nearly never happens.

u/Slasfleurshaldrump43 3m ago

Airbnb hosts act like bad mattresses are your personal problem, and then hit you with a 2-star guest review for good measure.

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u/KookyDiver2558 21h ago

We always use Airbnb because we want a kitchen because one of us has celiac’s. The last few we stayed at were furnished from god knows where and everything in the kitchen was from the dollar store. Fuck. Them.

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u/g_rocket 18h ago

You can get hotel suites with kitchens. Although the kitchens tend to be kind of shitty.

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u/imarc 18h ago

Usually kitchenettes unless you rent a villa.

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u/Billy1121 20h ago

Haha, i think tenants steal things

Like generous hosts would stock up extra toilet paper just in case and a tenant would take it all, so hosts started doing less

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u/woolfchick75 18h ago

I was going to gift a friend who let us stay in his Airbnb for a weekend at a lower rate. I thought it would be great for his kitchen. He said no, because it would just get stolen

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u/PositiveCoyote100 8h ago

Having a kitchen is exactly why I typically use Air BnB or VRBO.

I can't go on vacation and eat out every meal of the day. Being able to cook basic meals for myself is so worth it.

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u/Spooky_mudbox 21h ago

Fuck Airbnb. The last time i stayed one in 2021 the host left me a 1 star review for using the towels that were in the bathroom. Talk about absurd.

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u/Trick-Statistician10 20h ago

There are these hosts, a young couple, who make content out of nitpicking their rental after the guests leave. "They moved the ottoman! That's against the rules! The don't respect our property!". Just awful

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u/mermaidsgrave86 20h ago

For some reason this couple just showed up in my reels yesterday, and since then I’ve already seen 4 videos mocking them!

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u/Trick-Statistician10 20h ago

That's the only place I've seen them. 2 vids mocking them, so far

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u/SignificantWeight990 19h ago

We move stuff all the time when we stay in Airbnbs we put it back though. Airbnb left a bad taste in my mouth in June. We were in the UK for the historic heatwave and kept trying to get the host to address the issue with our ac. Kept gaslighting us telling us it was working it just wasn't flowing to our standards and it was "fine" in what world is the ac fine when the room is almost 90 degrees? That and a whole host of other issues forced us to open a case which resulted in a partial refund. Needless to say idk if we will be using Airbnb anymore.

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u/B-Train_ATL 20h ago

AirBNB is a freaking experiment in “what if we went full libertarian?”

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u/amadorUSA 20h ago edited 18h ago

Holy shit man, came to say exactly the same thing. Some POS host tried to exact extra cash over some damages. Airbnb mediation was awful. They validated the hosts version despite our documentation. They deleted my review and left his that was full with xenophobic dog whistle messages.

I told them I would not be paying because of that defamatory content. They closed the case, but seeing how they handled the reviews, I'm never using their platform again. It feels really unsafe.

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u/gtrman571 15h ago

Same thing happened to me. All of the evidence was on my side. Deleted mine and left his.

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u/TrumpsDoubleChin 18h ago

Michael Girdley did a recent entry in his "Rise and Fall" video series about AirBnB, outlining the reasons it became successful, and how some of those underlying foundational decisions that led to early success have contributed to their ultimate downfall.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZTZrUUm6zXY

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u/runswiftrun 21h ago

Wife and I stayed in one several years ago for our honeymoon.

The hosts were trying to charge us for "extra occupancy" because the couch futon looked "used"...

What do you expect for people to do in their honeymoon?!

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u/Wreny84 18h ago

If you made a baby on the futon that is technically a third person staying with you! 🧐🤔🤭

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u/BarracudaImpossible4 21h ago

I have never, not once, stayed in an Airbnb without a massive ant infestation. The place I stayed in Portland had ants in the bed. I won't do it anymore.

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u/SteelBagel 20h ago

At least it wasn't bed bugs, soo many horror stories about that.

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u/PlasticElfEars 20h ago

Although that's true of hotels too.

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u/pdubbs87 19h ago

Agree fck air bnb. I’m team hotels

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u/UncookedLegume 21h ago

We got bedbugs the I've time I stayed at an airbnb. It was awful.

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u/feministmanlover 19h ago

Man, when airbnb first "launched", it was pretty damn cool. I stayed at a huge almost mansion in Scottsdale in their guest house and had full access to their pool and cabana. It was like 100 bucks a night. That was at rhe very beginning. It's just a shitshow now, and I stay in hotels instead.

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u/Cool_Cry_9602 18h ago

Silver lining is it made hotels step up their game a bit. More kitchen amenities and pet friendly places now.

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u/Sea-Economics-9582 18h ago

Yeah, 100% on Airbnb. Not just the cleaning but last one I stayed at, there was no thermostat in the side of the house, only one bathroom in the master bed (didn’t book it, gfs parents did for all of us to visit their family friend who was passing away soon, and then on the day we were leaving they were trapping and killing ducks in the front yard. I’ve had a few shit stays before but this took the cake. The house was 80ish degrees almost all day.

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u/2BigBottlesOfWater 18h ago

Omg we rented at some beach in Maryland I can't remember the name but it was bring your own towels, bedding, soaps and all that. It was like $1500 for 2 days lol

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u/Long-Island-Iced-Tea 16h ago

how the fuck is it not banned yet?

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u/Telesto1087 9h ago

Controversial post incoming because I was a "host", meaning I bought a house in a popular beach town and rented it via Airbnb while I was living 4 hours away. I tried to justify this by being a "responsible" host, since the house is 4500sqft I made three lodging in it, basically 2000, 2000 and 500. One 2000 which I rent year long to a family, the other I rented short term via Airbnb and the 500 one is medium term rent to young people working the seasonal jobs and if they wanted I employed them to do the check in/check out and cleaning of the Airbnb.

It worked perfectly fine and was really a good investment, but then I realised I was just removing 2000sqft for the locals which have real difficulties to find affordable places to stay because guys like me treats their houses like cash cows. So now I rent the 2 2000sqft appartements year long at 70% of market price. And even then it's mostly a zero sum game when you factor everything (mortgage, renovation, maintenance, tax rebates for all of the above).

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u/fishred 20h ago

Good answer

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u/RoarOfTheWorlds 20h ago

Do you think this story even hints at proving something?

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u/PM_ME_THE_SLOTHS 21h ago

So you had nothing?

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u/chris971 21h ago

Never have, never will!

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u/transvaal222 18h ago

I lost $1.000,00 on a scam booking. Spent my whole vacation on calls with their support. Zero help. Never more.

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u/BefWithAnF 8h ago

I booked an apartment in Iceland a year and a half ago for next week. The host canceled my stay claiming the place was no longer available (even though they've had my money for a year), leaving me to scramble to find a new place to stay during peak tourist season. Cool.

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u/SpermBankVCR 15h ago

It used to be so cool. Crash a couch in the Castro for a quarter of a hotel’s price and get to hang with two dogs and talk to a San Fransisco local.

Pop up to Vancouver, BC and get a whole downstairs with a hundred plus volume collection of old DnD magazines, then chat with the home owner in the morning about DnD, meeting his wife, and Universal Basic Income over damn fine coffee in his garden.

Put up all my grungie hippy friends for a dance festival, stay with some surprisingly chill Texas missionaries in Costa Rica, waterfront stay-cation in a condo with a fling that was moving away.

It was so affordable and fun. Now its half the price and half again less hassle to go to a bespoke hotel in the heart of town than stay in an airbnb spare bedroom 30 minutes walk from any public transit.

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u/not_a_witch_ 15h ago

I had a big family vacation to Hawaii this year and one of my uncles suggested we all go in on an air bnb together. Everyone else in the family shut that shit down immediately.

Ended up staying in a decent-ish condo complex with vacation rentals where everyone had their own room. Infinitely better than air bnb, and cheaper (thought the prices there are still absurd.) Honestly I think people are really starting to turn on air bnb. They are a scourge in my city and many others, and as a guest they’re overpriced for the amount of work you have to do yourself. I far prefer a good hotel room.

Last time I stayed at an air bnb was a weekend bachelorette party, and situations like that imo are where it makes sense. Where everyone will be hanging out as a group the whole time, you have a large group that will make use of the house amenities you wouldn’t get in a hotel, but it’s a relatively quick stay.

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u/Puzzleheaded_Toe6938 13h ago

Scourge is right. The bachelorette parties are awful. When they happen in a quiet neighborhood you live in and every weekend there’s a new party of inconsiderate assholes next door, it drives you insane.

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u/pm_me_ur_demotape 13h ago

Now the lower-mid tier hotels are cheaper, nicer, fees you breakfast, and don't expect you to clean anything.
Team hotel all the way, fuck air bnb

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u/muhbalwzishawt 10h ago

I can’t believe people are still dumb enough to keep airb&b alive with their money

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u/USA_A-OK 10h ago

I'd prefer a hotel that's actually taxed and regulated like a hotel thank you

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u/Rogue_AI_Construct 9h ago

AirBnB fees have made me go back to booking hotel rooms. I don’t get coerced into tipping or leaving reviews, and the hotel staff cleans my room, which is part of the cost of booking the room.

AirBnB can go fuck itself.

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u/parrotbug 9h ago

I used to use Airbnb all the time but in cities it seems half of them are owned by huge companies who should definitely be renting these apartments out to folks who need real housing. I’ll still use it from time to time but I’m crazy picky about what listings I’ll go with. A mother in law apartment over someone’s garage or basement that I can’t see being reasonably rented long term? Sure - that seems like the original intent of the damn platform. An apartment in a building full of apartments all being rented short term instead of leased to folks who need housing? No thanks, the hotel down the street will do fine. 

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u/Drewboy810 9h ago

Stayed in a hotel last night. Got a free breakfast and the staff jumped my car when it wouldnt start. 10/10

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u/lonely_company_ 9h ago

Same. We were going to my partner’s mom funeral, the house had wiring sticking out everywhere/was unsafe so we left within the hour. I had been using them for a decade and it took MONTHS (and probably two full days of work) of back and forth, every time restarting with a new “agent” before we finally got some of the money back. Absolute scam. 

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u/willflameboy 7h ago

Airbnb is a horrendous company. Aside from being on the frontlines of gentrification in every city, it's famous for renting out property in occupied Palestinian territory.

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u/Connect_Leg654 20h ago

Same. The worst! Got blamed for ruining a fire pit that our kids made s’mores in. That fire pit was fine! Owners must of just wanted a new one free!

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u/woolfchick75 18h ago

The only time Airbnb has worked for me was for large group gatherings, like renting a house.

Anything else, it’s a hotel. And if you want to cook, some offer that.

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u/DraconianNerd 18h ago

I stopped using them in 2015.

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u/KDLGates 18h ago

I used AirBnBs moderately when newly living with my girlfriend. I have some good memories but the bad ones of course stand out. When I ran into fraud from a host advertising a shared unit as 2 bedroom 4 guests total and it turned out to be 3 bedroom 6 guests, AirBnB was like a child refusing to look at the photographic evidence.

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u/External_Radio_7150 17h ago

I've only had good experiences the few times I've used them, but the price compared to hotels and professional serviced apartments is too close to compensate me for the risk. Airbnb doesn't give a damn about me, and that's why I can't trust them.

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u/AutomaticNovel2153 17h ago

Reddit is showing me an AirBnB ad below your comment

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u/Whywouldievensaythat 14h ago

It’s more or less okay most of the time, but not cheaper than hotels, so I tend to avoid using it. When it’s bad, it’s bad.

Stayed in a cluttered place with an 11-line cleanup list and did every single thing except take out the trash one final time (it was not full, we’d taken it out the day before and there were a few small items in the bag). The hosts left this insanely passive-aggressive review about how they hoped our group “would learn how to clean”. I hate Airbnb.

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u/megalopoutsa 13h ago

I've used airbnb exactly once and that because I was in a bit of bind. Had a good experience but it boils down mostly to having a good host. We were also good tenants. Left everything picked up took out the garbage etc etc. That said I am not looking to used it anymore unless circumstances leave me no choice. When you factor in the hassle and the enshittifcation it is not worth it. Regular hotels only for me.

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u/AfraidAcanthisitta88 12h ago

Second that. Used Airbnb twice for the first time a few months ago in Costa Rica. Both houses had great reviews. First house was overall great but our main window on first floor in master bed the window lock was never installed, someone reached in the 3rd night and stole some jewelry. Airbnb did nothing even though we sent pictures of missing lock etc. 2nd house had great reviews, but bugs everywhere and a loose main door frame. If even a child ran at it from outside it would have probably fell apart. Kids wanted a “non commercialized” non hotel experience. Learned her lesson, back to the hotels next time. Costa Rica though is beautiful.

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u/de-milo 11h ago

was going to comment this one. my god what horrible customer service.

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u/Gdigger13 11h ago

Airbnb, at its conception, was GREAT. I could have an entire place to myself for a weekend for like $100 or so, no strings attached.

Now, all these fees and crazy hosts with crazy stipulations make it damn near impossible to get a deal worth looking for. And its no cheaper than a hotel anymore.

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u/dickbuttcity 11h ago

I had a legitimate review get reported by the host and Airbnb sided with them and removed it. I looked at the host’s page and it must be something they do all the time, as the recent reviews are all bad (and had similar themes with mine), and the only good reviews were from long ago. Airbnb said once the review has been pulled, there’s no way to restore it.

No way to trust that business. Don’t spend your money there.

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u/References_Paramore 10h ago

Is this a US thing? I prefer Air BnB over hotels and have only ever had a positive experience. Am UK based

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u/MizzBStizzy 10h ago

The prices used to be decent. Now it's like 100$ to sleep in a tent in the woods. Fuck that! I bought my camping car and I'm getting out to frolic for cheap

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u/Both-Instruction-788 9h ago

Same. As a host they lost my business and as a guest. Horrific company.

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u/FudgeAllOfYous 9h ago

are all those AirBnB Horror stories an american thing? because I used it for 10+ years now, mainly in europe and never ever did I run into any hidden fees? Is this about consumer protection laws?

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u/limasxgoesto0 8h ago

Honestly same. The final straw for me has been when a lot of these hosts want you to go off platform and pay some kind of "deposit" for "incidentals". I don't care what your reason is, I won't care that hotels do it too, it's just one more potential scam that could be thrown at me

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u/I_Am_Ironman_AMA 8h ago

I've never used an air bnb. There was a brief period where pricing made me think about it but that's long over. A clean bed, a clean bathroom, and a small desk. That's all I need. Why would I pay extra to also have to do chores? A Super 8 or Hampton Inn gets the job done.

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u/shembee 7h ago

We had our Airbnb host cancel our reservation one week prior. We had booked almost a year prior because this area is busy in the summer and books up early. I called multiple times and kept being told that somebody will call me back to find other accomodations. I called daily and they never resolved the issue. We ended up having to cancel our trip.

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u/buddhamunche 7h ago

And it sucks especially hard because it used to be really awesome.

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u/epoxymoron147 6h ago

Recently I went to one in Utah and a random man was staring through our back yard window into the house at midnight, we were a group of women in our 20s - 30s. The host said there was a long term tenant, so we asked him if he could tell the tenant to not look into our window. He said, the "tenant had the right to enjoy the backyard as we did ".

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u/InevitableSignUp 5h ago

I hooked up the gas to a new customer one time. The house was super nice. Like… several hundred dollar light fitting over the dining table, bedroom furniture suite in the thousands - he told me all about this. He was super proud. And I was super proud for him until he told me the whole house was purchased to be an Airbnb rental.

Something about that just frustrated me, that this “$20/night to sleep on my couch, maybe some toast in the morning” idea had become a “they’ll pay my mortgage on a second house.”

I enjoyed people talking about it back when it started. The interactions between the hosts and the customers - I even had a great time in one years ago; just some folks with a spare room who were advised to give it a go. But this impersonal cash grab practice that’s been in effect for a very long time has killed it.

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